Ain't that a kick in the head! @wonderfullyrandomph - Tumblr Blog

MRAs invent the term "transmisandry" -> the fact that this is a hate group becomes obvious -> they invent the term "transandrophobia" to disassociate themselves from said hate group -> the fact that this is a hate group becomes obvious -> they invent the term "transmascphobia"

I wonder what will happen this time

pineapplecake555

It doesn’t matter how many times you play Three Card Monty with the sexes involved: Males always find a way to tell female people to shut up and be a doormat.

#lgb without the t #lgb without the tq #lgb drop the t #trans ideology is an incel MRA movement #these pornsick males will always be on some bullshit and try to pull a DARVO to be the fake victim #like the true manipulative narcissists that they are

prometheist

we've arrived at "transphobes are all actually fine with trans men". christ help us

niiwa-angel

Weird. Feminists support females. Feminism is open to all females. Crazy stuff. Next you'll tell me BLM is for black people.

prometheist

Feminism is for humanity

niiwa-angel

And who started it? Why did women start the feminist movement? It was because women couldn't vote, own property, open a bank account, access credit, attend higher education, or were even considered full fledged human beings. Women were being beaten and raped, couldn't access healthcare without male present, forcibly impregnated, and sent to asylum.

Feminism isn't for "humanity" it's for women by women. Feminism got women the right to vote, pursue education, divorce, access birth control, own property, and hold office. There are still parts of the world where the female illiteracy rate is almost double the male illiteracy rate because men don't believe in sending their daughters to school. There are parts of the world when infant girls are being killed because their fathers don't want daughters. The BBC just ran an article within the last month about Afghan father's selling their daughters as brides. Feminism is for women and girls.

prometheist

So is it for women or “females”?

niiwa-angel

It's for women, who are female. Woman and female are synonyms.

prometheist

what is your definition of a “female”? In addition, what disqualifies someone who isn’t female from experiencing the kinds of things that feminism advocates against?

niiwa-angel

What do you mean "what's my definition of female"? You know it. Everybody knows it. The sex that produces ova. Nobody who isn't female is experiencing female specific oppression. There may be some overlap, or some similarities, but it's never truly the same thing. That's why intersectional feminism exists, because different women will experience different types of oppression. A black woman is going to experience racism and misogyny, making her a victim of both. A black man will experience racism but never misogyny. A white woman will experience misogyny but not racism.

Misogynists know who the women are. Men in Afghanistan aren't humming and hawwing over which child to sell, they sell the girls. Indian and Chinese men aren't looking at their infant daughters going "is this a female? How can I be sure?" Before they kill them. The Taliban isn't chromosome testing to determine which half of the population can't be heard or unaccompanied in public.

This "how do you define female" bullshit is just wasting time. We all know! Millions of years of evolution means we recognize the difference between male and female on instinct. And women have been oppressed based on that noticable distinction for just as long.

prometheist

You can recognize the difference between male and female on instinct? so, a fully transitioned trans woman who appears female to you is a woman, by your definition? and a fully transitioned trans man who appears male is not?

niiwa-angel

Noooo, because a trans identified male is still a male, no matter how hard he tries to appear as a female, and vice versa. You can still recognize sex on instinct, even when people start using modern technology to change their appearance. The amount of trans identified people who can trick others regarding their sex is very very small, most of them are noticably male or female. A male who has used surgery, cross sex hormones, and make up to make himself look female is still male.

It's called an Innate Perceptional System and it works on pattern recognition. Infants as young as 3 months are able to recognize the differences in sex.

prometheist

do you have any sort of evidence for your theory that most people can clock trannies?

niiwa-angel

Yes, you can go on r/actuallesbians and read about how many of these men have been clocked by the women they tried to catfish into relationships with them.

wonderfullyrandomph

@prometheist you are a dumbass. A women is an adult human female. And that's it. We all know what a women is regardless of how they "identify". And Its not men in dresses who claim they are women just because in their delusional imagination they "feel" like one and they like to play pretend as one. Feminism was made by women for women because we live in a patriarchal male centered world that systematically hates women and even kills them (i.e. misogyny) so we have to find solidarity amongst ourselves to fight back against that oppression just like how any marginalized group has their own movement to cater to their needs women have their own unique needs and fights to deal with. Men arnt oppressed and none of this information is new. We aren't playing this stupid postmodernism bullshit game with you. Sex isn't gender. Stop being a dumbass or take it somewhere else cuz all your doing is undermining women like a misogynistic incel MRA asshole. All women are female and we don't have time for this fake ass psyoped gender bullshit of yours which is basically just MRA bullshit in a different outfit. Waste someone else's time with your fake ass lying ass cult shit

#lgb without the t #lgb without the tq #lgb drop the t #trans ideology is so delusional and full of shit #TRAs are homophobic sexist and dumb as hell

manuciruja

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

manuciruja

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

niiwa-angel

Maybe the transfem users should stop being sex pests and violating the terms and conditions for this website, then maybe they'd stop getting banned

Because this is what your "transfem sisters" are posting before they get banned. These aren't some uwu innocent victims being kicked for no reason, they're getting reported to staff for their gross rape fetishes.

#receipts #these banned dudes are just nasty ass pornsick males blatantly posting their fetishes and going against Tumblr policies #it's not rocket science or some terrible conspiracy you bunch of lying drama queens #a lot of these people spew rape and death threats a lot too like hell y'all are fucking stupid #lgb without the t #lgb without the tq #lgb drop the t #trans ideology is full of misogynistic pornsick incel males #these disgusting men are vile and deserve to be banned. they arnt victims of shit and they certainly arnt oppressed #be so fucking forreal op

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someoneelsemaybe

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#lmfao!#me and the moots #after several different stews

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sunb1eeder

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#its quite literally exactly this #<at prev forreal tho #and dumbasses still fall for it #lgb without the t #lgb without the tq #lgb drop the t

pollen

happy Barely Keeping It Together Wednesday to all who celebrate

#why are workdays so fucking long 😫 this is bullshit!#waste of my damn time #fuck capitalism

theoretical-terf

It's interesting to watch normal people respond to the trans movement fading out. Women are talking more about wanting our own spaces, we're saying "women" without the need to stick on "and non binary people" or "and anyone who identifies as a woman". Lesbians are talking about loving the female body, without feeling pressured to include male bodies.

Men have pushed too far, as they always have, and women are pushing back, women have had enough.

#good and fucking finally #so beyond sick of the trans movements misogynistic homophobic shit #lgb without the tq #lgb without the t #lgb drop the t

lesbiampire

some of you have ‘identities’ that deserve to be invalidated. some of them are unhealthy, actively hurt disenfranchised groups, or have no basis in material reality. the overbearing identity politics that exists on the internet, this whole postmodernist idea of ‘I say it so I am!’ is completely irrelevant when we’re considering actual oppressions within societies/cultures. it is meaningless.

I saw a post once on here saying ‘some of you deserve to feel less valid’ and I have never seen anything truer. some of you need to get your self-indulgent heads out of your asses too and consider that the entire world doesn’t need to alter itself due to ~your feelings~ and if you think it does, maybe your feelings/identity/whatever are the problem here.

#lgb without the t #lgb without the tq #lgb drop the t #exactly

bushpropaganda

First off I am so so sorry you saw stuff like that re: insane lesbophobia. Those sentiments being popular is not surprising, but it is awful. I am blissfully ignorant of a lot of this since I avoid most social media. I am also very protective of bi women since we are often an easy scapegoat and people get testy about admitting they’re being biphobic for things like assuming promiscuity or that we’re all just cheaters who always go straight since they think we’re just whining for no reason, but I’ve definitely seen some (young) bi women on tumblr railing against the concept of gold stars or les4les for those same reasons you list... very much projection on their part.

I always hate to “no true bisexual” but I still do wonder sometimes, since fortunately I’ve only met a couple of bisexual women with rancid energy anywhere near this irl but it is way more common online where you can divorce your “identity” from your actual identity and people have no filter. Sexual orientation of course is not tied to morality. But, I really do wonder if some of these women you describe are actually experiencing any same-sex attraction to begin with or if the “dykebreaking” (bc TIL there are women are into this☹️ I am so sorry) is just heterosexual porn brain virus the gf is facilitating for the bf. If one truly experiences attraction to women why would they enjoy a man “breaking” one???? That’s a sickness beyond my understanding. Yes women in same-sex relationships sometimes like cruddy BDSM stuff… but that’s just insane and EVIL to get off on rape, with a male, for the purposes of conversion therapy ):

I want women to all have our own spaces to be with other women who understand our struggles: spaces for JUST women as a class all together no TIMs or hanger-ons, spaces for JUST same-sex attracted women as a class, spaces for JUST lesbians, spaces for JUST bisexuals. All of those. They are necessary and we are all worse off without them </3

to preface: my response is not at all a disagreement to what you've said. i'm just expounding on my thoughts about this topic cause your ask has opened up a great conversation that i've been dying to weigh in on, and i thank you so much for giving me your insight.

personally, i think the general disconnect comes from bi women like yourself having completely different experiences with bi women than lesbians do. it's understandable, given the solidarity that's automatically shared between people with the same sexual orientation. but i cannot count how many times over the years that i've been propositioned by a bi woman to either have a threesome with her and her bf, or to have sex with her while her bf watches: both irl and on dating apps, even knowing i'm a lesbian.

which leads me to my second point. a majority of bi women i've met will only date men, but will gladly have sex with men and women. these bi women specifically love lesbians because of 1.) the expectation that lesbians will be good at—and willing to have—sex, and 2.) lesbian fetishization.

this preference would be fine if it existed in a vacuum, but it indirectly, even if subconscious, contributes to the idea that lesbians are sex objects instead of human beings.

i've been on the receiving end of this, and i can tell you, it makes you feel like shit. like you're not worthy enough for human connection, like your only value is tied to how well you eat pussy.

in my early-to-mid twenties i was the token, passed-around lesbian; the easy dyke to experiment with; the girl you fucked in private then ignored when your guy crush was around.

i've had crazy sex, i've fallen in love, i've been fetishized, and i've had my heart broken. and any time i've discussed my experiences, i've been told that i'm biased. my feelings don't matter, even when i thought they did.

this is not an isolated incident. my views on this topic were shaped by years of the same shit happening over and over again, until i couldn't take the mistreatment anymore.

ever since i came out a lesbian, there's been this assumption that i'm down to fuck every woman who asks, with no regard for me as a person. and i'm so tired. being a lesbian means i'm not allowed to want a relationship with other women, means i'm perpetually sexually available to other women, means i'm nothing more than an overdue orgasm in a locked bathroom.

my duty as a dyke is to help other women figure out who they are, to help women discover what good sex actually is, to give women the chance at "exploring their gay side" before they find a serious (straight) relationship, to look on with pride as they move on from our silly fling and settle down with the man they'll marry in a few years.

and this specific category of loneliness Is exactly why, as you said, exclusive communities are so important—because this experience is exclusive to lesbians, just as bi women have their own exclusive experiences, and gay men, and straight women, etc.

i hope this insanely long novel gave you, and anybody else reading, more insight into the lesbian experience. i thank you for giving me the space to feel comfortable enough to share it, and for empathizing with what lesbians have to go through <33

#yeah same here for a lot of your points :(#<yeah same at previous #exactly #and that's what we mean we we say these women only treat homosexual women as a fetish and a kink and not actual people #they won't see the relationship as serious at all. only useful and convenient

hypnictwitch

Not to point out the blindingly frigging obvious but if you label female people who aren’t attracted to males ‘terfs’, and encourage or excuse violence against ‘terfs’, you are advocating for hate crimes against lesbians.

#lgb without the t #lgb without the tq #lgb drop the t #trans ideology is full of misogynistic homophobic straighty assholes