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Fact: not everyone with autism can just “understand” things just like that. Especially in regards to social situations, *especially* online. Expecting everyone with autism to just “get it” and getting angry with them if they don’t is wrong. Because maybe they didn’t get it?

Maybe it flew right over our head? Maybe we really were completely unaware, and no one bothered to think this was a possibility? Maybe using your own neurodivergence to say horrible things about other ND people for not getting something, is kind of a very shitty thing to do?

0braincells-trainsmasc

1) you’ve been told what you’ve been done wrong, yet instead of even acknowledging the post, you’re only cherry picking and responding to the fact that most of the server is nd and the marcy infantalization bit, by vagueposting 2) you were told what you were doing even while you were still in the server, like being suggested/asked to stop spamming the vc with cursed food images, or me pinging you at least a couple of times for you to google the meaning of a term you asked about (it was an nsfw term by the way, ((which is why no one wanted to explain it)) and you brought that up in the prescence of at least a couple of minors, iirc), or other people asking you in general to just use google instead of asking them to explain. just because people don’t phrase stuff like a command doesn’t mean you shouldn’t listen to them when they ask or request for you to stop with a behavior 3) putting aside whether they were abelist or not, most of the server members are minors. they are minors that are there to relax in a fandom space, and no matter the context a minor should not be obligated to explain to an adult what they are doing wrong and/or why it’s wrong. you are an adult. 4) you talk about harassment, yet even before this, you continued to vague post for a month at least, and also doing stuff like reblogging someone from the server’s art and being salty in their tags (who btw, has little to no clue wtf you were on about, given that they’ve barely interacted w you while you were in the server). you could’ve just blocked the people you thought were involved. also if you really think the people involved are abelist, why are you supporting them by giving them attention by reblogging from them? 5) disregarding the fact of whether apologies can be harassment or not (which they can, i’ve already explained it to you in an ask), tracking down people who have little to gen no fucking clue tf you are talking about |(as they weren’t involved) bc you assumed they were involved simply bc they were in the server to give them aplogies they don’t need or want definitely does. you went and bothered a literal nd minor with this, who was 1) confused bc they didnt have any involvement like you assumed they did, 2) more then a lil anxious over some random person suddenly being all “if you have problems with me just tell me up front” (once again not a minor’s responsibility to tell an adult what they’re doing wrong, but i digress) and giving them an apology they neither wanted or needed. that is not counting me, also a literal nd minor, and while i am a few years older then the first person, and know more about the situation then they do, i too was similarly intially very confused, as i did not decide to kick you from the second server or the like. 6) once again the first post responding to you most definitely wasn’t harassment, it was a post replying to one of your posts, after at least a month of you vague posting about the two servers continously, and it was listing the behaviors that got you in trouble and kicked, like you claimed you wanted to know, yet you have not adressed any of them or tried to debunk them, instead you keep posting about nd people being abelist (which yes, i agree, nd people can be abelist, but imo this is not that) and only addressing the marcy infantalization bit. you could at least respond to the original post and debunk the claims if you are in the right.

#those are my two cents on this whole situation #if you have something to say or ask #dm me #though i might not respond and/or forget because of being busy with schoolwork #idk anything to say aside from im sorry that you're going through this and ik the situation sucks #but imo #at the very least #no one involved is being abelist like you claim they are here

mutualize

Don't kill yourself, please.

mutualize

If you’re suffering from depression and are looking for a sign to not go through with ending your life, this is it. This is the sign. We care.

If you see this on your dash, reblog it. You could save a life.

#jesus christ i def needed to see this #not planning anything but my thoughts defo aren’t the best place lately either #so I’m definitely reblogging this for anyone else who needs to see this #misc #important #you matter #cw: suicide mention

one-crusty-batch-of-nature-deac

Amphibia girls my beloved

#amphibia

dash-n-step

I'm just... thinking about the implications of Ralsei being Kris's headband when they were a kid.

The thing that let them feel like they actually belonged with their adopted family of a completely different species.

The thing they, for a long time, took everywhere, to the point that maybe that's how Ralsei knows the layout of the school, or even how to get all the way to the library.

And how even as a darkner, he's still trying to give Kris that sense of belonging, with how hard he goes along with just about anything Kris chooses, while still trying to lean them towards the pacific actions that he believes will let them make the most friendships and stronger bonds.

Theories of suspicious behavior withstanding, there's just something there about Ralsei's persistence in being a support to Kris: in battle, as a healer, and out.

Mean Girls (2004)

the way Anne's powers get activated definitely makes me wonder abt how the other two will activate theirs. bc Anne represents heart, and so far she's been able to use her powers when someone she loves is in danger, not on her command alone. obviously this could be seen as a matter of the heart and how it's being pushed to a limit, so.. wondering what circumstances Sash and Marcy will b in when they eventually activate their own powers as far as pushing the limits of strength and wit respectively

#amphibia

fannedom

most underrated joke in the whole episode

#amphibia #prev tags #‘annes himbo energy please’#i love her

piratedisney

Anne : Oh frogging frog!! This is frog-spit!

Mrs Boonchuy : You're now allowed to say fuck, just don't say those other things.

#amphibia #*wheeze*

disableddeinosaur

After all these years… Finally, I have them all.

#amphibia

pyroclastic727

Let’s talk about Anne’s parents

And BOY, do I love her parents! They feel so real, it’s refreshing. Like any good parent, they don’t have an overaching external conflict with their kid. Anne has her internal conflict, and it eventually will manifest into an external one, but Anne’s parents won’t hate her because of that conflict. You can tell they really love her, and they’re proud of her growth in spite of her flaws. That’s good parenting, and that’s something I’ve been wanting to see for a while in cartoons.

That is–seeing parents who go above and beyond to be the best fuckin’ animated parents ever. Look, when your daughter goes missing for five months and brings back three frogs, do you accept that? Well, her parents did! They see how she has grown, and instead of getting mad about her “high horse” like Sasha did, they are proud of how responsible she has become.

Sure, they grieved losing their daughter. But when they got her back and she had a few more dirt stains and a lot more responsibility, they weren’t sad that their kid had grown and moved on from who she once was. They were proud of her! They’re happy with her!

And that’s the lovely thing about parents like these, is that they aren’t like the stereotypical, flat, one-dimensional parent trope. Anne’s parents are real characters, and they exist separately from Anne. And that means Anne exists separately from them.

You can’t blame Anne’s parents for her flaws. She isn’t irresponsible because her parents had a habit of coddling her, nor is she a pushover because her parents forced her to do things. Anne’s choices are hers, and not just because she was operating independently in Amphibia for two seasons. She was making her own decisions before then, decisions that her parents didn’t necessarily cause or agree with.

Sure, there will be a deep, angsty conflict between Anne and her parents. But it isn’t because her parents are disappointed with her, or that they don’t like who she has become. This conflict is going to develop organically, brought on by Anne’s flaws and fears, and we get to watch it happen.

And you know that we’re going to get that with the other two, as well. Marcy’s parents won’t be Shadow Weaver, they’ll be real people with financial problems and a stressful approach towards parenting. Sasha’s parents won’t be the Northwest parents, they’ll be real people who have a lot of money and struggle to accept change.

Now, here’s the thing. As much as we love the Boonchuy parents, they’re helping Anne with setting up a conflict.

You see, the parents have been consistently rewarding and encouraging Anne’s newfound responsibility. That on its own is a wonderful thing and excellent parenting.

The issues comes from Anne. Because what exactly was she doing when her parents called her responsible?

Oh, right. Fighting a killer robot and not telling her parents.

Anne, our resident compartmentalizer and soon-to-be-Adora-kinnie, is barreling directly towards the conclusion that “while this is not my fault, it is my responsibility to make sure nothing like this ever happens again.” We sas this after Sasha took a little tumble off a massive tower, and now we’re seeing this after Marcy got skewered and pickled and otherwise prepared for a dinner. Anne’s favorite coping mechanism is to make like her dad and become overprotective.

Now we watch her going down this overprotective, fearful route. Every time she is alone, a robot attacks her and she has to fight it off. She dips into dangerous powers that sap her energy and paralyze her body and destroy her from the inside out. And then she keeps it from her parents, to the point where she is entirely dependent on the frogs to cover her mistakes, awakening her when she passes out and opening doors when she can’t move her arms. Anne is setting herself up for a moment when she does something far too dangerous, something that hurts her beyond what can be easily repaired, and her parents find her and have to relive the trauma of losing their daughter again.

It’ll be just like After the Rain. Anne will keep a secret from her family, because she’s afraid of just how dangerous the secret is, and she knows there is much more she has yet to face.

Fortunately for Anne, she isn’t alone. Before, her place for Bad Thoughts was entirely in her head. Now, she’s sharing that with the Plantars. She’s confiding in them, keeping them in the loop on everything. They have no secrets.

These are people who swear they won’t make her use her powers again. These are people who have been there through everything. They’re something she has never had, not completely: an inner circle of people she can be herself around. People she trusts.