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thecalminside

Feel, now, as you are. As brave as you are. Be as human as you are. It’s ok, breathe, be as you are here and now.

sewerhawk

ghostlywriterr

Chatsworth House, Derbyshire.

jaredatkinsphoto

Yosemite Valley, September 2013

limitedgacha

chisato to kanon

chisato to kaoru

biseugen

this is powerful.

#bang dream

justvisiting-bowie-blog

#david bowie

neanmoins-que

15.08

52/53

You tried so hard and got so far

#danganronpa #ndrv3 #tsumugi shirogane

liquidstar

cinematic parallels

liquidstar

theyre both upset because the other one showed up to the tea party with the same outfit on

liquidstar

edward is looking at his coffee knowing full well that shinji is staring him down, but shinji won’t start shit because he knows he cant beat ed in a fight.

liquidstar

dialog

porterr-robinson

relishboi

as the quality of everything in the world decreases, the quality of pictures of cats increases tenfold, and the rise has been exceptional for the past two years

relishboi

this picture literally is divine influence

hminteresting

The pharaohs daughter finding Moses at the riverbank

relishboi

this reply completely knocked the wind out of me

snackwizard

a fools guide to not wanting to die anymore

by me, a fool who doesnt wanna die anymore

never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.

find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.

talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore

picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else

if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.

wildlyannoyingdoofus

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That’s some pretty good advice. I don’t know what’s left of my humor after ‘guess I’ll just die’ jokes but it’s worth a shot.

snackwizard

Personally i went from “guess I’ll die” jokes to “IF I HAVE TO BE HERE FOR 5 MORE MINUTES I PROMISE YOU I WILL BUY JUST, AN ARRAY OF CLOTHES.” and other wild hyperbolic stuff. Just replace the death part with something ridiculous and off topic. Its very entertaining

808lien

This also works with calling myself things like stupid, worthless, trash, etc. Even if you do this jokingly to yourself, your brain still believes it, and keeps up the cycle. Seriously, I found that when I stopped saying these things about myself, even jokingly, it made a massive difference.

maramahan

Here’s a tip I picked up from a friend that’s helped me a lot — replace self deprecating jokes with ironically self aggrandizing jokes

Like every time I trip and fall, instead of saying “l’m just a disaster human” I say “I’m the epitome of grace and beauty”

Or like, when I draw a picture I’m not 100% happy with, instead of saying “my art is trash” I say something like “you know I think it’s time we replaced the Mona Lisa”

When you do that you get to make a joke, but you’re ALSO getting practice building yourself up, y’know?

And eventually it becomes a reflex and you get so used to it that you can say nice stuff about yourself even when you AREN’T joking