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Every time I let someone know me I regret it
wanting to kys to prove a point but also wanting to get better and be the best person you can be to prove a point
If your parents are accepting if you being trans you don’t get to pick your name that’s not how this works like ignoring the fact you’re bad at it that’s not how naming works
You come out of either the stomach or the womb and are named by your parents so you come out of the closet as trans and are again named by your parents
A tourist murders my sister, steals her shoes, and accepts a mission from my political rivals to literally murder me? And I'm the villain???
You owned slaves and were literally named the wicked witch
you’re all full of shit, y’all may hate the man, but i bet if you saw your president getting attacked, no matter how much you dislike him or disagree with him, I BET 93% of you will jump in and defend the fucker with your life, you’d fight to the death if you must, to save that hateful orange.
I would literally do crack to hit him harder
30 people are already jumping him they’re fine if I just clap
When a writer doesn’t give a female character a male love interest: It could be for a multitude of reasons. Some of these reasons may have to do with the environment, situation, or her personal beliefs. Maybe the writer just isn’t interested in telling a love story.
Disgusting gremlins on this hellsite:
When a writer gives a female character a male love interest: she loves him and she marries him. She’s also had another female in her general field of vision at some point during her life.
Disgusting gremlins on this hellsite:
And then they call people toxic and homophobic because some people don’t share their headcanon.
And then they attack the writers for not making the girls lesbian even though they’re the ones who made that assumption.
Let’s not forget the people who laugh at straight people for being concerned how they portray themselves, while these same people call two guys who just smile at each other gay or two women who literally hate each other lesbians.
This post is getting some more notes, so here’s the best replies.
Don’t forget when a character is bisexual and tumblr erases her attraction to men and just calls her lesbian
Female Character: is bisexual
Disgusting gremlins on this hellsite:
And vice versa for male characters honestly…
This isn’t wrong but it sounds homophobic
Think you’re the only ones who dream of better things? Of adventure? You’ve got your reasons, and I’ve got mine. Let’s not make it personal, okay? It’s just business.
CHEL from The Road to El Dorado (2000)
Because of the Fifth Amendment, no one in the U.S. may legally be forced to testify against himself, and because of the Fourth Amendment, no one’s records or belongings may legally be searched or seized without just cause. However, American police are trained to use methods of deception, intimidation and manipulation to circumvent these restrictions. In other words, cops routinely break the law—in letter and in spirit—in the name of enforcing the law. Several examples of this are widely known, if not widely understood.
1) “Do you know why I stopped you?” Cops ask this, not because they want to have a friendly chat, but because they want you to incriminate yourself. They are hoping you will “voluntarily” confess to having broken the law, whether it was something they had already noticed or not. You may think you are apologizing, or explaining, or even making excuses, but from the cop’s perspective, you are confessing. He is not there to serve you; he is there fishing for an excuse to fine or arrest you. In asking you the familiar question, he is essentially asking you what crime you just committed. And he will do this without giving you any “Miranda” warning, in an effort to trick you into testifying against yourself.
2) “Do you have something to hide?” Police often talk as if you need a good reason for not answering whatever questions they ask, or for not consenting to a warrantless search of your person, your car, or even your home. The ridiculous implication is that if you haven’t committed a crime, you should be happy to be subjected to random interrogations and searches. This turns the concept of due process on its head, as the cop tries to put the burden on you to prove your innocence, while implying that your failure to “cooperate” with random harassment must be evidence of guilt.
3) “Cooperating will make things easier on you.” The logical converse of this statement implies that refusing to answer questions and refusing to consent to a search will make things more difficult for you. In other words, you will be punished if you exercise your rights. Of course, if they coerce you into giving them a reason to fine or arrest you, they will claim that you “voluntarily” answered questions and “consented” to a search, and will pretend there was no veiled threat of what they might do to you if you did not willingly “cooperate.” (Such tactics are also used by prosecutors and judges via the procedure of “plea-bargaining,” whereby someone accused of a crime is essentially told that if he confesses guilt—thus relieving the government of having to present evidence or prove anything—then his suffering will be reduced. In fact, “plea bargaining” is illegal in many countries precisely because it basically constitutes coerced confessions.)
4) “We’ll just get a warrant.” Cops may try to persuade you to “consent” to a search by claiming that they could easily just go get a warrant if you don’t consent. This is just another ploy to intimidate people into surrendering their rights, with the implication again being that whoever inconveniences the police by requiring them to go through the process of getting a warrant will receive worse treatment than one who “cooperates.” But by definition, one who is threatened or intimidated into “consenting” has not truly consented to anything.
5.) We have someone who will testify against you Police “informants” are often individuals whose own legal troubles have put them in a position where they can be used by the police to circumvent and undermine the constitutional rights of others. For example, once the police have something to hold over one individual, they can then bully that individual into giving false, anonymous testimony which can be used to obtain search warrants to use against others. Even if the informant gets caught lying, the police can say they didn’t know, making this tactic cowardly and illegal, but also very effective at getting around constitutional restrictions.
6) “We can hold you for 72 hours without charging you.” Based only on claimed suspicion, even without enough evidence or other probable cause to charge you with a crime, the police can kidnap you—or threaten to kidnap you—and use that to persuade you to confess to some relatively minor offense. Using this tactic, which borders on being torture, police can obtain confessions they know to be false, from people whose only concern, then and there, is to be released.
7) “I’m going to search you for my own safety.” Using so-called “Terry frisks” (named after the Supreme Court case of Terry v. Ohio, 392 U.S. 1), police can carry out certain limited searches, without any warrant or probable cause to believe that a crime has been committed, under the guise of checking for weapons. By simply asserting that someone might have a weapon, police can disregard and circumvent the Fourth Amendment prohibition on unreasonable searches.
U.S. courts have gone back and forth in deciding how often, and in what circumstances, tactics like those mentioned above are acceptable. And of course, police continually go far beyond anything the courts have declared to be “legal” anyway. But aside from nitpicking legal technicalities, both coerced confessions and unreasonable searches are still unconstitutional, and therefore “illegal,” regardless of the rationale or excuses used to try to justify them. Yet, all too often, cops show that to them, the Fourth and Fifth Amendments—and any other restrictions on their power—are simply technical inconveniences for them to try to get around. In other words, they will break the law whenever they can get away with it if it serves their own agenda and power, and they will ironically insist that they need to do that in order to catch “law-breakers” (the kind who don’t wear badges).
Of course, if the above tactics fail, police can simply bully people into confessing—falsely or truthfully—and/or carry out unconstitutional searches, knowing that the likelihood of cops having to face any punishment for doing so is extremely low. Usually all that happens, even when a search was unquestionably and obviously illegal, or when a confession was clearly coerced, is that any evidence obtained from the illegal search or forced confession is excluded from being allowed at trial. Of course, if there is no trial—either because the person plea-bargains or because there was no evidence and no crime—the “exclusionary rule” creates no deterrent at all. The police can, and do, routinely break the law and violate individual rights, knowing that there will be no adverse repercussions for them having done so.
Likewise, the police can lie under oath, plant evidence, falsely charge people with “resisting arrest” or “assaulting an officer,” and commit other blatantly illegal acts, knowing full well that their fellow gang members—officers, prosecutors and judges—will almost never hold them accountable for their crimes. Even much of the general public still presumes innocence when it comes to cops accused of wrong-doing, while presuming guilt when the cops accuse someone else of wrong-doing. But this is gradually changing, as the amount of video evidence showing the true nature of the “Street Gang in Blue” becomes too much even for many police-apologists to ignore.
http://www.alternet.org/civil-liberties/7-ways-police-will-break-law-threaten-or-lie-you-get-what-they-want
One of the biggest realizations with dealing with cops for me was the fact that they CAN lie, they are 100% legally entitled to lie, and they WILL whether you’re a victim of crime, accused of committing a crime or anything else
Everyone needs to reblog this, it could save a life.
Important
Seriously if you ever find yourself in custody don’t say shit until you’ve got some counsel with you. No cop is your friend in that situation.
Heeeyyyyy if anyone is thinking “a lawyer!?! But I thought lawyers were bad and greedy.”
Remember where you heard that and consider why.
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ok, so it bothers me how disproportionate the support for trans men vs trans women is.
im not saying trans men dont deserve all the love and support in the world but so do us trans girls, like ill go to the ftm tag an see passing tips, clothing/binder hacks, an so much stuff but the mtf tag is full of chasers sissys an crossdressers. plus yall will post stuff like
all trans women are beutiful and need protection
but when one of ours sisters gets killed, or beaten yall seem to turn a blind eye??
not saying its everyone but ive mainly found that on tumblr an instagram. the lack of mtf support makes me so frustrated and mad
this is a poll taken from a trans support insta account. 176 people responed. 94% said they are FtM or nb which is fine, but only 5.6 percent were MtF. lets round the number up to 180 and with some simple math, 170 people out of 180 trans people (in this demographic) were FtM or nb, whereas 31 people are MtF. side note, when i look up MtF dysphoria help the first thing to come up is “FtM dysphoria and passing tips”. i was crying on my bathroom floor with scissors ready to cut my genitals off and when i looked for help it wasnt even for me and my sisters. the only passing and dysphoria help i could find is for closeted trans girls which is awesome but what about passing tips for trans women who are already out? the dangers of some trans girl things didnt even become known to me until i found a post on an obscure insta account with under 100 followers which detailed the risks of thing such as tucking, wearing tight push up bras, wearing excessive makeup for a long time, and sromach thinners/ waist boosters like coursettes. this is all i have to say but please reblog this. trans women such as myself and my sisters deserve so much more attention and support than we get.
TL;DR
trans women arent given enough attention or help is the trans community these days
reblog to help out our trans sisters out there closested or not
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holy fuck can yall chill out. im just trying to point out a problem ive personally seen. if you think otherwise keep it to yourself because this post is not for discourse its about raising awareness. and who gives a singular fuck if im a transmed or not, respect my belifs and ill respect yours. and calling me ablesit @frogger-hates-pedos is so fucking wrong because i have a learning disability and it impacts my everyday life. yes ive posted questionable things in the past but they were MEMES. if you dont like or agree with what i have to say then please ignore it and saying that i shouldnt have a platform goes against the fact that i am a trans women advocating for our rights and addressing a problem ive noticed. thank you and have a nice night
I don’t care about op’s politics the message is important
“ Remove the first 4 letters from your name and add Fuck. “
this is people with 4 letter name oppression. my name is now just Fuck. height of comedy.
Fucknelle
Fuckis
Fucke
Fucka
you can literally always tell if an artist is/was a furry or not by asking them to draw a dog
like this:
not a furry:
furry:
You labled everyone at Disney a furry
have you ever seen a disney movie
@crocketingsolly @superstuporsblog
okay but what if you grew up drawing warrior cats so you never learned realism so now everything you draw is just cartoony
You grew up reading warrior cats are you sure you’re not a furry
I hate this I will reply to you and then block you mindset cause no I need to see what you said and I can’t if you blocked me
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I have sympathy for people who find out too late their partner is in fact, a shitty bigot and are trapped due to abuse, but that sympathy is not really for "I intentionally sought out a mediocre partner because we're both racist"
I'm more worried about Mrs. Shapiro's patients than I am about her.
Ben Shapiro isn’t actually a bigot he’s just a dumbass who was empowered by white privelage and male privelage to believe that the loudest person with the most sources is right which is why his wife isn’t a whoops I married a bigot she’s a I don’t correct my husband on his unconscious bigotry and encourage him to spread it to millions of people as facts
I’m low key sick of people still defending BoJack for trying to sleep with Penny in New Mexico. It doesn’t matter that Penny was the legal age of consent or that she insisted she wanted it. She was seventeen, she thought a guy saying “hey” to her on a daily basis was a special thing, she was clearly too naive when it came to relationships let alone having sex, which I don’t blame her for how many of us were relationship experts when we were 17?
And BoJack, a (horse) man in his early fifties, was going to take advantage of that just because her mother rejected him asking her to run away and be with him when she was married with two teen kids and hadn’t had a conversation with him in thirty years. True he rejected Penny at first, and when she came onto him a second time he said “Go to bed Penny”, but he left his cabin door open, it was kinda his way of agreeing indirectly.
And he was going to do it. I know people debate this a lot because nothing had happened between Penny and BoJack yet when Charlotte walked in, it almost looked like she was fixing his tie, but in Start Spreading the News (the episode where the manatee reporter tapes BoJack talking about the incident) BoJack says
“I keep asking myself if her mother didn't walk in, would I have done it? And part of me is sure that I-- I couldn't. But another part knows that's a lie.”
And in That’s Too Much Man! he says
“And first, I tried to sleep with the mom, but she said no. Then, I tried to sleep with the daughter.”
He flat out says he was gonna sleep with Penny
I don’t rly understand why there’s still a debate on whether he was really gonna do it or not.
I watched youtube video abt this and in the comment section, most men were going on how Penny was at fault.
Disgusting.
I don't understand adult ppl who has drive to sleep with teenagers?? Why??! Why not pick someone your own age??
Penny isn’t at fault but she’s also definitely not a victim
Bojack never initiates even when we see them together Bojack is sitting with his hands behind him
Also he was drunk and emotionally hurt not just cause a woman he liked rebuked his advances or because he was being forced to go back to the people he’d hurt but also because he’d finally had happiness he’d gotten what he always wanted a sitcom life and when Penny showed up again he tried one final time to say no and she didn’t listen
Just because BoJack hadn’t acted on Penny yet/they weren’t like half naked when Charlotte walked in doesn’t mean he wasn’t going to at all. He has defended himself saying “nothing happened yet”, which also pretty much confirms he was going to do it.
I will admit I didn’t take into account Charlotte rejecting him also meant he had to go back to LA. However, it still wasn’t really right of him to run off to her in the first place, because, like I said, it was really naive of him to think she’d still be single, almost in a “waiting for him” kind of deal, and would want to be in a relationship with him when she hadn’t spoken to him in thirty years. Also like Charlotte told him “it’s not where you are it’s who you are”. BoJack’s self improvement didn’t matter on where he was, he had to make those improvements no matter what. His “happiness” in New Mexico was unhealthy, living in a sitcom fantasy/expecting things to work out like they do in sitcoms is one of BoJack’s biggest flaws.
Penny didn’t force herself onto BoJack like a lot of people make her out to be. BoJack is the one with the most power in this dynamic - he told her no twice, but like I said he left his cabin door open, so he indirectly agreed to it, further proved by the fact that he has stated he wouldlve gone through with it. He groomed her by being this rebellious adult figure to her, letting her get away with stuff behind her parents back/telling her stuff they wouldn’t take about to them.
I agree with most of what you said and Bojack is without a doubt definitely in the wrong my point was that Penny wasn’t a victim
Is it still grooming if it’s unintentional serious question cause if grooming is still grooming unintentionally then yeah Bojack groomed Penny but if grooming requires intent then no he didn’t
I’m low key sick of people still defending BoJack for trying to sleep with Penny in New Mexico. It doesn’t matter that Penny was the legal age of consent or that she insisted she wanted it. She was seventeen, she thought a guy saying “hey” to her on a daily basis was a special thing, she was clearly too naive when it came to relationships let alone having sex, which I don’t blame her for how many of us were relationship experts when we were 17?
And BoJack, a (horse) man in his early fifties, was going to take advantage of that just because her mother rejected him asking her to run away and be with him when she was married with two teen kids and hadn’t had a conversation with him in thirty years. True he rejected Penny at first, and when she came onto him a second time he said “Go to bed Penny”, but he left his cabin door open, it was kinda his way of agreeing indirectly.
And he was going to do it. I know people debate this a lot because nothing had happened between Penny and BoJack yet when Charlotte walked in, it almost looked like she was fixing his tie, but in Start Spreading the News (the episode where the manatee reporter tapes BoJack talking about the incident) BoJack says
“I keep asking myself if her mother didn't walk in, would I have done it? And part of me is sure that I-- I couldn't. But another part knows that's a lie.”
And in That’s Too Much Man! he says
“And first, I tried to sleep with the mom, but she said no. Then, I tried to sleep with the daughter.”
He flat out says he was gonna sleep with Penny
I don’t rly understand why there’s still a debate on whether he was really gonna do it or not.
I watched youtube video abt this and in the comment section, most men were going on how Penny was at fault.
Disgusting.
I don't understand adult ppl who has drive to sleep with teenagers?? Why??! Why not pick someone your own age??
Penny isn’t at fault but she’s also definitely not a victim
Bojack never initiates even when we see them together Bojack is sitting with his hands behind him
Also he was drunk and emotionally hurt not just cause a woman he liked rebuked his advances or because he was being forced to go back to the people he’d hurt but also because he’d finally had happiness he’d gotten what he always wanted a sitcom life and when Penny showed up again he tried one final time to say no and she didn’t listen
“In Europe they–”
WHERE in Europe??!? WHERE??? You mean Iceland?? Azerbaijan? The Netherlands? Liechtenstein???? THERE ARE 50 COUNTRIES IN EUROPE. ALL WITH DIFFERENT CULTURES. SO PRAY TELL ME, WHERE IN FUCKING EUROPE.
in europe they got antisemitism
in europe they hate the romani
Look Europe is definitely not as great as some people make it but neither are USA and Canada
Honestly at this point it’s terrible everywhere
Everybody shits on the US though