When women post this kind of content theyre doing their patriarchal duty of trying to groom other women into thinking "its normal and funny when your husband is a useless piece of shit".
That's the point of husband-complaining with zero intentions of leaving: they need to normalize it for themselves and others.
Other women laughing it off is supposed to be an emotional pressure release valve for the mistreatment so they can have the stamina to continue to endure it. And when we don't play our part: its a problem. Because you're getting treated like shit, there's no pressure release via others cosigning that its okay and all you're left with is the reality of the situation to deal with alone.
The response they're always hoping for is like "ugh omg I GET it... mom life amirite????" like they're trying to commiserate, and have internalized so deeply that this is the way things ought to be, it's normal and fine. And that their husband is normal and fine. And of course now the comment du jour is "ladies stop procreating with these men" because men's behaviour is always women's fault, so now she feels stupid for putting herself in this situation even though every cultural force she's been living with for the past few decades of life have told her this is normal and not to worry.
