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Iâve Fallen in Love Again
She reminds me of a dandelion, her beautiful blonde hair flowing around her in just the right amount of fluffiness. She says she hates her hair, but I adore it. The way she walks, talks, smilesâŚshe makes me weak, but also strong.
 Her personality is one of a kind, always sweet and gentle, but with a kick of spice. Sheâs independent, not afraid to go her own way and not letting anyone stop her. Her way with words, her intelligence, lights a fire in my chest. How could someone like her have fallen for someone like me?
 She is my husbandâs girlfriend, and I hope to every higher power that she will be mine, too.
thereâs a website where you put in two musicians/artists and it makes a playlist that slowly transitions from one musicianâs style of music to the otherâs
itâs really fun
lady gaga -> napalm death takes a weird detour through epic rap battles of history
This is actually really useful for finding music thatâs in between genres that I wouldnât know to look for.
This has nothing to do with books but itâs COOL
so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now iâm thinkingâŚ.maybe this is the good luck post
âŚ..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment
likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post
This is literally the hardest shit I've ever had to go through.
Dad was supposed to walk me down the aisle, not the other way around.
Why did he have to go...
smash that mf reblog if u hate pedophiles
You know that post with the broken likes? If this doesnât get enough reblogs to crash the icon then Iâm fucking rioting
cranky because you havenât had any prophetic dreams to aid you on your quest arenât you
Don't cALL ME OUT LIKE THAT
freddie mercury singing âi wanna make a supersonic man out of youâ and then later in the song repeating the lyric as âi wanna make a supersonic woman of youâ is bi culture
Freddie himself is bi culture thanks
Heal the Heart Potion
a black rose tea to remove sadness from your heart to be replaced with love and happiness
ingredients:
black tea (1 tbs*)
rose petals (2 tbs)
*tbs = tablespoons
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mix together the parts of black tea and rose petals, put a teaspoon of loose tea in a strainer and steep in hot water for 3-4 minutes.
remove the tea and add desired sweetener.
stir the tea counterclockwise in order to send away the sadness and bring happiness and love back into your heart.
inhale the steam from the cup and close your eyes, imagine pure energy filling your body
exhale, imagine the bad energy leaving, the sadness leaving your body to make room for the love and happiness.
drink the tea and allow your broken heart to mend with each sip đ
I need some love and light in my life right now. My father passed away early this morning. I'm still in a daze from it all, and just feel completely numb...
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RE: Gardner controversy (LGBT issues in Wicca)
Recently a Core (meaning the 4 of us who started this and who are most heavily involved in the group on a regular basis) Oly Witch Crew member posted a rant about Gerald Gardner, which received over 1000 notes and made a Wiccan high priest upset. ( @judd051Â ) He felt that we were unfair about Gardner and had been misled by some poor research. He made some interesting points which I am researching still. I have been swamped with homework for my class so my rebuttal has been delayed. I wanted to take the time to research in depth the sources my debate opponent referred to and that is still in process.
TW: Homohobia, Queerphobia
However, another discussion got very intense on a pagan forum on a site where i spend a lot of time. It centered around issues members of the queer and LGBT community have with Wicca. In particular we talked about the heterosexual focus and gender polarity of god/goddess (which is actually Duotheistic, not polytheistic, ) and how that can be alienating. Someone named Silveroak, a cis straight man, got really angry and accused me and my peers of âslanderingâ wicca. Lots of mansplaining going on. I felt a need to respond with a thorough as possible understanding of the kind of man Gerald Gardner was. Me and my partner immersed ourselves in his books, especially the Gardnerian book of Shadows and Witchcraft Today.Â
Thus my rebuttal will come in two sections:
1. Gerald Gardners extremely problematic stance on LGBT people, gender, women, male/female polarity, and sexuality.Â
2. Gerald Gardners research, scholarship, and aspects of both which I consider highly questionable.Â
I will be focusing on #1 today, primarily with quotes.
âThe Wicca should give due worship to the Gods and obey their will, which they Ardane, for it was made for the good of the Wicca, As the [5] Wiccaâs worship is good for the Gods, For the Gods love the Wicca. As a man loveth a woman, by mastering her, so the Wicca should love the Gods, by being mastered by them. And it is necessary that the Circle, which is the Temple of the Gods, should be truly cast and purified, that it [10] may be a fit place for the Gods to enter. And the Wicca should be properly prepared and purified, to enter into the presence of the Gods. With love and worship in their hearts they shall raise power from their bodies to give power to the Gods, as has been taught us of old, [15] For in this way only may man have communion with the Gods, for the Gods cannot help man without the help of men.â (Gardner, page 64 from the Gardnerian Book of Shadows)
My commentary:
Apparently a man can only love a woman by âmasteringâ her. This means that the only type of love Gardner considers valid is one based on domination and an unequal power relationship.Â
 Lois Bourne, one of the High Priestesses of the Bricket Wood coven, who was initiated by Gardner, had this to say about him:
âGerald was homophobic. He had a deep hatred and detestation of homosexuality, which he regarded as a disgusting perversion and a flagrant transgression of natural lawâŚ. âThere are no homosexual witches, and it is not possible to be a homosexual and a witchâ Gerald almost shouted. No one argued with him.[5]â
source cited:
Bourne, Lois Dancing with Witches. (2006) London: Robert Hale. ISBN 0-7090-8074-3. p.38. (Hardback edition first published 1998).
It is important to mention that gardner initiated Lois Bourne and so she knew him personally for years.
 Some will claim that modern wiccans venerating a homophobic priest, living by his rules, and defending him dogmatically doesnt have any effect on how they treat LGBT people. that would be the most obvious possible case of a logical fallacy. Not to mention that Dianic Wiccans bar entrance to trans women.      ( Adler, Margaret (2006). Drawing down the moon: witches, Druids, goddess-worshippers, and other pagans in America. Penguin Books. p. 126.)
Further Commentary:
 here are some more quotes from Gardner himself.
âa woman may impersonate either the God or the Goddess, but a man may only impersonate the God.â (The Priestess and the Sword) page 27 of the Gardnerian BOS
commentary: In other words if you are assigned male at birth, you cannot embody the goddess, and any attempt to do so would be seen as illegitimate impersonation.
âThe Knights of the Temple, who used mutually to scourge each other in an octagon, did better still; but they apparently did not know the virtue of bonds and did evil, man to man" (The Gardnerian book of Shadows)
In Witchcraft today, he speaks on the same subject this way:Â
â The witches tell me: âThe law always has been that power must be passed from man to woman or from woman to man, the only exception being when a mother initiates her daughter or a father his son, because they are part of themselves.â (The reason is that great love is apt to occur between people who go through the rites together.)
They go on to say: âThe Templars broke this age-old rule and passed the power from man to man: this led to sin and in so doing it brought about their downfall.â â
Excerpt From: Gardner, Gerald B. âWitchcraft Today.â page 69.
All male spiritual groups are evil, apparently? This Wiki article has this to say in Gardners defense:Â
However, the above quote is in the context of a section in Gardnerâs book examining why the Templars were executed by the Christian Church, so it is entirely possible that the reference is not to Gardnerâs own opinion of homosexuality but that of earlier Christians. Gardner goes on to defend the Templars by saying that the charges against them were âtrumped upâ.
This doesnt explain a few things:Â
1. First of all, what is the deal with âthe witches tell meâ without any citation, reference, or specifics about who these people are and where they got their information from? If I wrote a book on an important subject and said âan old man in a blue hat told meâŚâ and called it a day, people would think i was a shitty scholar and i would be. why is gerald gardner any different? Is it not at least possible that he is making up vague nonexistent witches so he can pass of his own bad ideas as someone elses and thus shield himself from direct criticism?
2. Looking at the way Gardner treated the subject in the Gardnerian book of shadows, you can clearly see the phrase âThey did evil, man to manâÂ
3. Gardner waffling on an aspect of the issue doesnât change the fact that he is clearly stating that the reason why initiations always must happen in a heterosexual context is because the rites produce âgreat loveâ. clearly he is afraid of âgreat loveâ between same sex partners. Saying the charges against the Templars were trumped up is such an obvious fact that him admitting such does not amount to anything. Everyone knows the charges were trumped up. Its like if someone said I was scum for being trans, and then, when I got put in jail for killing the mayor with mental laser beams, the transphobe admits âthose are trumped up chargesâ and people assume he is a trans ally.Â
4. The idea that the Templars sinned by use of male/male initiations and this led to their downfall is fucking bullshit. This basically implies that they are to blame for their arrest, interrogation, and brutal torture. This dishonors every witch ancestors who endured those agonizing times. The church was evil and abusive and corrupt. You dont blame the heretic, you blame the oppressor!!! Â To imply that if only the Templars had done this or that they would have been spared places the blame on THEM, thus placing no blame on the church, even though it was the corrupt catholic church and the corrupt state that engineered the whole thing!
5. Even if this is just an idea that Gardner quoted, consider
  A) even if these âwitchesâ were actual people (and not just a construct so that gardner could conceal that these were HIS ideas, remember there is no citation of who these people are) Gardner, when quoting them, makes no analysis that would show how such ideas dishonor the struggle of heretics and witches in that brutal time.Â
 B) When he talks about the same subject in the GBOS, he states it as his idea, not as an idea a mysterious vague âwitchâ told him, AND he specifically uses the word âsinâ. Why the fuck should witches even believe in âsinâ?Â
6. Are we seriously supposed to believe that if the Templars had just been more heterosexual and had involved more heterosexuality in their rituals, the Catholic Church would have left them alone? WTF?
(The Templars, by the way, were involved in the crusades which were one of the most racist atrocities in all of world history. so fuck them. I am not worshipping the Templars or saying they were perfect or heroes or total victims. I am just focusing on the specific case of their persecution as heretics. I am just saying that blaming them for their persecution as heretics excuses the church from responsibility, sets a dangerous precedent and dishonors the struggles of the past.)
But this is one of the worst of all:
[5] It hath been found that this practice doth often cause a fondness between aspirant and tutor, and âtis a cause of better results if this be so. If for any reason it is undesirable that there be any great fondness between aspirant and tutor, this may be easily avoided, by both parties from the onset firmly resolving in their minds that if any doth ensue, it shall be that of brother and sister or parent and child.
And it is for this reason that a man may only be taught by a woman and a woman by a man, and that man and man, and woman and woman, should never attempt these practices together.And may all the Curses of the Mighty Ones be on any who make the attempt
(Page 32, Gardnerian Book of shadows, To Gain the Sight)
A CURSE. GARDNER LITERALLY WISHED A CURSE UPON ANY MALE/MALE or FEMALE/FEMALE GROUPS WHO DARED TO FORM MENTORING OR INITIATORY RELATIONSHIPS WITH EACH OTHER.
He is saying in no uncertain terms that homosexual acts in ritual, or any ritual in which men initiate each other, or women initiate each other, is evil and should be cursed by the GODS. That would include a huge portion of the Wolf Creek radical fairy community, which I am a part of. It would include the overwhelming majority of Short Mountain. According to Gardner, everyone on short mountain is evil because they are men initiating men and/or exploring homosexual intimacy in ritual.
Furthermore, the requirement of intimacy and touch is built into the rituals of the Gardnerian book of shadows, namely the 5 fold kiss. (which includes the vagina) Coupled with the idea that homosexual initiations are âevilâ, that means that a (cis) woman, regardless of her sexual orientation, has to be initiated by a (cis) male.
In conclusionâŚ
If you see issues with Gardner, but you think the core of Gardnerian Wicca is basically good, and you want to build a tradition out of that which is LGBT inclusive, I can respect that. If you are a Gardnerian witch and see how he was a problematic figure, but due to investing your whole life in GW you feel you need to change it from the inside rather then leaving it entirely, I can respect that. If you are part of one of the other Wicca groups, such as the Feri Tradition, that seek to keep the âgoodâ parts of Wicca and discard the bad, I can respect that.
ButâŚthis man was homophobic. There is no way that that homophobia and heavy focus on male/female polarity and heteronormativity did not in some form bias the rituals and affect the way they were put together. If you insist on believing, in spite of the evidence, that Gardnerian Wicca is flawless and perfect and that the man made no mistakes, you are not an LGBT ally. And do not fucking tell me that he was a product of his time, that is BS. Austin Osman Spare and Aleister Crowley lived during an even earlier more repressive time and both were bisexual and wrote about it openly at great risk. Admittedly they were problematic figures too, but I dont worship anyone as a hero, I look at what is good and what is bad and I do my best to salvage the past to build something healthy today. What Wiccans hold on to so desperately is the idea of a whole, intact, complete witch tradition, but the reality is that there is no such thing. Its all ripped up bits and scraps and a collage of what is left, and accepting that is the only logical starting point, in my perspective. The author I quoted on this subject is a valid source, by the way, but that is, admittedly , a train of thought for the second section of my rebuttal, which I am not yet finished with.
GG Irkalla
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Billie Joe Armstrong literally wrote a song about coming out as bisexual as a teenager, and then like two years later wrote one that was pretty much all about dressing up in drag and getting fucked by/fucking guys, and y'all STILL say heâs a âstraight allyâ because he married a woman??
The same goes for Freddy Mercury and David Bowie. Both were openly bi. Both wrote (multiple) songs about their queerness. Both are pigeonholed as either âgayâ or âstraightâ. They were both neither of those things.
hey remember when freddy mercury wrote a literal song about wanting to be allowed to be bisexual without it being a big deal and was incredibly obvious about it and then straighties went âoh lol look at how quirky queen is writing a song all about bicycles!â
This also happened to p!nk, sheâs openly bisexual but since sheâs married to a man and has had two babies with him, people say that sheâs straight.
Like, yeah she does a lot and shows a lot of support for the LGBT+ community but she isnât just an ally, sheâs part of that community.
Biphobia is completely real and so many Bi wlw and mlm are assigned the âstraightâ role when they just ARENT.
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THIS COUNTS FOR FICS TOO YOU GUYS reblog. Itâs really not that hard
Why is it that people happily reblog this but not art posts?
the frustrating thing about biphobia is how casual it is and how most people perpetuate it without even giving it a second thought. like iâve come out to two men that iâve entered into romantic relationships with since knowing i was bi and both times there was the surprise and then the questions that were both incredibly invasive AND incredibly insensitive. like if iâve been with a girl (no) and the follow up to thisâhow i could know i was bi if iâve never been in a relationship with a girl. or if i had to choose who would i have a threesome with, AND if Iâd be interested in eventually having a threesome with the person i was coming out to and someone else. if iâve ever cheated on someone or if i ever would. like im so tired of this.
first of all this idea that everyone is entitled to a bi personâs sexual history, and that if they donât feel like sharing their history or donât have experience that the person prying deems bi enough on its own then obviously the person coming out is just misdirected. and then the idea that not only is everyone entitled to bi peopleâs sexual history, but also to their sexual preferences! intensely personal questions like what bi people prefer to do in bed is not something that you would ever ask a straight person upon finding out they were straight. itâs incredibly insulting and frustrating to find that even people who are supposedly progressive and open to the idea of bi people being actual people tend to fall back on these stereotypes that paint us as nothing but sexually deviant at best and as mere sexual objects at worst.
itâs shameful and makes my skin crawl to think that these negative stereotypes are what first come to everyoneâs mind when someone mentions bisexuality. bisexuality is not inherently sexually deviant or dishonest or strange. itâs just a sexuality. and i wish that more people would be mindful enough to respect that, especially when coming in contact with a bi person who feels comfortable enough to come out to them and is then treated like a harmful stereotype.
non-bi people can reblog this.