Fact: not everyone with autism can just āunderstandā things just like that. Especially in regards to social situations, *especially* online. Expecting everyone with autism to just āget itā and getting angry with them if they donāt is wrong. Because maybe they didnāt get it?
Maybe it flew right over our head? Maybe we really were completely unaware, and no one bothered to think this was a possibility? Maybe using your own neurodivergence to say horrible things about other ND people for not getting something, is kind of a very shitty thing to do?
1) youāve been told what youāve been done wrong, yet instead of even acknowledging the post, youāre only cherry picking and responding to the fact that most of the server is nd and the marcy infantalization bit, by vagueposting 2) you were told what you were doing even while you were still in the server, like being suggested/asked to stop spamming the vc with cursed food images, or me pinging you at least a couple of times for you to google the meaning of a term you asked about (it was an nsfw term by the way, ((which is why no one wanted to explain it)) and you brought that up in the prescence of at least a couple of minors, iirc), or other people asking you in general to just use google instead of asking them to explain. just because people donāt phrase stuff like a command doesnāt mean you shouldnāt listen to them when they ask or request for you to stop with a behavior 3) putting aside whether they were abelist or not, most of the server members are minors. they are minors that are there to relax in a fandom space, and no matter the context a minor should not be obligated to explain to an adult what they are doing wrong and/or why itās wrong. you are an adult.Ā 4) you talk about harassment, yet even before this, you continued to vague post for a month at least, and also doing stuff like reblogging someone from the serverās art and being salty in their tags (who btw, has little to no clue wtf you were on about, given that theyāve barely interacted w you while you were in the server). you couldāve just blocked the people you thought were involved. also if you really think the people involved are abelist, why are you supporting them by giving them attention by reblogging from them? 5) disregarding the fact of whether apologies can be harassment or not (which they can, iāve already explained it to you in an ask), tracking down people who have little to gen no fucking clue tf you are talking about |(as they werenāt involved) bc you assumed they were involved simply bc they were in the server to give them aplogies they donāt need or want definitely does. you went and bothered a literal nd minor with this, who was 1) confused bc they didnt have any involvement like you assumed they did, 2) more then a lil anxious over some random person suddenly being allĀ āif you have problems with me just tell me up frontā (once again not a minorās responsibility to tell an adult what theyāre doing wrong, but i digress) and giving them an apology they neither wanted or needed. that is not counting me, also a literal nd minor, and while i am a few years older then the first person, and know more about the situation then they do, i too was similarly intially very confused, as i did not decide to kick you from the second server or the like. 6) once again the first post responding to you most definitely wasnāt harassment, it was a post replying to one of your posts, after at least a month of you vague posting about the two servers continously, and it was listing the behaviors that got you in trouble and kicked, like you claimed you wanted to know, yet you have not adressed any of them or tried to debunk them, instead you keep posting about nd people being abelist (which yes, i agree, nd people can be abelist, but imo this is not that) and only addressing the marcy infantalization bit. you could at least respond to the original post and debunk the claims if you are in the right.


















