I am visibilityofcolor this is my main blog.

i just don't feel like changing the id or whatever for a blog im not even that active on so pls don't block me if u follow voc. if this follows you, it means voc is following you.

[visibilitymains]

lol i should’ve clarified because even i get worried when people follow me without blog content

this is the main blog for @/visibilityofcolor :D. so if i follow you it’s just visibltiyofcolor following.

[trunk--slamchest]

People talk of Tumblr history with all of the hushed tones of like, high school gossip. We need to drop that shit and go full open about it, like Charlie Murphy's Hollywood Stories

[trunk--slamchest]

"Yeah I'm the one who got text editing banned. Any two bit website gives me that power and some washed up Midwestern writer with his group of 'Nerdfighters', you bet I'd use it to say he loved the taste of dick. He might've deleted that post, but itll stay on here forevah."

[trunk--slamchest]

"So they organize this convention right? All these panels, all these fandom guys AND they were gonna get a ball pit..."

[bebe-benzenheimer]

"Aight, so one day this Hamilton AU blog pops up by some Chinese-Pakistani human trafficking survivor living in India who said they got the HIV and had a eyeball removed-"

[trunk--slamchest]

People talk of Tumblr history with all of the hushed tones of like, high school gossip. We need to drop that shit and go full open about it, like Charlie Murphy's Hollywood Stories

[trunk--slamchest]

"Yeah I'm the one who got text editing banned. Any two bit website gives me that power and some washed up Midwestern writer with his group of 'Nerdfighters', you bet I'd use it to say he loved the taste of dick. He might've deleted that post, but itll stay on here forevah."

[trunk--slamchest]

"So they organize this convention right? All these panels, all these fandom guys AND they were gonna get a ball pit..."

[bebe-benzenheimer]

"Aight, so one day this Hamilton AU blog pops up by some Chinese-Pakistani human trafficking survivor living in India who said they got the HIV and had a eyeball removed-"

[weaver-z]

This satire article resonated with me so much

[socialistexan]

For satire that sure hit me in the gut in the most personal way possible.

[dniudsnf]

listen i’m so here for they/them pronouns but if a trans man uses he/him and you call him they because calling him he makes you uncomfortable, ur transphobic 

[sludgebat]

same absolutely goes for trans women, as well.

[lil-lycanthropy]

Degendering is an act of misgendering. If you know someone’s pronouns, and you refuse to use them and you use they/them instead, that’s still misgendering and you need to stop. It’s no different than using he/him if you’re referring to someone who goes by she/her. If you know the person’s pronouns, use them. Don’t weasel your way around it.

[nenastrology]

tho kishimoto cannot write women he did tap into something very real about how insane 12 year old girls are like they are all various flavors of weird kids u met in middle school sakuras the like kind of mean girl who is like glaring at people as she raises her hand higher than everyone else in class and is like teetering on the edge of bullying someone you know… hinata is the weird girl who barely speaks except tells you she can speak to fairies or ghosts or something ino is the cool girl who always dresses really fun and is also kinda mean and asks you who you have a crush on in like a kind of mocking way but like chills out a ton in high school karin is obviously the cookie monster pajamas and dyed red hair girl this has been established and temari is the jock 8th grader whos kind of scary to the 12 year olds buts like super normal actually id love to say something about tenten idk she has like a million pens in a little box she carries around…

[euryalus-deactivated20220430]

today, 8th of april, is the international rromani day. today the rroma are still subjected to discrimination, marginalisation and segregation. discrimination is widespread in every field of public and personal life, including access to public places, education, employment, health services and housing. the rroma community is still not regarded as an ethnic or national minority group in every member state (in europe) and thus it does not enjoy the rights pertaining to this status in all the countries concerned.

bring awareness of this issue. this is a map with that reflects the size of the rroma population in each european country.

Some sites to donate money to help to better the life of rroma communities:

Secretariado Gitano (Spain)

Roma Edutional Fund (International)

European Roma Grassroots Organisations Network (International)

Roma support group (UK)

@oprerroma has a lot of resources and organisations on her bio where you can donate to.

Feel free to add your paypal, cashapp, etc to this post if you're rroma. Also if you know of local/national organisations that accept donations add them to this post as well.

[thedisabledfemme]

Listen to Black disabled people is all I’m saying

[visibilitymains]

That weird moment when u try to block someone and end up liking their posts on accident lol

[visibilitymains]

callout doc for: melanthae racism, stalking, harassment, etc – please share.

update, so this is also posted on my @visibilityofcolor blog but I also want to post it here so that it can show up in her tags as well! she has my blogs blocked so she cannot see this nor it is it my intend for her too--but it’s important for me that people looking in her tag see this so they know harmful she is. i also don’t check this blog either but just wanted to post it here especially since as of yesterday he is still mentioning/harassing me.

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I absolutely hate that I have to do this, but no matter what I try to do, the harassment keeps coming back up.

That said, I have created a detailed callout document for ladynephthyss/melanthae or opehlia. This google doc complies her transmisogyny, her support of tranadrophobia and the racist/transmisogynstic creator and community, her racism, her harassment, her suicide baiting, her lies and the way she explicitly targets black people and opens them up to be racially harassed.

a lot of you may know her as the ‘hot girl summer girl’ or the girl who made another variation of hotgirlsummer and was harassed for it. and while she didn’t deserve to be harassed, that doesn’t excuse her anti blackness, her transphobia and her dangerous personality in general.

It goes without being said, but ladynephthyss and her friends, do not share, interact with me or comment on this post.

tw lesbophobbia, anti black racism, slurs, transmisogyny, stalking, suicide baiting, etc. Opehlia is not a good person, at all. She is actually terribly, esepcially to Black women and trans people.

Here is the doc that explains everything about her. If you have any questions, please please do not hesitate to ask me. If you have had a bad run in with her, please talk to me and I’ll add it to the doc.

some more notes underneath

i really did not want to make this, but i do not know what to do in the face of harassment and lying. I have quite literally TRIED to ignore his girl and she comes up with the wildest lies every single day.

[coloured-braids]

‘fros and braided lesbians

[visibilityofcolor]

callout doc for: ladynephthyss/melanthae racism, stalking, harassment, etc -- please share.

I absolutely hate that I have to do this, but no matter what I try to do, the harassment keeps coming back up.

That said, I have created a detailed callout document for ladynephthyss/melanthae or opehlia. This google doc complies her transmisogyny, her support of tranadrophobia and the racist/transmisogynstic creator and community, her racism, her harassment, her suicide baiting, her lies and the way she explicitly targets black people and opens them up to be racially harassed. 

a lot of you may know her as the ‘hot girl summer girl’ or the girl who made another variation of hotgirlsummer and was harassed for it. and while she didn’t deserve to be harassed, that doesn’t excuse her anti blackness, her transphobia and her dangerous personality in general. 

It goes without being said, but ladynephthyss and her friends, do not share, interact with me or comment on this post. 

tw lesbophobbia, anti black racism, slurs, transmisogyny, stalking, suicide baiting, etc. Opehlia is not a good person, at all. She is actually terribly, esepcially to Black women and trans people. 

Here is the doc that explains everything about her. If you have any questions, please please do not hesitate to ask me. If you have had a bad run in with her, please talk to me and I’ll add it to the doc. 

some more notes underneath 

Keep reading

[visibilitymains]

actually, i decided to take the post down. it appears she remade, and if she isnt saying anything else then i’m not gonna bring it back up but if she does, then yeah i’ll repost it.

[qumrah-deactivated20220523]

Hello! I am an Afro-Arab Muslim teacher who could use some help. I was off work for seven days due to getting Covid this month, and therefore my recent paycheck was very low & not enough to pay my bills. I am going to apply for L&I, but that does take a long time to receive. If I could get some help in the meantime (just for my utilities bill, meds, and groceries) I would appreciate it a lot. I will pay it forward when I’m able to. Please do not feel compelled to help if you’re struggling yourself: I know it’s been hard on all of us. (And minors please do not interact.) Take care and thank you! 🖤

Kofi: here! | Cshapp: $AzElise | Vnmo: azzylon

[qumrah-deactivated20220523]

Sorry to reblog this again, but I’m still struggling to make it to the end of the month and could use additional support for HRT, insulin, and glucose test strips. I really appreciate it. 🖤

[visibilityofcolor]

So yeah—but I think y’all REALLY need to block whitehairedanimeboyfriend. Not only is he friends with like, dead-dyke, ladynephthyss, nothorses, etc., and has issues with anti blackness. But he is also very transmisogynstic like the rest of them are but this specifically is very iffy:

the belief that trans women are trying to emulate teenage girls or act like teenage girls, is a terf dog whistle because terfs say this weird shit to call trans women predatory, and act as if they’re targeting or trying to attract teen girls.

but more than anything, this is just a weird thing to say and idk why a trans man is speaking of trans fems transitions.

also it’s weird because cis women do like, sometimes dress up like in like anime girl aesthetics and stuff and no one says anything. like cis women will cosplay and sometimes even emulate their favorite anime girl characters. but when like, trans girls do it it’s a problem. like when trans girls like anime aesthetics and wanna emulate or feel comfortable in anime characters then suddenly it’s them trying to look like 14 year olds–but not when cis women do it–I–

anyway, just block this person

also–when you ask why i don’t like the term transandrophobia, it’s because of this. because people who use this term to describe themselves are also these same people who will randomly go after trans women when trans women have nothing to do wiht them 

[blackfilmmakers]

So ophelia is back at it again where she writes up a long pity passage about how mean Black people are to her for liking Shakespeare or whatever. Not that it matters to her that the majority of Black blogs that called her out are a part of alt or geek culture. In her eyes we are all the same MTS fanatics. Does it go against her idea of how Black people are allowed to enjoy things that aren’t considered part of “Black culture”? And that we shouldn’t be grouped together? Of course, but at this point I think we get that was never her true stance. The only ones who don’t care enough to check how credible her ludicrous statements are are her truther friends

Anyways, what I really wanted to bring up was this part of the passage (tw: slur mention)

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2 things

1)Neither of these blogs said this. I did

2)I never said n***er. I said “Oreo”. She’s the one who screenshotted our entire conversation and even this specific part

I already went into the actual context of this here, so if you care enough to read up on it, go right ahead

I got the second screenshot through a mutual, and assumed this was directed @ me. Also because I got a few random anons about her around the time she started doing this. But now I see she continues to use other people’s words (taking out entire contexts and straight up lying) to make it seem these two blogs are harrassing her

Her new thing is telling people she deleted her supposed evidence because it upsetted her, even though she continues sending people to harass these blogs. It’s obvious that’s her way of avoiding telling people the truth, and others looking back at her previous statements

That’s all I wanted to point out for now

(She and anyone that follows her aren’t allowed to interact with me)

[visibilityofcolor]

She literally lies and makes up everything she says.

She tries so hard to be like ‘black people hate me because of what i like’ when the vast majority of black people call her out like the exact same things she does or are in geek/alt culture and types of culture similar to her.

Thank you for this, and I also know she harassed you and lied about you as well, and possible sent racists your way, and you didn’t deserve that either.

I have no clue what I or my sister did for her to pin everything said about her on us, when everything she’s accusing us of saying, we didn’t say it. And she stretches the truth, she lies, etc., And she knows she doesn’t have to tell the truth because she has powerful/popular racist friends who will back her up. I’m really sick right now and don’t know what else to do but share and report her. 

Thank you for this. I know she and her followers are still going to lie and harass black people though

and it’s funny, she can’t even tell her black her black people apart. she literally finds something one black person said, and says the others did it or whatever, and she just bullies the ones that are easier for her to. IDK what we did to be her victims but oh fucking well.

and she can’t even be right about her own fucking evidence.

[uptownthots-deactivated20220714]

From what I’ve seen a majority of people supporting her victim complex are nbs using her lies as proof that black people she doesn’t like are all horrible reverse racists who attacked her because they thought she was white. Idk why she’s needs white approval and attention soooooo badly like?????

[visibilityofcolor]

and the funny thing is she is literally BEGGING for white attention:

Like she hates other black people so much that she is lying, harassing and begging white people to share her posts about them and do the same. she doesn’t care about black people or making space safe for black people. especially given that most black people who dislike her, like the same things she does. she really just wants white approval. and not just that, but she wants white people to harass black people she doesn’t like

and you are right. most people who are agreeing with her are nonblack (especially white) people who are using this as an excuse to harass and hurt black people and she’s giving them the excuse to do that.

[visibilityofcolor]

Hey y’all can you please reblog

so as you know ladynephthyss (opehlia) has been lying about, stalking and harassing @witches-ofcolor​ and I and saying that we suicide baited her with no evidence, despite the fact that she actually suicide baited us and we have the evidnece.

now she is lying to her primarily non black followers and accusing us of calling her a nigger which we never did. this whole post is basically her lying about us and blaming us for harassment that we never put her through. mind you, she has no proof.  because we never did any of that. 

we never this at all. i never said anything listed above nor did my sister and i.

she again is also lying that we are suicide baiting her with no evidence.

she also lied that we told people she was white with no evidence.

despite the fact that this never happened and she actually suicide baited us while also sending me anons on various accounts doing the same thing.

she is also friends with incredibly racist white and nonblack people who have been harassing us and being racist to us for months.

ladynephthyss is also the reason im taking a break from this account and will probably end up deleting soon because of her racial harassment. i’m sorry to pop back up, please please please reblog this because she is lying. 

she is also encouraging white people to reblog the post and harass us. she is literally encouraging white people to reblog a post lying about two black trans people, to harass us and blaming us for things we didn’t do.

please reblog because at this point i don’t know what else to do.

[visibilityofcolor]

UPDATE, 

can you all please help me in reporting her? Usually, I don’t agree with mass reporting but i don’t know what else to do in this case.

https://www.tumblr.com/abuse/harassment

So–you can report her for 

a.) suicide baiting my sister and i, and are followers while also lying that we did the same thing to her with no proof–but we have proof she did it:

https://ladynephthyss.tumblr.com/post/677663039818956800/look-im-tired-if-you-want-to-believe-im-lying

b.) lying that my sister and I called her racial slurs which we never did with no evidence, and encouraging white people to reblog those posts and harass us on her lies of us calling her racial slurs 

https://ladynephthyss.tumblr.com/post/678273232888119296/one-of-the-things-about-my-hot-girl-summer-post

c. digging up my old blogs that i haven’t used because i was harassed out of those fandoms for fandom racism. she had no way to know that these were my blogs unless she was digging through my personal information or befriending people who had been racist to me in the past. one of the blogs i had to end up deleting because of her racial harassment.

and in all these conversations she has lied that we harassed her and that we called her white, suicide baited her, etc., with no proof. she has, during all of this, sided with and sought out white and nonblack poc who have racially harassed us for months and she’s been lying about me and my sister and stalking our blogs.

this again all began with the whole megan thee stallion stuff and i had absolutely not interacted with her directly during it (i only interacted with her weeks after the fact when she was lying about my blog), and i had blocked her very early on and never spoke to her directly. despite the fact that she had been sending me anons suicide baiting me and harassing me, i ignored her. i mentioned things about the incident off handed on my blog, but none of it was directed toward her and none of it was harassment. 

there WERE people who harassed her, there WERE people who suicide baited her and called her white. and i actually denounced that behavior i never EVER did anything she accused me of. She knows this, she knows my sister and i did nothing she is accusing us of, but continues to pin it on us, because again she is friends with extremely racist whit people who have been harassing us and other black trans people and trans women for months. 

she started saying we were harassing her after my sister reached out to her and saw she was in distress. you can read that conversation here.

but nothing she has said about us is true. she has no proof, yet here we are with it. PLEASE report her. she is dangerous, abusive, toxic and an awful person and i truly do not know what else to do anymore.