Women can be difficult to understand. Men often find themselves going crazy trying to figure us out. Itās hard to know what weāre thinking! This is especially true when it comes to women in China. Many Chinese ladies will say yes when what they mean is no, especially when they are communicating with their boyfriend or husband. In general Chinese women tend to be more restrained, and do not express themselves in a direct way. So how can you know what we are thinking? Let me reveal to you ā8 Loveās Liesā help you understand their true meaning.
1. ä½ å„½ē¬Øåļ¼ nĒ hĒo bĆØn a!Ā
If a Chinese woman says this, donāt take it negatively. This is actually an expression of love and affection. Sometimes, we use āē¬Ø (bĆØn)ā to describe our boyfriends in an endearing manner. Chinese women often use negative words like āē¬Ø (bĆØn) stupidā or āč ¢ (chĒn) stupidā when talking with people who are close to them because they know these words they can use freely. The relationship between them is so close, they feel comfortable being free with their language and making fun. This is a way to express their close relationship. Other similar expressions include:
å°ē¬Øč (xiĒo bĆØndĆ n): Small stupid, Little fool.
XiĒo bĆØndĆ n, nĒ zhÄn de hĒo kÄāĆ i.
å°ē¬Øč, ä½ ēē儽åÆē±.
Little fool, you are so lovely.
2. ä½ å„½č®Øåļ¼ nĒ hĒo tĒoyĆ n! Ā Ā
Some Chinese women use this sentence when they want to act cute. Usually, when they say this expression the real intention is āyou are amusingā or āyou are lovely and I like you.ā
3. ęę²”äŗļ¼/ ęå¾å„½ļ¼wĒ mĆ©ishƬ! / WĒ hÄn hĒo! Ā
Iām okay! / Iām very good!
Trust me, if a Chinese lady says āęę²”äŗ (wĒ mĆ©ishƬ)ā or āęå¾å„½ (wĒ hÄn hĒo)āāmost of time they are meaning the exactly opposite: āI am not okay.ā Like many women, Chinese women will often try to hide feelings of depression, anger, or cover up the fact that they have made any mistakes. By saying this they are able to avoid the inconvenience of having to reflect on these things. They want to keep you from worrying, too. But donāt be fooled. When they say theyāre okay, they are really saying is, āIām not okay, and Iām not very happy.ā
4. å¤Ŗ蓵äŗļ¼tĆ i guƬ le!
If you go shopping with your Chinese girlfriend, she might say āå¤Ŗ蓵äŗ (tĆ i guƬ le).ā So how do you think you would react? Oftentimes men will go out of the store and compare the price of other items. This is NOT the thing to do in China. Because āå¤Ŗ蓵äŗ (tĆ i guƬ le) Too expensiveā actually means āshe really, really likes this thing.ā If your lady is shopping with you and sees something very special, her first reaction is to go forward and check it carefully. If she sees the price is high, she will often say āå¤Ŗ蓵äŗļ¼ę们äøéč¦ä¹°ć(tĆ i guƬ le, wĒmen bĆ¹ xÅ« yÄo mĒi) Itās too expensive, we donāt need to buy it.ā At this time, the considerate man should know that the woman really likes the item, not that she doesnāt like it.
5. ęäøåØä¹ćwĒ bĆ¹ zĆ ihÅ«.
āęäøåØä¹ (wĒ bĆ¹zĆ ihÅ«) I donāt care.ā- again, the opposite. She totally cares. For example: Some females show a careless attitude toward their boyfriendās ex-girlfriends. They even say āęäøåØä¹ (wĒ bĆ¹zĆ ihÅ«) I donāt care.ā Donāt be fooled! Men need to know that this is often said by women who do not want to appear jealous. But the truth is, if your girlfriend cares for you, she cares about your history. So donāt get tricked on this one. She definitely cares.
6. ęåä¹äøę³č§å°ä½ !Ā wĒ zĆ i yÄ bĆ¹xiĒng jiĆ n dĆ o nĒ!
I donāt want to see you again!
Women often use words like āęåä¹äøę³č§å°ä½ (wĒ zĆ i yÄ bĆ¹xiĒng jiĆ n dĆ o nĒ) I donāt want to see you again!ā to hide their disappointment. This is just a kneejerk statement. Donāt take her literally when she says this. When you hear this phrase, know that she just might need a little space, or even a hug and some affection to show her how much you care. These bad moods may come often, so donāt be intimidated by them.
7. ä½ ęÆäøäøŖ儽äŗŗćĀ nĒ shƬ yÄ«gĆØ hĒorĆ©n.Ā
If a Chinese lady says to you: āä½ ęÆäøäøŖ儽äŗŗ (nĒ shƬ yĆ gĆØ hĒorĆ©n) You are a good person.ā you have the right to feel disappointed. Because Chinese women only express this kind of admiration to a guy they are officially putting in the friend zone. What sounds like admiration is just a basic declaration of: āYou are just a friend and Iām not interested in you romantically.ā In Chinese, we say is āå儽äŗŗå” (FÄ hĒorĆ©n kĒ) send good guy card.ā or that ā儽äŗŗå”ļ¼ In the friend zoneā.
8. ę²”å
³ē³»ļ¼ä½ å»åæå§ļ¼ mĆ©iguÄnxƬ, nĒ qĆ¹ mĆ”ng ba!
It does not matter, you can go to work!
Usually women will say āę²”å
³ē³»ļ¼ä½ å»åæå§ (mĆ©iguÄnxƬ, nĒ qĆ¹ mĆ”ng ba) It does not matter, you can go to work!ā when you say that you are tied up with work and canāt make time right then to be with her. But you should know that when they say this they do in fact want your company, then and there. Most of time, when it comes to either your work or your girlfriend, your girlfriend hopes that she is the top priority.
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