I’m working on a project about the aspectrum so pls feel free to share your 🫵 individual experience with me bc I want to cover as many unique experiences of the spectrum as possible
🗣️ ALL ASPECS ARE WELCOME
+ NON-SEXUAL ALLOS (for whatever reason like for example when it’s a body boundaries or sensory issues thing)
it’s completely anonymous 😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️
pls try to cover the following topics in your message(s):
(you don’t have to answer everything)
- your orientation + gender identity (or just a short description of it if you don’t have/like a label)
- how did you know you were aspec?
- how does it affect your relationships with friends, family, partners etc?
- how do you interpret your label?
- your interpretation of bodies + nudity + genitalia
- your interpretation of the “most important + strong relationship bond in your life” (often labeled as romantic or queerplatonic)
- if you engage in sexual activity (solo or partnered), how does it feel to you?
- your interpretation of non-sexual kink
- if you date, how does it feel to you? otherwise how do you feel about romance?
- your experience with different attraction styles (platonic, aesthetic, sensual, sexual, romantic)
- if you want a partner (for whatever activity (like friends with benefits for example or other stuff)) what do you desire in them (like if you stood in front of a magic partner fountain)?
- ways you experienced aphobia
- what do allosexuals/alloromantics not understand?
- how do you feel about queer representation in media + especially aspec representation?
- what would you like to see in media representation?
- fictional characters that read to you as aspec
- anything else you’d like to share
there’s no real deadline for now so don’t worry you ain’t running out of time if you don’t answer right now
