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No one asked for this one, but…

If you made lore for a character you’ve had since you were 16, and you’re in your 20s now and have a better grasp of narrative structure and power creep, you can just retcon the dumb stuff. Like you can do that for free. You’re not beholden to the junk you wrote 5 years ago, and you don’t need to justify removing it if it sucks.

screnwriter-old-deactivated2021

This is actually really valuable. Every writer should keep this in mind.

That’s also part of the reason you shouldn’t look back at your old writing and label it as pure trash. You didn’t know what you were doing back then. You do now.

anomaly-abandon-deactivated2022

Reminder that I am not into horror to scare myself, MOST of the time. I am into horror for entertainment, intrigue, escapism and sometimes to pick up comfort characters. The horror content I usually dive into is never hugely disturbing overly nor violent(most of the time). I like tamer horror, not the horrifically and sickening kind. I'm not here to freak myself out, though sometimes that ends up happening, as I am still susceptible to being bothered by horror by quite A LOT. I mean, I couldn't even finish VHS 94, the Mandela Catalog kept me up the night I watched it, and re-reading the Cervine Birth Creepypasta has left me feeling unnerved.

If you follow me, and you are not a fan of horror, or you are and KNOW that you have your limits, or are even bothered by horror, please prioritize your comfort. NEVER feel pressured to go deeper or even just get into horror. It's called horror for a reason, it is not meant for everyone, OBVIOUSLY. Regardless of what it is, please put your comfort first, not the interest of others.

If any content that I EVER put on my blog is ever bothersome for you, prioritize your comfort. Blacklist tags, ASK me to tag content(even if anon is off, I will NEVER get mad for being asked to tag stuff), unfollow, block me even, your comfort matters. I am just a random person online, you are not being paid to follow me, and you DO curate your experiences online, always remember that. Please take care of yourselves, and good night.

bluebandit-deactivated20220607

bestie i hope you heal from the things you don’t share with anyone

newhologram

If you’re nondisabled please stop patting yourself on the back for telling a disabled person that they are *~more than their condition~*. You aren’t freeing us from the shackles of an ableist society; you’re contributing to it.

newhologram

This was in response to some comments on Beth Burnham's IG:

Since being diagnosed with autism recently, they've been making content to talk about it. They made a video to poke a hole in the common response of "I couldn't tell you have autism" by asking "How would you tell?" In response, they got this:

codyscottperry: How would I tell? Because that’s all you talk about bethburnham: after 26 years of hiding it, all the bullying, depression, ableism, abuse… i have quite a lot to say about it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ codyscottperry: I get it. But you’re more than your condition. Let that out. You funny, just sayin. Having had this conversation a million times on my YouTube, Tumblr, IG, etc, over my 8+ years talking about disability (and even making a whole video about this kind of comment), I stepped in:

newhologram: When disabled people are brave enough to speak out and make content to talk about our experiences, we often get these weird accusations like "it's all you talk about" even if we do actually talk about a variety of topics. I do chronic illness/disability awareness and guidance content, but I also make gaming content, modeling content, translation content, and more. Guess which content I'm repeatedly criticized for (spoiler: anything related to disability/illness). You only seeing this part of us when we talk about it is telling of your discomfort with our visibility. All content creators have certain things they're passionate about. It'd be like going to a gaming channel and being like, "You are more than just a gamer... why do you always game?" It's very bizarre projection of discomfort by trying to make us feel bad for just doing our thing. I've literally lost friends because they thought I talked about my pain and illnesses too much. That is an empathy shut-off and I'm better off without those people, as much as it hurt in the beginning to be rejected when I was actually suffering and in need of support. But more importantly: This is ableism. No one cares when makeup artists have channels about makeup. No one cares when hobbyists make content about their hobbies. But the second a disabled person makes content about disability, suddenly people are telling us we're "more than our condition" in an attempt to get us to stop talking about it for THEIR comfort. It's just ableism.

earthling22109857-deactivated20

I learned a word today yay.

golvio

Also, it makes them look really ridiculous to complain that a content creator they’re following is “only talking about disability.” Like, dude, why are you even following the creator you’re whining about? Why are you kicking and screaming for the creator’s attention in the comments instead of just filtering the tags if you hate hearing about the topic so much? And the fact that you double down when the creator asserts their boundaries and refuses to hide an important part of their identity that affects how they experience the world doesn’t make you look like the reasonable, compassionate party. It makes you look like a pushy weirdo.

newhologram

It’s bizarre. I had a YouTube subscriber who complained every time I made a video about chronic illness/disability. It’s like OH I’M SORRY, what kind of content would YOU prefer I make? Wtf. Idk why people like that even follow me. The headline of my channel is literally chronic illness awareness. Idk what people want from us.