Nightshades

Bodily 18 - A/An | Vi/Vir | Oe/Oen - Trisnull | Anonbinary Xenogender | Neurodivergent | Plural - Pro-Endo - JSAB Spintrest

[x-mendacium]

i accidnetally got way too into gay lawyers man. in the nd way. hmmm

[genderqueerpositivity]

Minnesota’s Giant Rainbow and Leather Pride Flags

June 28, 1998. Both flags measured approximately 50 feet wide and 75 feet long.

[ryuutchi]

Friendly reminder that the leather flag predates almost every other flag. We owe this community to leather daddies and kinksters

[nightmarechamillian]

In the era of corporate sanitization never forget it was leather daddies and S&M folks who protected some of the earliest pride parades.

[x-mendacium]

happy pride month! i bought myself lawyer yaoi for passing the tests!

[x-mendacium]

we have finished school, and wow, it's weird-

anyways, now i feel more capable when it comes to talking about plurality xd

[cuunos]

being a kid and hearing adults say stuff like "woah 2011 was 4 years ago haha" didn't really convey the fucking horror of a youtube video crossing my recommended labelled "9 years ago" and it's from 2017. that's not true. 9 years ago is 2010 or something. don't lie.

[x-mendacium]

making resources for plurality in our native language is something, all the translating is something. i am cooking up new words left and right xd

[the-hadal-zone-sys]

Y'know what?

Genuinely fuck you if you're still spreading that bullshit that plurals can't be happy and that being plural has to be all misery all the time or else you're faking!!!

I'm tired of being nice about this!! I love my headmates and I will never, EVER pretend otherwise!!

[x-mendacium]

i sometimes feel like i have real untapped potential to speak loudly and proudly about things i love, but the anxiety-

[eptck]

you have to be kinder to people with memory issues.

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.

you have to be kind. you have to be kind.

[x-mendacium]

just clicked that what helps us feel better as an amnesiac system is admiting, to ourselves, that we do forget. like yeah, i don't know, but let's continue

[ahmnorhein-zkn]

Repost, now do your honors.

[x-mendacium]

why do i get so surprised when the dissociative disorder protects me with... more dissociation. like wow, such a shock

[x-mendacium]

What about 🟨 (do alters have their own rooms/areas in your headspace?) if you’re still doing that plural ask game :3c

our asks are always open for this. so uh, yeah, i can answer

all of us have our own room in a layer under our main headspace. the layer under is full of corridors, there are lamps that cast darkness, and everybody has their own room there. the rooms are basically like small pocket dimensions and everyone can have anything they want there. some have their own worlds, others have just chosen to have a general room ^^

[achillesinhighheels]

sorry i never replied. everyday is blending together and i'm losing sense of time

[x-mendacium]

having some fucking weird ass dissociative switching day

[x-mendacium]

i think i feel a bit to much like Simon from Iron Lung and it's weirding me out. huh...

[positivitygenic]

not knowing why you are the way you are, or why you act the way you do, can easily be very distressing to just about everyone. in your confusing and uncertain time, please remember that you deserve patience and kindness. your struggles do not make you any less deserving of such, even when you don't have a name for your struggles.