weirdbraincustard

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[weirdbraincustard]

your brain is designed to help you survive, not to help you manifest!

your overthinking is simply a brain function to help you survive or tackle future hurt. this applies to negative thoughts as well. don't assume the worst case scenario to be the truth. all of your thoughts are not the truth. learn to separate thought from assumption and feelings. they are all three different things.

make yourself a safe space for your negative thoughts- where you can really reassure yourself, observe your triggers & reclaim your power. remember that you are in charge of who you are & what you assume - not your thoughts.

you don't have to entertain every single thought your brain comes up with - including the negative ones. being afraid of your negative thoughts is a result of not allowing yourself to feel safe within your own mind. thoughts are random & sometimes you should simply observe the negative thought & choose to not identify with it.

[catherineaboutlife]

How to stop fighting and just live the life of your dreams?

In short: relax.

It doesn’t matter what exactly you want to manifest - a nose of a different shape or an entrance to a Void State. You don't have to fight for your desires. So stop and relax.

Your desires will not go away if you just stop and relax. You have nowhere to rush, no matter what the circumstances.

You may think that if you allow yourself to stop struggling and live a calm and happy life right now, no matter the circumstances, then you will no longer be in control of the situation. But this is a false opinion.

Why do you need to stop and relax?

Because you are pure consciousness, even if you are not fully aware of it.

Pure consciousness does not know what it is to doubt, worry, fear, etc. Relaxation, calmness and enjoyment of the present moment - this is the true state of pure consciousness! And any destructive feelings and states are the ego.

Have you wondered why there are so many success stories from the Void State? People manifest absolutely any desires from this state instantly! Answer: because in this state there is no ego.

It is the ego that makes you fight. But now you know that you don't need to do this. Because you are more than your ego. You are pure consciousness and your mission is to enjoy life in a completely relaxed and calm state. Right now.

What can you do to stop and relax?

Literally stop.

Understand that any doubting or anxious thoughts are the voice of the ego, which is tied to the physical world, logic and the fight for a better life. But you are more than the ego. You are pure consciousness. When you become aware of such thoughts, literally shut up that voice of the ego and remind yourself that you are pure consciousness and you do not need to fight.

Observe the world around you. No thoughts. Just look, listen, touch, smell, taste if you can eat it. Realize that you are everything.

Breathe. Watch your breathing and understand that you are alive, which means that no matter what happens, everything can be changed (only now without a fight).

Give yourself permission to live fully and happily right now. Find pleasure in everything!

Don't be afraid that time is running out. Time is also an illusion. You may think that time is something that is constantly changing, but in reality it is not moving anywhere. You are simply aware of a certain time. If you are not attached to the ego, which thinks that everything should be logical, then you can even “move” through time (in fact, you are just aware of a certain time, but you are not moving anywhere, this is not a parallel reality).

Let go of control. Nothing bad will happen if you let go of control. Because you are still always in control of reality as pure consciousness, aware of it according to your inner world. Let go of control as the ego.

Relax. Don't hurry. Don't fight. Don't listen to the ego. Don't doubt. Don't be afraid.

What will happen?

If you really stop fighting and relax, you will finally realize that all this time you have been fighting for nothing. You don't have to fight. Why fight the natural awareness of reality according to your inner world?

What will happen? Your dream life! Life in abundance, richness, pleasure, tranquility, peace and relaxation and with all your desires.. This is what you really want, right? 😉

This is not a technique or a “five minute practice.” This is about your whole life. Just understand this.

[weirdbraincustard]

how to feel deserving of your desires

~ a small guide

1. get rid of moral perfectionism

everyone likes having a clean moral slate. but you cannot avoid making mistakes. you hurt someone? you said the wrong thing? you overextended yourself? acted too soon, too rashly? don't worry, it's all fixable. making a mistake is not the end of the world. you are much more than just your past mistakes. allow yourself grace as you are living this life for the first time & navigating your way only with the tools your consciousness is currently aware of.

moral perfectionism will never let you feel good enough or better enough no matter what you do. remember that guilt holds you back from feeling deserving of better things because you've now labelled and judged yourself as a bad person who is not capable of growth.

remember you are always growing, learning to live and aren't the sum of your mistakes. you've come here to live and a part of it is to forgive people and be forgiven for making mistakes. as soon as you forgive the past version of you who made those mistakes & offer compassion to yourself, you detach & return to your god self much easier.

2. assuming the worst case scenario is holding you back

your brain is programmed to help you survive, not manifest. thinking and dwelling on worst case scenarios is a brain function to protect you from dangers. But more often than not, it is only self destructive, addictive and a myopic way of thinking. allow people and circumstances to exist outside of your limited scope of thinking. not everyone is out to get you, not everyone hates you, not everyone intends to trigger you or make you angry.

as soon as you realise that people and events can exist independently without targeting you all the time, you'd be free. allow people and circumstances to be, without assuming the worst out of them. most times, we react, overthink and reaffirm those thoughts into reality with the amount of intensity we place behind them. you don't have to dwell on every feeling or thought that your mind thinks, you have the power to select. you can always take a step back before you react or attach meaning to it.

3. people pleasing + no boundaries = disrespect to your godself

prioritising others over your wellbeing results in burnout, resentment, and a diminished sense of self-worth. when you abandon your boundaries, you abandon yourself. abandoning yourself is NOT the cost you pay to keep the peace or make people or situations stay in your life. by assuming you must please others to be valued, you attract people & events that reinforce this dynamic, leading to ongoing self-disrespect & unworthiness.

If you assume that setting boundaries will lead to rejection or conflict, you will avoid establishing them, leading to situations where others reflect it back to you. this lack of boundaries reflects a belief that your comfort and well-being are less important than maintaining harmony. which it isn't, so set boundaries, do not take BS. and remember. you are deserving simply because you exist.

take up space, own your needs & watch your self talk

taking up space and having your own needs is about recognizing and honoring your self-worth. start by embracing who you are, strengths and weaknesses included. don't be afraid to communicate your needs clearly and confidently-being assertive helps others understand your boundaries. remember to set and maintain healthy boundaries to protect yourself.

be vigilant and watch how you talk to yourself. you would never talk crap about your loved ones in the way you can talk crap about yourself. you can really be your harshest critic without even knowing. monitor your inner conversations and note everything you unknowingly believe about yourself. slowly, change those thoughts to fit your new self. prioritise self-care and do things that nourish you. respect yourself enough to demand respect from others. understand that having needs doesn't make you weak; it makes you human.

revert to your god self

your highest self operates with purity & authenticity. it operates solely upon love and abundance. this version of you knows no limitations & is your god self that can manifest everything it feels the desire for. by connecting with this authentic part of yourself, you manifest from a place of inner peace and knowing, with no urge to "make things happen".

to connect with your higher self and trust in manifestation, start by letting go of the need to do something to make your manifestation happen. cultivating trust & believing your higher self is manifesting your desire without you having to interfere, is key. the more you agitate, the more you disconnect from your desire. surround yourself with positive influences-people, environments and media that uplift you. cultivate gratitude for what you have, as it raises your vibration and aligns you with abundance. finally, act from a place of love and compassion, both for yourself & others, to stay aligned with your higher self's true nature.

happy manifesting!

[primulaceas]

Ottessa Moshfegh, Eileen

[weirdbraincustard]

i have a question about law of assumption, if there is so much people who are in law of assumption for long years like 3 to 4 and isn't that proof itself that loa is a lie? i mean how can you teach yourself something for over 3 years yet have nothing? i compare it to this i'm horrible at math and i cried in math class daily but if you gave me a test and 3 years to learn i"m 190 % sure i would do it perfectly...

firstly, i’m not sure you’re on the right blog or area of interest if you’ve asked me that question.

i’m a little unsure what you’re implying. i’m not here still because i don’t know if it works. people like me who continually talk about it, are people who practice it and believe in it because they have cultivated years of experiences & evidence.

i have “consciously” manifested prestigious universities, vacations and SPs etc over time & different circumstances, i simply share my journey. my perspective and experience broadens with time which is why i’m still here, to share what i continually learn & have manifested.

[weirdbraincustard]

affirm out loud!

the universe spoils and rewards me for simply existing

i am utterly blessed and highly favoured

i am rare and unforgettable!

i am insanely attractive- body, mind & soul

i turn heads wherever i go

miracles are always happening for me

only the best opportunities and people find me

i only expect & deserve the best treatment

the universe spoils & pampers me

i am rare and unforgettable

the universe is a genie that grants me unlimited wishes

everything in the world conspires to make me happy, healthy, wealthy & loved

[weirdbraincustard]

newsflash babes‼️‼️

you don’t have to believe your circumstances are gone when it seems impossible to feel that. you only have to allow the existence of a possibility in your mind that things change and can be resolved.

just allowing the possibility to exist in your mind works! most times we block out even the possibility of it happening, without even realising. the very first step is allow the existence of a possibility in your mind, before you even want to conjure up the state of “believing”.

[weirdbraincustard]

do you have a hard time believing your SP can change?

I got you! read this carefully:

when we only believe & place power in the 3D versions of our SP, claiming that this version of them is their true selves , we claim and dismiss any scope for them to change or reciprocate our love at all. we dismiss their higher self aka version of them that loves you.

we cage our SP in our limited thinking, assumptions and expectations of them. we thus, never allow the change we so badly want, within them. because we ourselves don’t believe they can change. to allow it, we need to let it exist first in our minds before it births itself into the 3D.

even if your SP is acting up and not conforming to your beliefs right now, there is a version of them that exists which loves you unconditionally. it is their higher self which is incapable of anything else apart from loving unconditionally. yes, their higher self knows what you have is special. all you need to do is connect with that version of them.

in the words of @manifestingwithkimberly, the higher self is pure, unadulterated consciousness. it operates on unconditional love and knows no limits. in other words, this version of you and your SP have none of the "problems" that you guys seem to have in the current 3D. none of them. your higher selves only radiate unconditional love towards each other, if you tap into them. don't get me wrong, you are already connected, the key is to connect & focus on their higher self instead of their 3D self. that's where most of us get stuck.

you can connect with your SP’s higher self by affirming, visualising and scripting being with the version of them that is your energetic match, not dwelling on their 3D self. you’re allowed to distance from them if that makes you feel better.

but the first step is to allow the possibility of it to exist in your mind. most of us don’t even allow that unknowingly!

[weirdbraincustard]

*SP visualisation exercise*

for when things ended badly and you’re in no contact with your SP

step 1 : close your eyes and bring your attention towards your own breath. i like having meditation music in the background which is subtle & isn't too distracting.

step 2 : after you feel focused, tap into the higher version of yourself — in any way you imagine it to be. i personally like visualising myself radiating golden light, in a beautiful long lace dress, radiating peace, love and ethereal beauty. she feels safe to my wounded self whenever i am in turmoil.

step 3 : what does their higher self feel like to you? more than the appearance, focus on how they feel — warm, inviting, caring, safe? visualise them. feel their energy, the unconditional love and safety they radiate. i personally love seeing them in the same golden light as me.

step 4 : visualise sitting with them, holding them, hugging them - dissolve all your anger and grudges with each other. hear them and yourself apologise to each other, extend compassion and unconditional love. say what you want to say and allow them to - sometimes it is surprising what you may hear.

keep practicing this, you feel will immense sense of calm and peace towards your SP when you confide in their higher self more than their 3D self.

over time, what i find surprising is, your spiritual connection with them will get stronger & sometimes you will even hear things they actually feel and want to communicate to you. such is the immense power of thought transmission and telepathy.

[weirdbraincustard]

where ego ends, the god self emerges

addressing the “gap” you feel between your current and your higher self :

ego rushes, god self trusts

the desire to control everything, try too hard, go out of your way to make things happen, all of it stems from "working hard to feel you truly deserve it" aka limited logical thinking, aka the ego. the ego wants everything right now. it has the impatience of a spoiled child.

it is needy because its peace, sense of self and happiness depends upon receiving that particular desire. ego is mistrusting of your god self, only feels powerful when it has control. even if you get your desire, your issues will still remain. unless one dissolves neediness, they can't possibly be their god self.

god self is the state of peace & knowing. it doesn't control, it doesn't dwell on what others did or what happened. it believes in its authenticity and power. it knows that the desire is meant to be. the more you feel unsafe about your power within your own mind, the more your ego takes over your day to day thinking.

ego limits perspective

ego talks about self as the victim, it seems to hold the key of sanity by asserting control, which if any circumstance makes it feel it doesn't have, erupts in statements like : I AM TRIGGERED, I AM TARGETTED, I AM UNLOVED, I AM WRONGED, I AM MISUNDERSTOOD, I AM I AM I AM...

ego is not necessarily a bad thing, it was designed to protect you, it wasn't designed to help you manifest. ego hyper focuses on the aspects of your reality that you cannot control. it only creates the illusion of control.

to let go of ego, you have to let go of the urge to control what you cannot and should not. anything outside of your reactions and perspective, is something you cannot control. the more you make peace with this fact, the easier it is to be in peace. god self knows to only change within, not anything outside of you - not other people's behaviours, not their actions and not even circumstances. true manifestation happens when we trust our god self. it happens when we allow it without interfering through our mistrusted 3D reactions.

ego makes you hold grudges

we often dwell on thoughts and events, replaying negative ones to find out why it happened and how you could have avoided it, how the other person acted or why that event happened the way it did. the truth is, accept that it had to happen that way. things happened exactly as they did & you need to make peace with it. you can revise this but know that things can always change.

remember that circumstances and people do not hold the power to define who you are. you are not what happened to you or who wronged you. grudges and fixation on negative events come from the loss of power & hurt ego. the more you give them the power to make you feel unworthy, the more you lose touch from your god self that has no limitations & operates from unconditional love.

focus on forgiving yourself before forgiving people/circumstances. you don't have to dwell on every event, feeling or thought that your mind thinks of, you have the power to select what you focus on & what you let define yourself & your journey. you can always take a step back before you react or attach meaning to it.

how to dissolve ego?

focus inward, soothe yourself, let go of the idea that you need to work hard to deserve your desire. god self doesn't try, it knows. it knows the desire is theirs, cultivate trust on your own mind and potential. the reason you don't feel safe within your mind is the same reason why you fear every negative thought. you have to be your safe space. trust that you can handle whatever happens without abandoning yourself.

embrace your negative thoughts, feel your physical reactions to them and allow them to dissolve without identifying with them. the negative thoughts won't stop but your reaction to them can certainly change. the more you fear negative thoughts and run away from them, the more unsafe you feel within your own self. how sad is that. let go of the control, trust your god self to know what you're manifesting and simply focus on the present. it is so easy to overthink about the past and future, forgetting to live in the present. live this moment and turn your focus inward, nourish yourself and trust the rest upto your god self. it will happen, you got this!

[weirdbraincustard]

the pedestal is yours too

i am important to my SP.

they are lucky to have me in their life.

i bring joy, love, comfort and growth to them.

my SP is grateful to have known me as much as i am grateful to have known them.

we are mirrors to each other resulting in tremendous self-discovery.

i treat my SP as someone i love & someone who loves me. right now. despite everything. i try to be kinder and sit with my triggers that have nothing to do with them. i do not harbour resentment towards their current 3D version because i know i somewhere created this and i have the power to do differently now.

i love them for who they are right now, even if they’re not the ideal version we want them to be and allow them to flourish into a better person. i love them through their unfinished current 3D version, the obstacles, the triggers - because my higher self knows these things are trivial in the long run.

if we continue energetically projecting “SP is not doing enough for me” , “SP is not mirroring my affirmations” and “SP just loves to push all my buttons”, how do we expect to feel loved & cherished?

we can’t expect to receive love, adoration and contentment if we are constantly viewing our SP with the lens of scrutiny, how they’re not enough, how they’re not doing things for you etc. we focus so much on the lack that we forget to be kind to them. they’re also on their own spiritual journey, they’re too learning to live.

detach your SP from your triggers and take a good & kind look at them. understanding them , where they come from & what you can do to soothe them is something you’ll learn along the way. your triggers are the key to manifesting. your triggers are an opportunity to understand why you are the way you are.

[recomvery]

Your self worth is not determined by how many men find you attractive or by a certain men not finding you attractive/ wanting to be with you. For every man that doesn't want you, there is a woman in the street thinking you're pretty.

[thecalminside]

Happiness is your nature. It is not wrong to desire it. What is wrong is seeking it outside when it is inside.

-Ramana Maharshi

[recomvery]

You're allowed to take up space and exist, with all of your needs and problems. You are not a burden, you are not annoying, especially if you depend on other people's care in some capacity, people love you and are glad you exist. Your needs are valid.

[venusvxen]

The 3D Cannot Create.. So Why Do You Create Fear?

I’ve been having a recent epiphany that has helped me understand the law better and helped me get rid of fear or at least self soothe when i feel fearful cus I don’t believe in stripping ourselves of our emotions…

I would say “the 3d cannot create” everyday for a YEAR but it wasn’t until a few days ago when i had a lightbulb moment… the 3D… really … cannot create.. it’s nothing more than a mirror… so why do I FEAR my shadow and expect it to show me something different.. why do i fool myself into believing i am the shadow and not the being that casts the shadow??

We fulfill ourselves within our imagination and get so stoked about our desire.. then we leave imagination and come down to the 3d world and bombarded with all the things the senses throw at you. now you start doubting.. you start counting down the time bc it’s been xyz long and you think it’ll never happen.. I literally always do this…

But then i thought to myself… the 3d cannot create any of those scenarios im envisioning… it’s my twin.. it is a shadow.. whatever I experience in the 4d is what i MUST experience in the 3d no matter what because self MUST be expressed

I’ll literally get so confident then expect the 3d to show me otherwise and be fearful and start asking myself what if it doesn’t happen and but if there is no separation between the 3d n 4d and all is imagination…. why would you NOT get it? … seriously… because the only way all those negative scenarios would happen is through persisting in them… it’s all imagination at the end of the day..

the relationship between the 3d and 4d is a simple input and output it’s just us who overcomplicate it because of all the baggage we’ve assigned to the law and all the things we’ve internalized about what we can or cannot do. if you assume something in imagination it MUST come to pass. just like if you go up you must come down. it’s a 1+1=2 situation and yet i complicate it so much…

but at the end of the day.. the materialization is guaranteed … because self must be expressed.. self is the only thing being expressed in this world bc the 3d cannot create..

after having this epiphany i’ve been able to self soothe and talk myself out of fear by reminding myself of this.. the 3d is my dutiful shadow. it follows in my footsteps.. whatever i experience in my real reality i must experience in the physical no matter what. I don’t care if it’s the day before an event and the pieces haven’t fell into place yet.. it MUST happen.. but only if you have confidence in this.. because I’ve noticed wavering is why we have wonky results..

but why do we waver?

We waver because deep down we think there is a separation between the imaginal and the physical. we think the physical is acting on its own outside of us and can create. which is why try as we might to maintain a state of confidence.. for the “big” things or the things that seem “out of reach”,, results may be spotty because we think our imaginal experiences aren’t enough and we convince ourselves that any of the things happening on the outside are out for our control

the truth is all that’s missing is confidence… a knowing.. an unshakeable conviction that what we say will happen MUST happen and WILL happen.. but the only way to do this is to truly understand that the 3d is your reflection and it can’t possibly show you anything you haven’t experienced…

I personally am now so so so excited for the end of the year and am looking forward to school (something i DREADED).. because i know a specific event MUST take place now which will change my life. why? because the real me experienced it in imagination and self must be expressed. why would my 3d show me something different unless i continuously waver and imagine something different.. if i experienced it why wouldn’t it push out? this realization has helped me be excited about things i was previously anxious about

i feel like the thing w the law is how “simple” it is but it’ll take you years to understand a simple concept. i hope you guys get what i’m saying here

[nailisaa]

let’s talk about imagination.

everything stems from imagination (the 4d). imagination is the source of all creation, and you cannot escape it. your assumptions, thoughts, state, 3d, etc. are all apart of it. the way something manifests is when an idea is accepted in imagination, meaning you identify with it. the reason that imagination is reality is that once you imagine something, you experienced it. yes, you actually experienced it. however, you’re who chooses what you want to accept as true into your world. this is why things, such as intrusive thoughts dont manifest. lets say you have an intrusive thought about you punching your best friend as you’re talking w them. it will not manifest and you wont actually punch them because you’re not truly identifying with that idea. you don’t actually intend for that. it’s the same reason why not every thought comes to fruition.

all thoughts manifest ❌ , thoughts you identify w/accept as true manifest (A.K.A. assumptions) ✅

now, what most people fail to realize with these methods is that the goal should not be to change your 3d. i understand that’s what you want, but you actually need to leave it alone. the 3d will change on its own. once you are attempting to change your 3d you are in the state of “trying” or of “lack.” the most important thing you should know is that manifesting isn’t about “trying” ITS ABOUT BEING. manifestation is instant already, so there’s nothing else that needs to happen except you realizing that you really do have it.

you can do what you want to manifest, as long as it’s helping you realize it's yours.

changing self has nothing to do with the 3d so it really makes me laugh when people are like “i tried to manifest and i went and bought $10,000 worth of clothing and still didn’t become rich” because again, they didn’t change their imagination, they tried to change the 3d. life doesn’t happen to you, it happens through you. that’s all the 3d is, AN EXPRESSION OF SELF. when you’re unsatisfied with your circumstances, look within instead of instantly seeing the 3D as the enemy.

“We go to church and the mind turns outward to some god, and he paints a word picture of someone before whom we must bend our knee and cross ourselves. But that’s not what Scripture really teaches. Scripture teaches that the power that creates the entire universe is not without man, but within man, as man’s own wonderful human Imagination. That is the creative power of the world. All things exist in the human Imagination, so if the word “God” would turn you out, try to make the adjustment within yourself and begin to believe that the God of Christendom, the Lord Jesus of Christendom, is your own Imagination.” -Neville Goddard

[fantasyliliac-deactivated202402]

it already is

you're already what you want to be. your refusal is the reason you don't see it. —NG

imagination is the only reality. remember the neville & barbados story?

as abdullah says "you're already in barbados"

your desires are already promised into your reality. you're already what you want to be. anything, you name it, is yours.

remember the "door slam"?

if you're already what you want to be, why are you still searching multiple ways to "be it" ?

That’s stupid to discuss how I’m going to go when I am in Barbados! And if I am faithful to my assumption, I can’t discuss the “how.” I’m already there!

abdullah didn't suggest neville a hundred techniques to help him impress his "subconscious". he just said a simple thing, a fact, that he was already in barbados. and that is all ever is.

it is all about the focus. reality goes where your attention goes.

replace barbados with any of your desires. anything. you're already with your desires. now will you go around thinking of a million ways to get your desires, while they're already true? obv no. you're already it. that's how easy it is.

like, if you want blue eyes, you cannot go back and forth about being the one with blue eyes and checking the mirror for external confirmation. you already have it. if you have already accepted having blue eyes, why are you still looking around to confirm it? you have it and that's how it is.

while it is true that, sometimes we fall out of the knowing, for it is impossible to be in the state 24/7, falling back into it is all that matters. it is fine if you get anxious, or sad, but the knowing is all that matters.

Anna