Yandere Margatroid

She/It TMA Plural Alice Margatroid Pixel Artist (requests open!) of legal age

[wiki-pe-ttanko]

vaguing:

"just wear women's clothes"

great advice if you are not fat and also tall at the same time. your experience is not universal. shopping for womens clothes ruins my fucking day because none of the shit i want to wear actually fits me

[wiki-pe-ttanko]

ive been transitioning for a long time. at some point "i can wear womens clothes" turned into "i have to wear womens clothes". it caused me a lot of frustration, and there were entire categories of garment (long sleeve shirt, for example) that i just avoided because i knew nothing would fit me.

my advice to trans women: wear whatever the fuck you want to wear. style it however the fuck you want. wear clothes that make you feel good. if youre a woman and your wearing them, theyre womens clothes.

[valtsv]

me about to tell the waiter i'd like some dubious consent with my order when i realise that they've already added it without asking me first

[tredlocity]

[tredlocity]

[tboy-trash]

please someone tell me how this is any different from cis transphobes going "you're so heckin valid (even though you're not a Real man/woman)"

[race-bait]

Most Black folks in the US have a deeply painful racial story having to do with interactions with white "friends," including me.

I had a unique experience of going to very diverse schools my entire life, but my family moved out to a mostly white suburb when I was around 11 or 12 years old. So I had friends of all kinds of different backgrounds at school, but my neighborhood friends were almost entirely white. Which was mostly fine as a kid. I even had two of these friends as groomsmen in my wedding.

Things changed shortly after the murder of Trayvon Martin. This is when I started getting more vocal online about racism, anti-Blackness, and the injustices I was observing and grieving throughout the country. It didn't take long at all for the friends from this group to go from uncomfortable, to combative, and then to all blocking me on social media. Once I started talking about race too much, they abandoned me by walking out of my life, which was incredibly painful. These were all very nice, generous, and kind people in every other context of their lives. But something about their racial identity development caused them to turn on me immediately once my voice around race became uncomfortable for them.

Those experiences, along with countless others I've had in my life from white peers, white educators, white store employees, and more, have taught me to be very careful about trusting white folks. Because I have been burned in so many ways in my life.

The key to not unintentionally becoming like this, so wrapped up in your subconscious programming of whiteness and white supremacy that you actively hurt people of color, is to do your inner identity work.

[pocket-deer-belly]

i need people to stop coming to me with their like, deeply personal issues regarding weight and medications and shit like that. in the end i'm just like, a deer who's fat, who can point you in the direction of fat liberation, who's here to kill the part of you who's afraid of being fat. not an animal who's an expert on dealing with doctors.

[pocket-deer-belly]

it's extremely upsetting to read not just because it's, you know, upsetting, but also because i can't do anything.

[joyous-bunnies]

white people: as a white person,

[rabbitkinglune777]

transgender furry fashion

(he/him for Hitch the brown mouse)

(she/her for Hitomi the grey cat)

[rabbitkinglune777]

i wanted to draw them in cute and kinky fashion Bec I love it and I hate prudes

[deerfreak]

tumblr has like genuinely ingrained in me that the idea of being fat isn't just neutral but it's actually awesome and it's done more for my self-esteem than years of eating disorder treatment

[samimasen]

[questcequecestqueca]

Walter Molino

[roach-works]

this man really woke up every morning and committed to painting the absolute dopest fucking pictures anyone could ever have imagined god bless

[buribulla]

Going through it everydayyyy lllloll

[sexy-necromancing-bird]

Is the guy in the cuck chair supposed to stay quiet or is he allowed to clap and cheer

[foxgirlmindcrank]

he's supposed to take notes and make an intrigued hum when an interesting plot point occurs

[conspiracydeerist]

[blu3str1k3]

[thisarenotarealblog]

one is getting cucked by the bottom and the other is getting cucjed by the top. Subject matter experts discussing the sex like a sports panel

[morganoperandi]

One cuck always lies, the other always tells the truth. You have one question to determine who’s a top and who’s a bottom.

[whumpster-fire]

[massivebagingos]

source

[demilypyro]

do not shorten demily to "demi" you are not invoking the demon you are invoking the demon's brother

[demilypyro]

imagining the series of revelations that would result from this

the guy doesn't seem surprised by the confusion because this happens regularly

the guy does know the cool demon girl

the guy and the cool demon girl hang out regularly?

the guy has the cool demon girl's number in his phone and just calls her to come over??

the guy and the cool demon girl are brother and sister???

oh it's adoptive

[lady-of-vitreous-sight]

The thing is: if your predominantly trans space makes a cis guy uncomfortable, that guy is probably not a good fit for the space. Like, cis guys who complain about egg jokes are, in my experience moderating such spaces, also extremely likely to start talking about misandry being a real problem and how feminists need to quiet down.

At the same time, I don't particularly think "taking action for the purposes of making someone uncomfortable" is good for a space, either. I think it's very easy for a space to produce a culture that makes existing users comfortable at the cost of making the space more hostile for new users.

But, uh, egg jokes are a part of transfem social reproduction. Venting about how men suck is part of being a woman (in fact, venting about how your oppressors suck is part of being part of any marginalized group). And, as a marginalized group, being loud is part of feeling safe.

I think "this is bad because it makes cis men uncomfortable" discourse is disguising one thing as another. Producing a reasonable sounding justification that preys on the listener's unfamiliarity with the problem (and, in fact, their tendency to center the experiences of cis men).

An important thing to understand in order to understand intersectionality is that "cis man" is not the 'average person'. In general, the experiences of the least marginalized are not a "canary in the coal mine" that must be looked to first. In fact, our movement must be built upon the experiences of the multiply-marginalized, not those closest to the top.

[fus-mar-hoz]

you don't understand the liberatory nuances of the owl house because you used chatgpt to write an email