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#may 8 2020 #1:43am

My only mistake was getting lost in my own fantasies and ignoring what was right in front of me.

#09.24.2019 #8:15pm

siegfriedandroy

im crying

hmsindecision

Do you know how many dogs I’ve met that get scared or anxious around men because in their previous home men hit them? A lot, and they are very protective of the women who have adopted them now.

Men who are violent towards women are often violent towards animals as well. They think we’re all chattel. If a man wants you to choose between your dog or cat or him, dump the guy. Those animals will love you for the rest of your life, loyal and true.

corpsefluid

Actually, I have something to add.

The other day I saw a story where a woman was asking why her dogs had suddenly started growling at her boyfriend whenever he was in the same room as her son.

And my immediate thought was ‘that boyfriend has hurt the kid somehow.’

Spoilers: that was exactly the case.

Trust ur dogs when they say something is off.

katnissdoesnotfollowback

The first time my sister came to visit, via plane, after I got my dog, pupper growled at her and wouldn’t go near her for the first day. Next visit was by car (two day drive)and pupper LOVED my sister. They snuggled and played and none of us could figure out why the change. We thought maybe the scent of my sisters cat had lingered on her clothes, making that first visit a rough one. Whereas when she came by car, the scent had had time to wear off. Well that was partially true…

Fast forward about six months when I went north to visit my family. My sister walked into my parents’ house and pupper ran to greet my sister. Stopped dead in her tracks and started growling and barking. Hackles raised, full protection mode. My sisters husband had just walked in behind her.

My precious puppy wanted NOTHING to do with him. She barked, growled, ran away, and sat between him and my sister. Y'all my dog had spent maybe a weekend a half around my sister but protected her like this was her flesh and blood.

Eventually, my sister filed for divorce on grounds of “Extreme and repeated mental, emotional, and sexual abuse.” Divorce was final in less than a month because her claims were substantiated.

Trust the dog, honey. They KNOW.

catscatsholyshitcats

I’ve never owned dogs, but I used to work with horses (which are a lot like big dogs).

There was this one horse I worked with named Tonto. He was a doll. He followed me like a puppy, snuck treats out of my pocket, he was the sweetest thing. We were practically inseparable.

A guy I was considering dating came to visit me one day, and Tonto wanted NOTHING to do with him. Normally well behaved, he shoved himself between us and would NOT let this guy near me. He was stomping, acting really aggressive, and tried to bite the guy. This horse was practically dragging me back toward the barn. At that moment, despite being like, 17, I knew something was up, and ultimately things didn’t pan out for guy and me.

A year later I found out he had lied about his age (he said he was 18 but he was actually 27) he was arrested for sexually assaulting an 11 year old girl.

TRUST THE ANIMALS.

danioftherose

Years ago my first boyfriend went to hit me outside my parents house when I was 17. Our German Shepard Angel got in front and bit his arm and he left. She was always nice and kind to everyone but not him. She then preceded to let me cry all over her even though she regarded me as her litter mate and never obeyed me. After that(It was about three months before I turned 18 and left both the emotionally abusive home and the boyfriend behind) any time she saw him she’d glare and growl.

Dogs are great. As soon as I live in a house not an apartment, I’ll get another dog.

pottersuperwholockian

Reblog to save a life

systlin

The animals know, man. They always know. Trust them.

happyhealthybalanced

My dog has always been fearful of men, but the one man she took to instantly without hesitation is now my fiancee 😏

captnamari

LESBIAN MOVIE MASTERPOST: HAPPY ENDINGS ONLY!

Hello everyone! So as a lot of you may know, movies aimed towards lesbians or showing a f/f relationship are almost always doomed to end on a dramatic and/or sad note. Fortunately, I was brave enough to go through a huge amount of these movies to select the ones that do not entirely suck. Yes that’s right, this will be a masterpost of lesbian themed movies WITH A HAPPY OR HOPEFUL ENDING!

Here is this amazing list:

- Imagine Me and You (2005) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Carol (2015) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Bound (1996) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Saving Face (2004) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- But I’m A Cheerleader (1999) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- I Can’t Think Straight (2008) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Elena Undone (2010) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- The Four-Faced Liar (2010) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- D.E.B.S. (2004) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Desert Hearts (1985) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- Kiss Me (2011) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- Jenny’s Wedding (2015) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- Show Me Love (1998) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- Girltrash: All Night Long (2014) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- Joe + Belle (2011) [Stream] [Torrent]

- The World Unseen (2007) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Itty Bitty Titty Committee (2007) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- And Then Came Lola (2009) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- Better Than Chocolate (1999) [Stream] [Torrent]

- The Kids Are Alright (2010) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

- All About E (2015) [Stream] [Torrent]

- Life Partners (2014) [Stream] [Torrent] + Netflix

N.B. Life Partners isn’t a movie about a f/f couple, but the main character is gay. If you can’t wait for Almost Adults, watch Life Partners!

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So here it finally is! BUT, the list isn’t complete. I still have a couple to watch, and some links to find, so please tell me if you have any more movies you’d like to add. If any of the links are broken, send me a message and I will try to fix it. ENJOY YOUR HAPPY LESBIAN MOVIES! And as our dear Ellen Page once said…

Fight.

Fight to be.

To be more.

Fight.

Fight to work harder.

To work on yourself.

Just fight, for everything you've ever wanted.

#03/16/14 10:58pm

Too cold to love.

Too cowardly to be unloved.

#02/24/14 #6:55pm

After the honesty of daylight,

Comes the deceit of nightfall.

But even in bright mornings,

Those shadows, they lurk.

#07/14/13 #posted01/20/14

Im so fucking angry that its the summer before University and I'm fucking grounded. And I have been since fucking March. Get over it. FUCK.

I am, through and through, a horrible person. That's as honest as I've ever been.

#06/14/13 #9:16pm

What if we all lived in a world like Truman's, a world that was controlled by others watching above. The entire globe controlled and watched by superior beings who doesn't care about the inhabitants but only about scientific exploits. Everything from the weather to tripping on the sidewalk is puppeted. And those "dopplegangers" are clones they've made in a petri dish, making only slight changes in their dna to differentiate the clones and record what these changes cause. There is no real human, but just manufactured products being tested for quality.

I scare myself with my own thoughts sometimes.

#06/05/13 #10:48pm

A lot has been happening lately, most of it is a test to my character. I dont know if Im making the right decisions anymore. I just want it to work out for everyone I care about.

He was sad, so I said what he wanted and needed to hear. He felt better. Does that make me a bad person?

luckieststudent

The Student Life Network is giving away the best prize pack in Canadian student history. It starts with $20k for school and five Dell XPS Ultrabooks to share with friends.

My mother rudely interrupted my sleep with a call about how she left the "back tap" open. I said which tap, there are many taps near the back of the house. Continues to say "back tap" several times until she finally clues me in that its fucking outside. I go out the same time as my neighbor ans he asks if I was going to move the sprinklers because its only getting one side. I look and its not just the freaking tap its a sprinkler. So I try to turn off the tap but it doesn't as the neighbor is watching, waiting for me to move the sprinkler. I end up just moving it (on) to the other side, getting all wet and almost losing my slippers in the mud. I call my mom tell her its not turning it off she say to just keep turning it, and all I kept saying was that's what I did. When I went out again I realize I moved the sprinkler on the side where the "back tap" was and that I put it on full blast. Now I'm soaked.

She just called and I wanted to just leave it but my brother answers and to save me some trouble I tell him its off. He tells my mom and he hands me the phone. Shes all like don't answer back to me like that saying "You're right, you're right", if I was infront of you I would've slapped you and pulled your hair. WTF, I didn't even say that. Then as I pulled the phone away from my ear I heard bits of "you're just living in my house" speech. Like I have a fucking choice. FUCKING worst morning. So glad I'm working tonight so I don't have to see her.

#FUCK YOU BITCH

These past couple of months, I've lost track of the person I want to be. Maybe its a good thing in the way that a break is. I just needed to rid myself of the stress last semester brought on. Today, I think I got a lot of things out on paper, I wrote like three poems (if I can call it that), although they're more like a bunch of lines that kind of rhyme. Definitely had a good "break", but that way I acted was just completely unacceptable especially, how I've been towards friends. So after the mess I've been, I'm going to work harder and work on myself. On that note I have to go study now.

To find someone you love

You've gotta be someone you love.

-Nada Surf

#05.17.12 #You can do it #just get to it #ahaha #ok done #:)

One step closer to recovery.

A giant leap, to being highy

High, on life ofcourse.

I wouldn't want you to enforce

The trechery

Of the person I've become known to be.

Have you ever thought, that maybe

I'm just becoming me.