I am not like you.

radeviant sideblog

[acceptotherpeople]

Just realized I never wrote an intro post on this sideblog. Oops.

I'm pro-para (anti-c), pro-transID, pro-ship (despite what certain pro-shippers say 😉), and radeviant.

I'm agefluid, but my age generally falls around 16 years old. I'm cisindigenous and translatina. I have multiple mental illnesses, disabilities, chronic illnesses, and an acute serious illness that I'm too lazy to list right now. I'm a transspecies bird.

Feel free to send an ask if you have any questions or want clarification! Also, feel free to ask for my other blog names if you want -- I may not tell you if your blog seems sketchy, but you can always ask. 💙

[rumlw-deactivated20251212]

One of my more controversial takes is that it's okay to fetishize everything. Yes, everything. Nobody is obligated to know what's in your mind and you can't hurt people telepathically with your thoughts.

Your actions determine what kind of a person you are, not your fetishes and fantasies.

[thisisparamisia]

I live across the street from someone with a bumper sticker that reads, "dead pedos don't offend" and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. They've tried talking to me a few times, but I just run away.

This is paramisia.

[acceptotherpeople]

I really didn't want to get into this discourse. But I'm so tired of people saying that people who are anti-Nazi don't "support" transnazis.

I support transnazis because I fully believe that they are who and what they say they are. Transnazi is a valid transID -- everyone who says they're a transnazi should be believed.

I just don't agree with bigotry in general, so I have a problem with transnazis who transition. This is completely different than not supporting them!

[what-a-bastard]

This post keeps getting put on my dash and it sucks so bad because if you're a true freak that's the "please don't try to ruin my life because you find out something you don't like" stage, that's the "no call-out posts or doxxing please" stage that's the "don't start baseless rumors that I'm a child molester" stage

[para-fessional]

it always kind of makes [us] giggle when antis go: “we hate MAPs! we hate zoos!” and necros are just sitting in the corner avoiding the line of fire.

obviously it is sad and sucks how mean antis are but it is kinda goofy

Unpopular opinion: I don’t think that necrophilia should be apart of the big 3.

It should be MAP/pedophilia, then consang, and zoophilia last.

Not saying necrophilia isn’t controversial, it’s just not in the top 3.

The big 5 would be something like (ranked from least to most controversial):

MAP/pedophilia

Consang

Zoophilia

Necrophilia

Biastophilia

[until-the-last-king-died]

The big 3 didn't start as a collective name for identities most hated by antis, it started as a bridge between identities with preexisting prominence in para spaces and influence on them. It's necrophilia instead of consang because consang's entry in para politics is relatively new.

[a-crook-and-his-wealth-journey]

The first known usage of YtO and OtY apparently.

Full History of the term Transage and the Transage flag | by Adèle 🧡…

[gaphic]

watching the leftism leaving peoples bodies when you point out the sex offender registry is a grotesque violation of human rights

[gaphic]

the only reason the registry exists is because we culturally view sexual crimes as inherently more evil and unforgivable than any other kind of violence. people are more willing to believe that a murder can grow and change than a flasher. if you’re woke enough to believe that ‘innocence’ is a fascist concept and sex is just another thing the body can do, then you should believe the corollary: hurting someone with your genitals is no different from hurting them with your fists

and yet, murderers and other violent offenders do not have their full names, faces, and addresses put on a public database for the rest of their lives. there is no such thing. they are not legally barred from watching movies containing violence, or owning imagery containing violence

in my state, sex offender probation means you can be searched, at any time, without a warrant, and owning a copy of playboy is a violation. it means you’ll be arrested if a family member comes to stay with you and you don’t register their vehicle with the sheriff. the dehumanization is beyond the pale

[gaphic]

Multiple people have brought up the point that the sex offender registry disproportionately targets marginalized people and is used to criminalize the existence of queers, etc. That is true, and it's important to know, but, I cannot stress enough:

This post is about rapists.

The sex offender registry is not bad because innocent people are on it. It is bad because it is a gross abuse of human rights. Rapists are human beings. They deserve human rights. They deserve privacy. They deserve free access to media. They deserve the opportunity to grow and change.

Too many of you are only interested in protecting Unperson's rights as a means to protect Good People's rights, and it shows.

[danneroni]

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[deergirlsmell]

Legalize consensual incest, like for real for real, there's no good reason for it to be illegal, consenting adults should be able to date/fuck other consenting adults without persecution. Even if you think it's gross, surely everyone can agree it's weird as fuck that it's illegal

No adult should be going to jail cause they consensually kissed their adult relative, that's literally so stupid

Spreading love to all the consang couples <3 I love you, your love is beautiful, never let the world get in the way of love

[thegoddessofincest]

Every argument against incest is always 'I'm worry about your poor, stupid, disabled baby, I swear, I'm only looking out for you," or they assume it's all rape because of their experience, or they just say it's icky.

Inbreeding doesn't actually do much. Sure, the chances of you creating a disable person go up, but only by 2%. 2. That's literally nothing. It takes generations to be born with something truly debilitating, and even then, someone with an extreme disability deserves to live, and being against that is eugenicist.

"Well, I was sexually abused by a family member(s), therefore incest is bad." I was also sexually abused by my family, and guess what? I'm still incestuous. That's like saying, "I hate all men because one abused me," which y'all do anyway, that's why I'm making this comparison. Incest, by default, is consensual. If it's not, it's no longer incest, it's abuse. That applies to all relationships. If it's non-consensual, then it's not a fucking relationship, it's a situation.

"I just find it icky." I don't fucking care. Seriously, I don't care if people find it icky anymore. In fact, it offends me that others find my love gross. I love my siblings, my siblings love me, and peoples' disgust will never change that.

[dubiousdoobie]

there once was a time when "miscegenation" (as it was called) was considered "gross" and "appalling"

nowadays we call those who rally against "race mixing" what they are: bigots, plain and simple.

gotta remember that they didnt just justify it back then with "because we can." among their justifications were that "breeding with lower races" produced children of "inferior moral character" that is, more likely to be "slow" and alcoholics and criminals and gamblers and poor and stuff. they had stuff to "support" their claims! but we can recognize now that a lot of these effects attributed to "miscegenation/racemixing" had instead to do with the effects of social stigma and poverty. it's hard to control for a single variable in these things because what're you gonna do, make people rats in a lab cage? unfortunately that leaves a lot of open space for people to make assumptions.

[thegoddessofincest]

Growing up, I was told, time and time again, that I was inferior because I was mixed race, that me being black and white was bad, somehow, and I hate to say it, but there was a time I used these 'arguments' against my fellow incestuous folks. No one is born wrong, and if someone believes that, then they're a fascist.

[a-crook-and-his-wealth-journey]

I want to have more anti contact pro transid mutuals.

[probuccalfat]

repression doesn’t eliminate desire but distorts it

[gaphic]

watching the leftism leaving peoples bodies when you point out the sex offender registry is a grotesque violation of human rights

[gaphic]

the only reason the registry exists is because we culturally view sexual crimes as inherently more evil and unforgivable than any other kind of violence. people are more willing to believe that a murder can grow and change than a flasher. if you’re woke enough to believe that ‘innocence’ is a fascist concept and sex is just another thing the body can do, then you should believe the corollary: hurting someone with your genitals is no different from hurting them with your fists

and yet, murderers and other violent offenders do not have their full names, faces, and addresses put on a public database for the rest of their lives. there is no such thing. they are not legally barred from watching movies containing violence, or owning imagery containing violence

in my state, sex offender probation means you can be searched, at any time, without a warrant, and owning a copy of playboy is a violation. it means you’ll be arrested if a family member comes to stay with you and you don’t register their vehicle with the sheriff. the dehumanization is beyond the pale

[sodomit]

top 5 transid community takes?

Some people's insistence on using the word "bodily" is creepy. Like I understand it when it's stuff like "bodily tall", even though I don't like it, but I've seen someone say "bodily Russian" a few months back, and that sounds like some nazi shit.

The transid community did not, actually, start with pro cs. Pro cs got here when the ground was already laid.

Transids exist on a spectrum from "actually am" to "feel as if I should be", and it kinda works on a case by case basis.

A lot of the transid community are the kind of people I don't want to hang out with, but the anti transid stereotypes aren't anywhere near true for like 99.9% people I encountered.

Overall I'm really happy we're starting this conversation, because the normie communities really need to be introduced to the idea of identifying with something in a non gender way.

[para-fessional]

(Somewhat of a) Big Announcement:

After much consideration, I have decided not to make my stances known on here.

While I have said I was anti-contact in the past, I mainly did this to avoid anti-paras, I want to refrain from contact discourse more.

I think contact stances are really vague and don’t have solid definitions which is unhelpful.

I want my anti-sex-with-children-and-animals viewpoint to speak for themselves and to be displayed through my actions, not specifically a contact stance.

“But what about being floraqueer/fleur? They’re anti-contact.”

Eh, I interpret the label as more comp-contact than anti. I just want it to be known that I am against xenosatanism and their adjacent ideologies (ex: confederatequeer).

I don’t dislike radqueer themselves, in fact I’m very grateful for you all, but I can’t separate the radqueer ideology from the original coiner (who also coined xenosatanism).

One is still entitled to a contact stance, don’t twist my words, but I will refrain from using a contact stance in the future.

[until-the-last-king-died]

You're free to do whatever in regards to your stance, but flora/fleur by themselves are anti c stances.

Redefining of anti c from a large spectrum of views on select actions to being strictly against sexual expression for all and any paraphilias is what's unhelpful for contact discourse. I feel like this new understanding of anti c is affecting multiple discourse participants negatively, so I'm making effort to remind others that this isn't what the term was supposed to mean.

[sodomit]

Top 5 paraphilias that you don't have

One I most frequently think about while still not having: necrophilia.

One people keep assuming I have, but I don't: foot fetish.

One I thought I had, but it turned out to be something else: blood kink.

One I don't have despite making things for it: tabuphilia.

One I genuinely don't have any feelings for, not even slightest curiosity: computer centered objectophilia.