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(my) 9 11 01. 

I never bothered to scan these. Haven’t looked at them except in passing, on the way to trying to find some other photos. and most of them I can’t find. It also seemed redundant — both to share them and for myself to reflect on them — since these grainy snapshots paled against the stark relief of visceral recollection. 

But as that day recedes further into my own personal history and becomes even more fossilized into the mythology of the country’s,  it seems apropos to try and resurrect my experience — as this day, before and beyond anything else, was composed of so many individual perspectives and experiences before history and politics co-opted it.

I had moved to New York in the summer prior to do what would be a short lived television show, The Street. But really I felt I was moving to New York to finally fulfill a delayed dream to live in New York City, finally and for real, as my twenties were drawing to a close. It had been a dream of mine since I was a kid, New York posters up on the wall, one Scorcese movie or another on the VCR, pilgrimages to downtown LA which served as a temporary surrogate for my aesthetic lust. And indeed I sort of moved there briefly when I spent my Freshman and only year at college, just north of the city at Sarah Lawrence college, where I had what I colloquially refer to as my nervous breakdown. I ironically was immersing myself in LA crime fiction, Roman Noir, by the likes of Raymond Chandler and James Cain, as well as aping the writing style of Bukowski in my creative writing class,  and suddenly find myself appreciating the city I had only just escaped, that I had deemed vacant for so long. If only I could unlock its subterranean cool….  But finally, on the precipice of turning 30, and with an excuse to move to there (woefully, my travels have been largely dictated by my work) , I felt ready to sever any residential ties to LA and commit to NY. In fact, and while I’m not proud of how I handled this, I also severed ties with my then girlfriend as I had met someone new in LA (let’s call her L.)  but who resided in NY… And I felt now I had every reason to be there, felt rejuvinated and inspired, was making a living, writing again for the first time in a while (I’d write my feature I Love Your Work in the early days of having moved there), had several friends  also uprooted their lives elsewhere and were living there, and had fallen in love. I’d live what would feel like several years in the year which commenced in the sexy muggy swelter of August, 2000. 

13 months later….

I had been barely asleep, a couple hours maybe, when Adrian, my friend, writing partner, and roommate while living at my first apartment a year prior, on 17th St, before The Street got cancelled and I had a bit more to splurge, called me from his home in England, and was barking about something on my answering machine, something about something hitting the Trade Center. Through the cobwebs of too little sleep, too much to drink, and too much arguing with L.,  passed out beside me, the result of a woozy all night affair that was becoming too familiar, our new love now reduced to the drunken melodrama of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, minus the pith. I remember feeling annoyed. I remember thinking it was probably just a news copter or something (as though this wouldn’t be horrific and tragic enough). 

I wrestled myself from the floor mattress and stumbled through my fairly shitty railroad loft on Bowery and 4th street to turn on the television.  Sobriety came quick and I called out to my girlfriend to wake up and join me. We were probably going to split up that day. Either that or maybe we’d go one more round, one more week. but this day would put a crimp in our divorce and we wouldn’t split up for about another six weeks — which would segueway into the longest, loneliest,  and most surreal winter i  had known…and to my eventual departure from new york, where i had only been living for about a year when the planes hit. 

It wouldn’t be long before  and I were arguing about whether to stay indoors or go to her apartment 12 blocks north on 3rd avenue where she had access to a roof deck from which we could get a better perspective. I was hoping the sickening sobriety of what was occurring would mollify our acrimony for at least an hour, but we resumed where we had left off in some regard, now arguing about whether to traverse the city or, as I insisted, stay the fuck inside..  I was feebly documenting the activity just outside my apartment with my camera— where people bustled up from downtown, spilling out of my bodega across the street, waiting in line for water. I suppose i too wanted to see “it.” It felt bizarre — and would continue to be bizarre for the following days and nights — to see all the activity, to smell the burning which seeped through the a/c vent, to see trucks filled with refuse driving north past my building — but be watching it on television right by the same window,  as though it were somehow happening in some fictional far off place.  I too was curious but I also insisted we were under attack and probably running around the city wasn’t the best idea. Eventually, after the second tower fell,  I acquiesced and we walked up bowery as it turned into 3rd ave, up to 16th, and up to her roof from where I had only just shot those ubiquitous monoliths jutting from the skyline months before and now shot the iconic thick mass of smoke that stood  in their stead — that had been so photographed that my photos have never felt as though I had taken them, and so they have been dismissed, buried in a box. 

I was supposed to fly that day. I had been offered a guest star on Will and Grace, just a day prior. Just another NY day before, guitar shopping with my friend Eric. I remember being ambivalent, annoyed even, by the offer probably because I didn’t want to fly to L.A., because I hate to fly. On the night of September 10th I had been begging my agent to make sure it was a big plane, a 767, because i couldn’t stand the confines and turbulence of smaller planes. I was annoyed. I didn’t feel like flying or doing a sitcom, but as always I felt I was in no position to turn anything down. And this was — supposed to be — a several episode arc on a popular tv show. There was no plan for me to leave in the morning, because the deal wasn’t yet closed; it was meant to close that day and I’d take a later flight. Of course I morbidly reflected on how I could have been on one of those planes, had the deal closed the night before. But that was disingenuous and typically dramatic of me, since I would never have taken a flight that early. 

I was worried about my friend, JP in the moments and hours after the planes hit. JP lived in the financial district and I could not reach him. He would later show up at the apartment and nonchalantly, he’s not like me, tell us how he fled his apartment into that black hole of non-visibility so oft described, only to immediately discover two emergency workers emerging from the darkness. He took them back upstairs from whence he had only just fled, and gave them water and let them wash-up. JP wouldn’t hear or know a thing about these guys for years, until one of them tracked him down and finally got to thank him. JP stayed with us at my apartment for a couple weeks. We shopped — hoarding food with the rest of the city — and cooked dinners for each other. And there was something nice about it.  Especially after the vitriol  that had infested my relationship with L.,  before the unspeakable global horror that, narcissistically,  I couldn’t help but feel had somehow been born directly from it. The following weeks would bring us closer indeed. Until they no longer could. 

The next day my agent in L.A. (who is no longer my agent) told me the will and grace deal closed and i’d be flying out just as soon as the FAA deemed it safe. “Uh…what the fuck are you talking about?” I said or wanted to say as I explained to the man in La La that I was watching and smelling remnants of The World Trade Center drive by my window as we spoke, and, if he thought I had a problem flying before, imagine how I felt now.  ”Force majeure, buddy,” I told him. He told me the deal was closed and that I’d be fine. “It’s never been safer to fly,” said the man 3,000 miles away and working in his office on 9/12/01. 

After a couple of days L.  and I decided to get out of town. She had a friend who lived in Long Island and I rented a car from a place that conveniently located around the corner. but I remember it was strange, something to do with the fact that we were below 14th st, one of the areas that they blocked traffic from I think, so I we had to walk past 14th to pick up the car from another garage. Or something. I don’t know. It felt odd, sort of like relief, sort of like numbness on Long Island. I have photos from this time which out of context appear to be a happy young couple on a beach vacation, the extent to which I’m not even sure they’re from the same period, but I know for a fact they are. There was such cognitive dissonance out there. And by this time, actually by the end of the day on 9/11, all the television coverage already had transitioned from breaking horror to cinematic montage, replete with graphics, titles, theme music.  Both of us felt we needed to get back. It felt — many would say this — like “we needed to be there.” So we came back after a couple days and each night a bunch of us would wander around the east village like we were in some post-apocolyptic dream, trying to gain some perspective on what had happened.  It seems too early to have considered what remains in some circles taboo and profane: that things couldn’t be as simple as they looked. It never is, why would this be?  People don’t simply decide to commit an act of such focused and unfathomable horror out of the complete blue. Yeah it felt too early to talk politics. but a couple of us did, in sort of hushed tones….as a bicycler would ride by, heading south, towards the scene, his camera dangling round his neck, a respirator around his face — a sci-fi image that grew as commonplace as a hipster’s facial hair. We’d go to this bar, Irish bar, downstairs, Scratchers. You could still smoke, we smoked a lot, and we’d talk and drink to all night and it was kind of desolate, not like before.  Those weeks seemed to define that bar for us. And though it had been and would continue to be our bar for years, it is remembered by a couple of pals and myself as our 9/11 bar. 

About a week later,  I think, I flew to L.A. —  the first day they allowed air travel, because, after all, “the deal was closed.” It was the stone age of homeland security: “no box cutters….no nail clippers…” and general bullshit riffing to try and instill confidence in fliers. When i opened my bag in los angles I discovered I had accidentally smuggled nail clippers. My confidence in the FAA wained. On the flight to L.A.  the captain had us all introduce ourselves to the passengers next to us…but I — and the woman in front of me — were in single seats and neither one of us introduced ourselves. I just felt shy. and she probably thought I was a terrorist. What was the captain trying to achieve?  Was he hoping we would bond in case we needed to take down a group of hijackers? Was he tactfully trying to get us to profile our seat mates? Or was he simply saying, love your neighbor? Either way, the last thing he said before we took off was “We’re all in this together.” “Oh fuck,” I thought, “that just sounds ominous.” 

Being in L.A. felt wronger than being on Long Island. Being on Will and Grace felt wronger still. (Ultimately the guest star would prove not to be a several episode arc which made the trip feel all the more frivolous.) This week the studios were convinced Al Qaeda’s next target would be their various film studio lots. I fell a bit for this egoism since my own dictated that wherever I was bad things were destined to happen. (I had just gotten off my motorcycle when the ‘94 riverside quake hit and sent transformers lighting up the sky above me, I had been in london when Princess Diana was killed — though strictly speaking, that happened in France….etc..)

L.A..  just didn’t get it and I felt a sort of queasy gladness that I had been in NY when it happened. It made something that felt like history even as as it was occurring  — something that  might otherwise feel abstract and other — like something that did happen and happened down the street.

 And perhaps I could feel just a bit of its incalculable weight,  if never fully comprehend it. 

POST NOTE: 9/11/16…

What is so striking now is how grotesquely divided the country is today and how necessarily and apolitically we all were united then. This unity obviously pervaded the post apocalyptic landscape in NY but even the rest of the country, and those of us who questioned the legitimacy of our president, stood behind him…until he exploited our generosity. Where is that today? 

[adamgoldberg]

Twenty.

[adamgoldberg]

21

[adamgoldberg]

(my) 9 11 01. 

I never bothered to scan these. Haven’t looked at them except in passing, on the way to trying to find some other photos. and most of them I can’t find. It also seemed redundant — both to share them and for myself to reflect on them — since these grainy snapshots paled against the stark relief of visceral recollection. 

But as that day recedes further into my own personal history and becomes even more fossilized into the mythology of the country’s,  it seems apropos to try and resurrect my experience — as this day, before and beyond anything else, was composed of so many individual perspectives and experiences before history and politics co-opted it.

I had moved to New York in the summer prior to do what would be a short lived television show, The Street. But really I felt I was moving to New York to finally fulfill a delayed dream to live in New York City, finally and for real, as my twenties were drawing to a close. It had been a dream of mine since I was a kid, New York posters up on the wall, one Scorcese movie or another on the VCR, pilgrimages to downtown LA which served as a temporary surrogate for my aesthetic lust. And indeed I sort of moved there briefly when I spent my Freshman and only year at college, just north of the city at Sarah Lawrence college, where I had what I colloquially refer to as my nervous breakdown. I ironically was immersing myself in LA crime fiction, Roman Noir, by the likes of Raymond Chandler and James Cain, as well as aping the writing style of Bukowski in my creative writing class,  and suddenly find myself appreciating the city I had only just escaped, that I had deemed vacant for so long. If only I could unlock its subterranean cool….  But finally, on the precipice of turning 30, and with an excuse to move to there (woefully, my travels have been largely dictated by my work) , I felt ready to sever any residential ties to LA and commit to NY. In fact, and while I’m not proud of how I handled this, I also severed ties with my then girlfriend as I had met someone new in LA (let’s call her L.)  but who resided in NY… And I felt now I had every reason to be there, felt rejuvinated and inspired, was making a living, writing again for the first time in a while (I’d write my feature I Love Your Work in the early days of having moved there), had several friends  also uprooted their lives elsewhere and were living there, and had fallen in love. I’d live what would feel like several years in the year which commenced in the sexy muggy swelter of August, 2000. 

13 months later….

I had been barely asleep, a couple hours maybe, when Adrian, my friend, writing partner, and roommate while living at my first apartment a year prior, on 17th St, before The Street got cancelled and I had a bit more to splurge, called me from his home in England, and was barking about something on my answering machine, something about something hitting the Trade Center. Through the cobwebs of too little sleep, too much to drink, and too much arguing with L.,  passed out beside me, the result of a woozy all night affair that was becoming too familiar, our new love now reduced to the drunken melodrama of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, minus the pith. I remember feeling annoyed. I remember thinking it was probably just a news copter or something (as though this wouldn’t be horrific and tragic enough). 

I wrestled myself from the floor mattress and stumbled through my fairly shitty railroad loft on Bowery and 4th street to turn on the television.  Sobriety came quick and I called out to my girlfriend to wake up and join me. We were probably going to split up that day. Either that or maybe we’d go one more round, one more week. but this day would put a crimp in our divorce and we wouldn’t split up for about another six weeks — which would segueway into the longest, loneliest,  and most surreal winter i  had known…and to my eventual departure from new york, where i had only been living for about a year when the planes hit. 

It wouldn’t be long before  and I were arguing about whether to stay indoors or go to her apartment 12 blocks north on 3rd avenue where she had access to a roof deck from which we could get a better perspective. I was hoping the sickening sobriety of what was occurring would mollify our acrimony for at least an hour, but we resumed where we had left off in some regard, now arguing about whether to traverse the city or, as I insisted, stay the fuck inside..  I was feebly documenting the activity just outside my apartment with my camera— where people bustled up from downtown, spilling out of my bodega across the street, waiting in line for water. I suppose i too wanted to see “it.” It felt bizarre — and would continue to be bizarre for the following days and nights — to see all the activity, to smell the burning which seeped through the a/c vent, to see trucks filled with refuse driving north past my building — but be watching it on television right by the same window,  as though it were somehow happening in some fictional far off place.  I too was curious but I also insisted we were under attack and probably running around the city wasn’t the best idea. Eventually, after the second tower fell,  I acquiesced and we walked up bowery as it turned into 3rd ave, up to 16th, and up to her roof from where I had only just shot those ubiquitous monoliths jutting from the skyline months before and now shot the iconic thick mass of smoke that stood  in their stead — that had been so photographed that my photos have never felt as though I had taken them, and so they have been dismissed, buried in a box. 

I was supposed to fly that day. I had been offered a guest star on Will and Grace, just a day prior. Just another NY day before, guitar shopping with my friend Eric. I remember being ambivalent, annoyed even, by the offer probably because I didn’t want to fly to L.A., because I hate to fly. On the night of September 10th I had been begging my agent to make sure it was a big plane, a 767, because i couldn’t stand the confines and turbulence of smaller planes. I was annoyed. I didn’t feel like flying or doing a sitcom, but as always I felt I was in no position to turn anything down. And this was — supposed to be — a several episode arc on a popular tv show. There was no plan for me to leave in the morning, because the deal wasn’t yet closed; it was meant to close that day and I’d take a later flight. Of course I morbidly reflected on how I could have been on one of those planes, had the deal closed the night before. But that was disingenuous and typically dramatic of me, since I would never have taken a flight that early. 

I was worried about my friend, JP in the moments and hours after the planes hit. JP lived in the financial district and I could not reach him. He would later show up at the apartment and nonchalantly, he’s not like me, tell us how he fled his apartment into that black hole of non-visibility so oft described, only to immediately discover two emergency workers emerging from the darkness. He took them back upstairs from whence he had only just fled, and gave them water and let them wash-up. JP wouldn’t hear or know a thing about these guys for years, until one of them tracked him down and finally got to thank him. JP stayed with us at my apartment for a couple weeks. We shopped — hoarding food with the rest of the city — and cooked dinners for each other. And there was something nice about it.  Especially after the vitriol  that had infested my relationship with L.,  before the unspeakable global horror that, narcissistically,  I couldn’t help but feel had somehow been born directly from it. The following weeks would bring us closer indeed. Until they no longer could. 

The next day my agent in L.A. (who is no longer my agent) told me the will and grace deal closed and i’d be flying out just as soon as the FAA deemed it safe. “Uh…what the fuck are you talking about?” I said or wanted to say as I explained to the man in La La that I was watching and smelling remnants of The World Trade Center drive by my window as we spoke, and, if he thought I had a problem flying before, imagine how I felt now.  ”Force majeure, buddy,” I told him. He told me the deal was closed and that I’d be fine. “It’s never been safer to fly,” said the man 3,000 miles away and working in his office on 9/12/01. 

After a couple of days L.  and I decided to get out of town. She had a friend who lived in Long Island and I rented a car from a place that conveniently located around the corner. but I remember it was strange, something to do with the fact that we were below 14th st, one of the areas that they blocked traffic from I think, so I we had to walk past 14th to pick up the car from another garage. Or something. I don’t know. It felt odd, sort of like relief, sort of like numbness on Long Island. I have photos from this time which out of context appear to be a happy young couple on a beach vacation, the extent to which I’m not even sure they’re from the same period, but I know for a fact they are. There was such cognitive dissonance out there. And by this time, actually by the end of the day on 9/11, all the television coverage already had transitioned from breaking horror to cinematic montage, replete with graphics, titles, theme music.  Both of us felt we needed to get back. It felt — many would say this — like “we needed to be there.” So we came back after a couple days and each night a bunch of us would wander around the east village like we were in some post-apocolyptic dream, trying to gain some perspective on what had happened.  It seems too early to have considered what remains in some circles taboo and profane: that things couldn’t be as simple as they looked. It never is, why would this be?  People don’t simply decide to commit an act of such focused and unfathomable horror out of the complete blue. Yeah it felt too early to talk politics. but a couple of us did, in sort of hushed tones….as a bicycler would ride by, heading south, towards the scene, his camera dangling round his neck, a respirator around his face — a sci-fi image that grew as commonplace as a hipster’s facial hair. We’d go to this bar, Irish bar, downstairs, Scratchers. You could still smoke, we smoked a lot, and we’d talk and drink to all night and it was kind of desolate, not like before.  Those weeks seemed to define that bar for us. And though it had been and would continue to be our bar for years, it is remembered by a couple of pals and myself as our 9/11 bar. 

About a week later,  I think, I flew to L.A. —  the first day they allowed air travel, because, after all, “the deal was closed.” It was the stone age of homeland security: “no box cutters….no nail clippers…” and general bullshit riffing to try and instill confidence in fliers. When i opened my bag in los angles I discovered I had accidentally smuggled nail clippers. My confidence in the FAA wained. On the flight to L.A.  the captain had us all introduce ourselves to the passengers next to us…but I — and the woman in front of me — were in single seats and neither one of us introduced ourselves. I just felt shy. and she probably thought I was a terrorist. What was the captain trying to achieve?  Was he hoping we would bond in case we needed to take down a group of hijackers? Was he tactfully trying to get us to profile our seat mates? Or was he simply saying, love your neighbor? Either way, the last thing he said before we took off was “We’re all in this together.” “Oh fuck,” I thought, “that just sounds ominous.” 

Being in L.A. felt wronger than being on Long Island. Being on Will and Grace felt wronger still. (Ultimately the guest star would prove not to be a several episode arc which made the trip feel all the more frivolous.) This week the studios were convinced Al Qaeda’s next target would be their various film studio lots. I fell a bit for this egoism since my own dictated that wherever I was bad things were destined to happen. (I had just gotten off my motorcycle when the ‘94 riverside quake hit and sent transformers lighting up the sky above me, I had been in london when Princess Diana was killed — though strictly speaking, that happened in France….etc..)

L.A..  just didn’t get it and I felt a sort of queasy gladness that I had been in NY when it happened. It made something that felt like history even as as it was occurring  — something that  might otherwise feel abstract and other — like something that did happen and happened down the street.

 And perhaps I could feel just a bit of its incalculable weight,  if never fully comprehend it. 

POST NOTE: 9/11/16…

What is so striking now is how grotesquely divided the country is today and how necessarily and apolitically we all were united then. This unity obviously pervaded the post apocalyptic landscape in NY but even the rest of the country, and those of us who questioned the legitimacy of our president, stood behind him…until he exploited our generosity. Where is that today? 

[adamgoldberg]

Twenty.

[adamgoldberg]

(my) 9 11 01. 

I never bothered to scan these. Haven’t looked at them except in passing, on the way to trying to find some other photos. and most of them I can’t find. It also seemed redundant — both to share them and for myself to reflect on them — since these grainy snapshots paled against the stark relief of visceral recollection. 

But as that day recedes further into my own personal history and becomes even more fossilized into the mythology of the country’s,  it seems apropos to try and resurrect my experience — as this day, before and beyond anything else, was composed of so many individual perspectives and experiences before history and politics co-opted it.

I had moved to New York in the summer prior to do what would be a short lived television show, The Street. But really I felt I was moving to New York to finally fulfill a delayed dream to live in New York City, finally and for real, as my twenties were drawing to a close. It had been a dream of mine since I was a kid, New York posters up on the wall, one Scorcese movie or another on the VCR, pilgrimages to downtown LA which served as a temporary surrogate for my aesthetic lust. And indeed I sort of moved there briefly when I spent my Freshman and only year at college, just north of the city at Sarah Lawrence college, where I had what I colloquially refer to as my nervous breakdown. I ironically was immersing myself in LA crime fiction, Roman Noir, by the likes of Raymond Chandler and James Cain, as well as aping the writing style of Bukowski in my creative writing class,  and suddenly find myself appreciating the city I had only just escaped, that I had deemed vacant for so long. If only I could unlock its subterranean cool….  But finally, on the precipice of turning 30, and with an excuse to move to there (woefully, my travels have been largely dictated by my work) , I felt ready to sever any residential ties to LA and commit to NY. In fact, and while I’m not proud of how I handled this, I also severed ties with my then girlfriend as I had met someone new in LA (let’s call her L.)  but who resided in NY… And I felt now I had every reason to be there, felt rejuvinated and inspired, was making a living, writing again for the first time in a while (I’d write my feature I Love Your Work in the early days of having moved there), had several friends  also uprooted their lives elsewhere and were living there, and had fallen in love. I’d live what would feel like several years in the year which commenced in the sexy muggy swelter of August, 2000. 

13 months later….

I had been barely asleep, a couple hours maybe, when Adrian, my friend, writing partner, and roommate while living at my first apartment a year prior, on 17th St, before The Street got cancelled and I had a bit more to splurge, called me from his home in England, and was barking about something on my answering machine, something about something hitting the Trade Center. Through the cobwebs of too little sleep, too much to drink, and too much arguing with L.,  passed out beside me, the result of a woozy all night affair that was becoming too familiar, our new love now reduced to the drunken melodrama of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, minus the pith. I remember feeling annoyed. I remember thinking it was probably just a news copter or something (as though this wouldn’t be horrific and tragic enough). 

I wrestled myself from the floor mattress and stumbled through my fairly shitty railroad loft on Bowery and 4th street to turn on the television.  Sobriety came quick and I called out to my girlfriend to wake up and join me. We were probably going to split up that day. Either that or maybe we’d go one more round, one more week. but this day would put a crimp in our divorce and we wouldn’t split up for about another six weeks — which would segueway into the longest, loneliest,  and most surreal winter i  had known…and to my eventual departure from new york, where i had only been living for about a year when the planes hit. 

It wouldn’t be long before  and I were arguing about whether to stay indoors or go to her apartment 12 blocks north on 3rd avenue where she had access to a roof deck from which we could get a better perspective. I was hoping the sickening sobriety of what was occurring would mollify our acrimony for at least an hour, but we resumed where we had left off in some regard, now arguing about whether to traverse the city or, as I insisted, stay the fuck inside..  I was feebly documenting the activity just outside my apartment with my camera— where people bustled up from downtown, spilling out of my bodega across the street, waiting in line for water. I suppose i too wanted to see “it.” It felt bizarre — and would continue to be bizarre for the following days and nights — to see all the activity, to smell the burning which seeped through the a/c vent, to see trucks filled with refuse driving north past my building — but be watching it on television right by the same window,  as though it were somehow happening in some fictional far off place.  I too was curious but I also insisted we were under attack and probably running around the city wasn’t the best idea. Eventually, after the second tower fell,  I acquiesced and we walked up bowery as it turned into 3rd ave, up to 16th, and up to her roof from where I had only just shot those ubiquitous monoliths jutting from the skyline months before and now shot the iconic thick mass of smoke that stood  in their stead — that had been so photographed that my photos have never felt as though I had taken them, and so they have been dismissed, buried in a box. 

I was supposed to fly that day. I had been offered a guest star on Will and Grace, just a day prior. Just another NY day before, guitar shopping with my friend Eric. I remember being ambivalent, annoyed even, by the offer probably because I didn’t want to fly to L.A., because I hate to fly. On the night of September 10th I had been begging my agent to make sure it was a big plane, a 767, because i couldn’t stand the confines and turbulence of smaller planes. I was annoyed. I didn’t feel like flying or doing a sitcom, but as always I felt I was in no position to turn anything down. And this was — supposed to be — a several episode arc on a popular tv show. There was no plan for me to leave in the morning, because the deal wasn’t yet closed; it was meant to close that day and I’d take a later flight. Of course I morbidly reflected on how I could have been on one of those planes, had the deal closed the night before. But that was disingenuous and typically dramatic of me, since I would never have taken a flight that early. 

I was worried about my friend, JP in the moments and hours after the planes hit. JP lived in the financial district and I could not reach him. He would later show up at the apartment and nonchalantly, he’s not like me, tell us how he fled his apartment into that black hole of non-visibility so oft described, only to immediately discover two emergency workers emerging from the darkness. He took them back upstairs from whence he had only just fled, and gave them water and let them wash-up. JP wouldn’t hear or know a thing about these guys for years, until one of them tracked him down and finally got to thank him. JP stayed with us at my apartment for a couple weeks. We shopped — hoarding food with the rest of the city — and cooked dinners for each other. And there was something nice about it.  Especially after the vitriol  that had infested my relationship with L.,  before the unspeakable global horror that, narcissistically,  I couldn’t help but feel had somehow been born directly from it. The following weeks would bring us closer indeed. Until they no longer could. 

The next day my agent in L.A. (who is no longer my agent) told me the will and grace deal closed and i’d be flying out just as soon as the FAA deemed it safe. “Uh…what the fuck are you talking about?” I said or wanted to say as I explained to the man in La La that I was watching and smelling remnants of The World Trade Center drive by my window as we spoke, and, if he thought I had a problem flying before, imagine how I felt now.  ”Force majeure, buddy,” I told him. He told me the deal was closed and that I’d be fine. “It’s never been safer to fly,” said the man 3,000 miles away and working in his office on 9/12/01. 

After a couple of days L.  and I decided to get out of town. She had a friend who lived in Long Island and I rented a car from a place that conveniently located around the corner. but I remember it was strange, something to do with the fact that we were below 14th st, one of the areas that they blocked traffic from I think, so I we had to walk past 14th to pick up the car from another garage. Or something. I don’t know. It felt odd, sort of like relief, sort of like numbness on Long Island. I have photos from this time which out of context appear to be a happy young couple on a beach vacation, the extent to which I’m not even sure they’re from the same period, but I know for a fact they are. There was such cognitive dissonance out there. And by this time, actually by the end of the day on 9/11, all the television coverage already had transitioned from breaking horror to cinematic montage, replete with graphics, titles, theme music.  Both of us felt we needed to get back. It felt — many would say this — like “we needed to be there.” So we came back after a couple days and each night a bunch of us would wander around the east village like we were in some post-apocolyptic dream, trying to gain some perspective on what had happened.  It seems too early to have considered what remains in some circles taboo and profane: that things couldn’t be as simple as they looked. It never is, why would this be?  People don’t simply decide to commit an act of such focused and unfathomable horror out of the complete blue. Yeah it felt too early to talk politics. but a couple of us did, in sort of hushed tones….as a bicycler would ride by, heading south, towards the scene, his camera dangling round his neck, a respirator around his face — a sci-fi image that grew as commonplace as a hipster’s facial hair. We’d go to this bar, Irish bar, downstairs, Scratchers. You could still smoke, we smoked a lot, and we’d talk and drink to all night and it was kind of desolate, not like before.  Those weeks seemed to define that bar for us. And though it had been and would continue to be our bar for years, it is remembered by a couple of pals and myself as our 9/11 bar. 

About a week later,  I think, I flew to L.A. —  the first day they allowed air travel, because, after all, “the deal was closed.” It was the stone age of homeland security: “no box cutters….no nail clippers…” and general bullshit riffing to try and instill confidence in fliers. When i opened my bag in los angles I discovered I had accidentally smuggled nail clippers. My confidence in the FAA wained. On the flight to L.A.  the captain had us all introduce ourselves to the passengers next to us…but I — and the woman in front of me — were in single seats and neither one of us introduced ourselves. I just felt shy. and she probably thought I was a terrorist. What was the captain trying to achieve?  Was he hoping we would bond in case we needed to take down a group of hijackers? Was he tactfully trying to get us to profile our seat mates? Or was he simply saying, love your neighbor? Either way, the last thing he said before we took off was “We’re all in this together.” “Oh fuck,” I thought, “that just sounds ominous.” 

Being in L.A. felt wronger than being on Long Island. Being on Will and Grace felt wronger still. (Ultimately the guest star would prove not to be a several episode arc which made the trip feel all the more frivolous.) This week the studios were convinced Al Qaeda’s next target would be their various film studio lots. I fell a bit for this egoism since my own dictated that wherever I was bad things were destined to happen. (I had just gotten off my motorcycle when the ‘94 riverside quake hit and sent transformers lighting up the sky above me, I had been in london when Princess Diana was killed — though strictly speaking, that happened in France….etc..)

L.A..  just didn’t get it and I felt a sort of queasy gladness that I had been in NY when it happened. It made something that felt like history even as as it was occurring  — something that  might otherwise feel abstract and other — like something that did happen and happened down the street.

 And perhaps I could feel just a bit of its incalculable weight,  if never fully comprehend it. 

POST NOTE: 9/11/16…

What is so striking now is how grotesquely divided the country is today and how necessarily and apolitically we all were united then. This unity obviously pervaded the post apocalyptic landscape in NY but even the rest of the country, and those of us who questioned the legitimacy of our president, stood behind him…until he exploited our generosity. Where is that today? 

[adamgoldberg]

16 yrs…

[adamgoldberg]

17. 

[adamgoldberg]

18.

[adamgoldberg]

19.

[adamgoldberg]

(my) 9 11 01. 

I never bothered to scan these. Haven’t looked at them except in passing, on the way to trying to find some other photos. and most of them I can’t find. It also seemed redundant — both to share them and for myself to reflect on them — since these grainy snapshots paled against the stark relief of visceral recollection. 

But as that day recedes further into my own personal history and becomes even more fossilized into the mythology of the country’s,  it seems apropos to try and resurrect my experience — as this day, before and beyond anything else, was composed of so many individual perspectives and experiences before history and politics co-opted it.

I had moved to New York in the summer prior to do what would be a short lived television show, The Street. But really I felt I was moving to New York to finally fulfill a delayed dream to live in New York City, finally and for real, as my twenties were drawing to a close. It had been a dream of mine since I was a kid, New York posters up on the wall, one Scorcese movie or another on the VCR, pilgrimages to downtown LA which served as a temporary surrogate for my aesthetic lust. And indeed I sort of moved there briefly when I spent my Freshman and only year at college, just north of the city at Sarah Lawrence college, where I had what I colloquially refer to as my nervous breakdown. I ironically was immersing myself in LA crime fiction, Roman Noir, by the likes of Raymond Chandler and James Cain, as well as aping the writing style of Bukowski in my creative writing class,  and suddenly find myself appreciating the city I had only just escaped, that I had deemed vacant for so long. If only I could unlock its subterranean cool….  But finally, on the precipice of turning 30, and with an excuse to move to there (woefully, my travels have been largely dictated by my work) , I felt ready to sever any residential ties to LA and commit to NY. In fact, and while I’m not proud of how I handled this, I also severed ties with my then girlfriend as I had met someone new in LA (let’s call her L.)  but who resided in NY… And I felt now I had every reason to be there, felt rejuvinated and inspired, was making a living, writing again for the first time in a while (I’d write my feature I Love Your Work in the early days of having moved there), had several friends  also uprooted their lives elsewhere and were living there, and had fallen in love. I’d live what would feel like several years in the year which commenced in the sexy muggy swelter of August, 2000. 

13 months later….

I had been barely asleep, a couple hours maybe, when Adrian, my friend, writing partner, and roommate while living at my first apartment a year prior, on 17th St, before The Street got cancelled and I had a bit more to splurge, called me from his home in England, and was barking about something on my answering machine, something about something hitting the Trade Center. Through the cobwebs of too little sleep, too much to drink, and too much arguing with L.,  passed out beside me, the result of a woozy all night affair that was becoming too familiar, our new love now reduced to the drunken melodrama of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, minus the pith. I remember feeling annoyed. I remember thinking it was probably just a news copter or something (as though this wouldn’t be horrific and tragic enough). 

I wrestled myself from the floor mattress and stumbled through my fairly shitty railroad loft on Bowery and 4th street to turn on the television.  Sobriety came quick and I called out to my girlfriend to wake up and join me. We were probably going to split up that day. Either that or maybe we’d go one more round, one more week. but this day would put a crimp in our divorce and we wouldn’t split up for about another six weeks — which would segueway into the longest, loneliest,  and most surreal winter i  had known…and to my eventual departure from new york, where i had only been living for about a year when the planes hit. 

It wouldn’t be long before  and I were arguing about whether to stay indoors or go to her apartment 12 blocks north on 3rd avenue where she had access to a roof deck from which we could get a better perspective. I was hoping the sickening sobriety of what was occurring would mollify our acrimony for at least an hour, but we resumed where we had left off in some regard, now arguing about whether to traverse the city or, as I insisted, stay the fuck inside..  I was feebly documenting the activity just outside my apartment with my camera— where people bustled up from downtown, spilling out of my bodega across the street, waiting in line for water. I suppose i too wanted to see “it.” It felt bizarre — and would continue to be bizarre for the following days and nights — to see all the activity, to smell the burning which seeped through the a/c vent, to see trucks filled with refuse driving north past my building — but be watching it on television right by the same window,  as though it were somehow happening in some fictional far off place.  I too was curious but I also insisted we were under attack and probably running around the city wasn’t the best idea. Eventually, after the second tower fell,  I acquiesced and we walked up bowery as it turned into 3rd ave, up to 16th, and up to her roof from where I had only just shot those ubiquitous monoliths jutting from the skyline months before and now shot the iconic thick mass of smoke that stood  in their stead — that had been so photographed that my photos have never felt as though I had taken them, and so they have been dismissed, buried in a box. 

I was supposed to fly that day. I had been offered a guest star on Will and Grace, just a day prior. Just another NY day before, guitar shopping with my friend Eric. I remember being ambivalent, annoyed even, by the offer probably because I didn’t want to fly to L.A., because I hate to fly. On the night of September 10th I had been begging my agent to make sure it was a big plane, a 767, because i couldn’t stand the confines and turbulence of smaller planes. I was annoyed. I didn’t feel like flying or doing a sitcom, but as always I felt I was in no position to turn anything down. And this was — supposed to be — a several episode arc on a popular tv show. There was no plan for me to leave in the morning, because the deal wasn’t yet closed; it was meant to close that day and I’d take a later flight. Of course I morbidly reflected on how I could have been on one of those planes, had the deal closed the night before. But that was disingenuous and typically dramatic of me, since I would never have taken a flight that early. 

I was worried about my friend, JP in the moments and hours after the planes hit. JP lived in the financial district and I could not reach him. He would later show up at the apartment and nonchalantly, he’s not like me, tell us how he fled his apartment into that black hole of non-visibility so oft described, only to immediately discover two emergency workers emerging from the darkness. He took them back upstairs from whence he had only just fled, and gave them water and let them wash-up. JP wouldn’t hear or know a thing about these guys for years, until one of them tracked him down and finally got to thank him. JP stayed with us at my apartment for a couple weeks. We shopped — hoarding food with the rest of the city — and cooked dinners for each other. And there was something nice about it.  Especially after the vitriol  that had infested my relationship with L.,  before the unspeakable global horror that, narcissistically,  I couldn’t help but feel had somehow been born directly from it. The following weeks would bring us closer indeed. Until they no longer could. 

The next day my agent in L.A. (who is no longer my agent) told me the will and grace deal closed and i’d be flying out just as soon as the FAA deemed it safe. “Uh…what the fuck are you talking about?” I said or wanted to say as I explained to the man in La La that I was watching and smelling remnants of The World Trade Center drive by my window as we spoke, and, if he thought I had a problem flying before, imagine how I felt now.  ”Force majeure, buddy,” I told him. He told me the deal was closed and that I’d be fine. “It’s never been safer to fly,” said the man 3,000 miles away and working in his office on 9/12/01. 

After a couple of days L.  and I decided to get out of town. She had a friend who lived in Long Island and I rented a car from a place that conveniently located around the corner. but I remember it was strange, something to do with the fact that we were below 14th st, one of the areas that they blocked traffic from I think, so I we had to walk past 14th to pick up the car from another garage. Or something. I don’t know. It felt odd, sort of like relief, sort of like numbness on Long Island. I have photos from this time which out of context appear to be a happy young couple on a beach vacation, the extent to which I’m not even sure they’re from the same period, but I know for a fact they are. There was such cognitive dissonance out there. And by this time, actually by the end of the day on 9/11, all the television coverage already had transitioned from breaking horror to cinematic montage, replete with graphics, titles, theme music.  Both of us felt we needed to get back. It felt — many would say this — like “we needed to be there.” So we came back after a couple days and each night a bunch of us would wander around the east village like we were in some post-apocolyptic dream, trying to gain some perspective on what had happened.  It seems too early to have considered what remains in some circles taboo and profane: that things couldn’t be as simple as they looked. It never is, why would this be?  People don’t simply decide to commit an act of such focused and unfathomable horror out of the complete blue. Yeah it felt too early to talk politics. but a couple of us did, in sort of hushed tones….as a bicycler would ride by, heading south, towards the scene, his camera dangling round his neck, a respirator around his face — a sci-fi image that grew as commonplace as a hipster’s facial hair. We’d go to this bar, Irish bar, downstairs, Scratchers. You could still smoke, we smoked a lot, and we’d talk and drink to all night and it was kind of desolate, not like before.  Those weeks seemed to define that bar for us. And though it had been and would continue to be our bar for years, it is remembered by a couple of pals and myself as our 9/11 bar. 

About a week later,  I think, I flew to L.A. —  the first day they allowed air travel, because, after all, “the deal was closed.” It was the stone age of homeland security: “no box cutters….no nail clippers…” and general bullshit riffing to try and instill confidence in fliers. When i opened my bag in los angles I discovered I had accidentally smuggled nail clippers. My confidence in the FAA wained. On the flight to L.A.  the captain had us all introduce ourselves to the passengers next to us…but I — and the woman in front of me — were in single seats and neither one of us introduced ourselves. I just felt shy. and she probably thought I was a terrorist. What was the captain trying to achieve?  Was he hoping we would bond in case we needed to take down a group of hijackers? Was he tactfully trying to get us to profile our seat mates? Or was he simply saying, love your neighbor? Either way, the last thing he said before we took off was “We’re all in this together.” “Oh fuck,” I thought, “that just sounds ominous.” 

Being in L.A. felt wronger than being on Long Island. Being on Will and Grace felt wronger still. (Ultimately the guest star would prove not to be a several episode arc which made the trip feel all the more frivolous.) This week the studios were convinced Al Qaeda’s next target would be their various film studio lots. I fell a bit for this egoism since my own dictated that wherever I was bad things were destined to happen. (I had just gotten off my motorcycle when the ‘94 riverside quake hit and sent transformers lighting up the sky above me, I had been in london when Princess Diana was killed — though strictly speaking, that happened in France….etc..)

L.A..  just didn’t get it and I felt a sort of queasy gladness that I had been in NY when it happened. It made something that felt like history even as as it was occurring  — something that  might otherwise feel abstract and other — like something that did happen and happened down the street.

 And perhaps I could feel just a bit of its incalculable weight,  if never fully comprehend it. 

POST NOTE: 9/11/16…

What is so striking now is how grotesquely divided the country is today and how necessarily and apolitically we all were united then. This unity obviously pervaded the post apocalyptic landscape in NY but even the rest of the country, and those of us who questioned the legitimacy of our president, stood behind him…until he exploited our generosity. Where is that today? 

[adamgoldberg]

16 yrs…

[adamgoldberg]

17. 

[adamgoldberg]

18.

[adamgoldberg]

instant this weekend. 

[adamgoldberg]

polaroids today. 

[adamgoldberg]

12.31.18

[adamgoldberg]

Instax lately. 

My 4 year old’s photography  has reignited my passion for instant photography and particularly for the variety of ways in which I can shoot Instax. Herein, Instax Mini shot on Leica Sofort (get the Fuji Instax Mini 90 instead), and recently acquired  (hours ago) Mint TL70 which has fairly amazed me, and Instax Wide shot on my recently rigged by Instant Options desert island camera Mamiya Universal. 

[adamgoldberg]

I’m rarely afforded the opportunity to express myself the way I imagined I would

It’s true. 

[adamgoldberg]

Thursday Nov 8 at Kopeikin Gallery I will be celebrating release of vinyl / photography set of The Goldberg Sisters latest LP and will be exhibiting work from the book. Come by and have a Corona Light with me. 

[adamgoldberg]

(my) 9 11 01. 

I never bothered to scan these. Haven’t looked at them except in passing, on the way to trying to find some other photos. and most of them I can’t find. It also seemed redundant — both to share them and for myself to reflect on them — since these grainy snapshots paled against the stark relief of visceral recollection. 

But as that day recedes further into my own personal history and becomes even more fossilized into the mythology of the country’s,  it seems apropos to try and resurrect my experience — as this day, before and beyond anything else, was composed of so many individual perspectives and experiences before history and politics co-opted it.

I had moved to New York in the summer prior to do what would be a short lived television show, The Street. But really I felt I was moving to New York to finally fulfill a delayed dream to live in New York City, finally and for real, as my twenties were drawing to a close. It had been a dream of mine since I was a kid, New York posters up on the wall, one Scorcese movie or another on the VCR, pilgrimages to downtown LA which served as a temporary surrogate for my aesthetic lust. And indeed I sort of moved there briefly when I spent my Freshman and only year at college, just north of the city at Sarah Lawrence college, where I had what I colloquially refer to as my nervous breakdown. I ironically was immersing myself in LA crime fiction, Roman Noir, by the likes of Raymond Chandler and James Cain, as well as aping the writing style of Bukowski in my creative writing class,  and suddenly find myself appreciating the city I had only just escaped, that I had deemed vacant for so long. If only I could unlock its subterranean cool….  But finally, on the precipice of turning 30, and with an excuse to move to there (woefully, my travels have been largely dictated by my work) , I felt ready to sever any residential ties to LA and commit to NY. In fact, and while I’m not proud of how I handled this, I also severed ties with my then girlfriend as I had met someone new in LA (let’s call her L.)  but who resided in NY… And I felt now I had every reason to be there, felt rejuvinated and inspired, was making a living, writing again for the first time in a while (I’d write my feature I Love Your Work in the early days of having moved there), had several friends  also uprooted their lives elsewhere and were living there, and had fallen in love. I’d live what would feel like several years in the year which commenced in the sexy muggy swelter of August, 2000. 

13 months later….

I had been barely asleep, a couple hours maybe, when Adrian, my friend, writing partner, and roommate while living at my first apartment a year prior, on 17th St, before The Street got cancelled and I had a bit more to splurge, called me from his home in England, and was barking about something on my answering machine, something about something hitting the Trade Center. Through the cobwebs of too little sleep, too much to drink, and too much arguing with L.,  passed out beside me, the result of a woozy all night affair that was becoming too familiar, our new love now reduced to the drunken melodrama of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, minus the pith. I remember feeling annoyed. I remember thinking it was probably just a news copter or something (as though this wouldn’t be horrific and tragic enough). 

I wrestled myself from the floor mattress and stumbled through my fairly shitty railroad loft on Bowery and 4th street to turn on the television.  Sobriety came quick and I called out to my girlfriend to wake up and join me. We were probably going to split up that day. Either that or maybe we’d go one more round, one more week. but this day would put a crimp in our divorce and we wouldn’t split up for about another six weeks — which would segueway into the longest, loneliest,  and most surreal winter i  had known…and to my eventual departure from new york, where i had only been living for about a year when the planes hit. 

It wouldn’t be long before  and I were arguing about whether to stay indoors or go to her apartment 12 blocks north on 3rd avenue where she had access to a roof deck from which we could get a better perspective. I was hoping the sickening sobriety of what was occurring would mollify our acrimony for at least an hour, but we resumed where we had left off in some regard, now arguing about whether to traverse the city or, as I insisted, stay the fuck inside..  I was feebly documenting the activity just outside my apartment with my camera— where people bustled up from downtown, spilling out of my bodega across the street, waiting in line for water. I suppose i too wanted to see “it.” It felt bizarre — and would continue to be bizarre for the following days and nights — to see all the activity, to smell the burning which seeped through the a/c vent, to see trucks filled with refuse driving north past my building — but be watching it on television right by the same window,  as though it were somehow happening in some fictional far off place.  I too was curious but I also insisted we were under attack and probably running around the city wasn’t the best idea. Eventually, after the second tower fell,  I acquiesced and we walked up bowery as it turned into 3rd ave, up to 16th, and up to her roof from where I had only just shot those ubiquitous monoliths jutting from the skyline months before and now shot the iconic thick mass of smoke that stood  in their stead — that had been so photographed that my photos have never felt as though I had taken them, and so they have been dismissed, buried in a box. 

I was supposed to fly that day. I had been offered a guest star on Will and Grace, just a day prior. Just another NY day before, guitar shopping with my friend Eric. I remember being ambivalent, annoyed even, by the offer probably because I didn’t want to fly to L.A., because I hate to fly. On the night of September 10th I had been begging my agent to make sure it was a big plane, a 767, because i couldn’t stand the confines and turbulence of smaller planes. I was annoyed. I didn’t feel like flying or doing a sitcom, but as always I felt I was in no position to turn anything down. And this was — supposed to be — a several episode arc on a popular tv show. There was no plan for me to leave in the morning, because the deal wasn’t yet closed; it was meant to close that day and I’d take a later flight. Of course I morbidly reflected on how I could have been on one of those planes, had the deal closed the night before. But that was disingenuous and typically dramatic of me, since I would never have taken a flight that early. 

I was worried about my friend, JP in the moments and hours after the planes hit. JP lived in the financial district and I could not reach him. He would later show up at the apartment and nonchalantly, he’s not like me, tell us how he fled his apartment into that black hole of non-visibility so oft described, only to immediately discover two emergency workers emerging from the darkness. He took them back upstairs from whence he had only just fled, and gave them water and let them wash-up. JP wouldn’t hear or know a thing about these guys for years, until one of them tracked him down and finally got to thank him. JP stayed with us at my apartment for a couple weeks. We shopped — hoarding food with the rest of the city — and cooked dinners for each other. And there was something nice about it.  Especially after the vitriol  that had infested my relationship with L.,  before the unspeakable global horror that, narcissistically,  I couldn’t help but feel had somehow been born directly from it. The following weeks would bring us closer indeed. Until they no longer could. 

The next day my agent in L.A. (who is no longer my agent) told me the will and grace deal closed and i’d be flying out just as soon as the FAA deemed it safe. “Uh…what the fuck are you talking about?” I said or wanted to say as I explained to the man in La La that I was watching and smelling remnants of The World Trade Center drive by my window as we spoke, and, if he thought I had a problem flying before, imagine how I felt now.  ”Force majeure, buddy,” I told him. He told me the deal was closed and that I’d be fine. “It’s never been safer to fly,” said the man 3,000 miles away and working in his office on 9/12/01. 

After a couple of days L.  and I decided to get out of town. She had a friend who lived in Long Island and I rented a car from a place that conveniently located around the corner. but I remember it was strange, something to do with the fact that we were below 14th st, one of the areas that they blocked traffic from I think, so I we had to walk past 14th to pick up the car from another garage. Or something. I don’t know. It felt odd, sort of like relief, sort of like numbness on Long Island. I have photos from this time which out of context appear to be a happy young couple on a beach vacation, the extent to which I’m not even sure they’re from the same period, but I know for a fact they are. There was such cognitive dissonance out there. And by this time, actually by the end of the day on 9/11, all the television coverage already had transitioned from breaking horror to cinematic montage, replete with graphics, titles, theme music.  Both of us felt we needed to get back. It felt — many would say this — like “we needed to be there.” So we came back after a couple days and each night a bunch of us would wander around the east village like we were in some post-apocolyptic dream, trying to gain some perspective on what had happened.  It seems too early to have considered what remains in some circles taboo and profane: that things couldn’t be as simple as they looked. It never is, why would this be?  People don’t simply decide to commit an act of such focused and unfathomable horror out of the complete blue. Yeah it felt too early to talk politics. but a couple of us did, in sort of hushed tones….as a bicycler would ride by, heading south, towards the scene, his camera dangling round his neck, a respirator around his face — a sci-fi image that grew as commonplace as a hipster’s facial hair. We’d go to this bar, Irish bar, downstairs, Scratchers. You could still smoke, we smoked a lot, and we’d talk and drink to all night and it was kind of desolate, not like before.  Those weeks seemed to define that bar for us. And though it had been and would continue to be our bar for years, it is remembered by a couple of pals and myself as our 9/11 bar. 

About a week later,  I think, I flew to L.A. —  the first day they allowed air travel, because, after all, “the deal was closed.” It was the stone age of homeland security: “no box cutters….no nail clippers…” and general bullshit riffing to try and instill confidence in fliers. When i opened my bag in los angles I discovered I had accidentally smuggled nail clippers. My confidence in the FAA wained. On the flight to L.A.  the captain had us all introduce ourselves to the passengers next to us…but I — and the woman in front of me — were in single seats and neither one of us introduced ourselves. I just felt shy. and she probably thought I was a terrorist. What was the captain trying to achieve?  Was he hoping we would bond in case we needed to take down a group of hijackers? Was he tactfully trying to get us to profile our seat mates? Or was he simply saying, love your neighbor? Either way, the last thing he said before we took off was “We’re all in this together.” “Oh fuck,” I thought, “that just sounds ominous.” 

Being in L.A. felt wronger than being on Long Island. Being on Will and Grace felt wronger still. (Ultimately the guest star would prove not to be a several episode arc which made the trip feel all the more frivolous.) This week the studios were convinced Al Qaeda’s next target would be their various film studio lots. I fell a bit for this egoism since my own dictated that wherever I was bad things were destined to happen. (I had just gotten off my motorcycle when the ‘94 riverside quake hit and sent transformers lighting up the sky above me, I had been in london when Princess Diana was killed — though strictly speaking, that happened in France….etc..)

L.A..  just didn’t get it and I felt a sort of queasy gladness that I had been in NY when it happened. It made something that felt like history even as as it was occurring  — something that  might otherwise feel abstract and other — like something that did happen and happened down the street.

 And perhaps I could feel just a bit of its incalculable weight,  if never fully comprehend it. 

POST NOTE: 9/11/16…

What is so striking now is how grotesquely divided the country is today and how necessarily and apolitically we all were united then. This unity obviously pervaded the post apocalyptic landscape in NY but even the rest of the country, and those of us who questioned the legitimacy of our president, stood behind him…until he exploited our generosity. Where is that today? 

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16 yrs…

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17. 

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“d-day” 1997. 

sitting in a photo album ( [ˈfəʊtəʊ ˈælbəm] n. a book that contains a collection of photographs) since ‘97; scanned 6 june 2014. 

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Per the internet this film came out 20 years ago today. 

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broken window. 

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Apologies for reposting but ironically re-edited this story while half asleep and left out a crucial clip from the dream. (music by The Goldberg Sisters/ “Focus Blisters” from Home: A Nice Place to Visit)

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some fine folks who spoke to me last week about my new the goldberg sisters record. 

Alexi Wasser

Larry Flick

Sandra Bernhard 

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new “home.”

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home: a nice place to visit. 

A week ago tonight the owners of our house on Gramercy Pl in the hills above Western Ave, near Griffith Park, mine of 12 years, Roxanne’s for nearly 10,  whipped on through like the wild Santa Anas and blew us on out. 

I anticipated a rather frantic and frankly dreadful last few hours in this place in which I spent a quarter of my life and which I so thorroughtly documented here in this blog portentously titled. This tumblr was in no small part inspired by the ethereal beauty and queasy uneasiness conjured by this place— and really any place I’ve hung my hat for very long (Home, a nice place to visit…but I wouldn’t want to live there.). But after such a protracted escrow period (6 months while we were out of the country) plus another two months in which we were tenants in our own home looking for a new one, we couldn’t have imagined there would have been such a misunderstanding. 

This is the second house I’ve owned and therefore only the second I’ve sold in my life, so when our broker said the new owners would like a walk through on the 14th–the eve of their contracted move in date–and we obliged (assuming we’d be legs up and soaking in epsoms at some new digs by this point) we of course obliged. When she followed with, “and will you be giving them the keys that night?” I thought–and said–”sure,” though it seemed somewhat irrelevant given we put a keypad lock on the door some years ago. I took her literally.  I wasn’t hip to the vernacular, Moreover, what were they gonna do in an empty house which I was told they were going to remodel much of anyway before they moved in? My plan was to spend a quiet few hours at the house and watch the sun descend for a last time on that too fluid Hollywood skyline, shooting it—soaking it, and picking up any remaining items before I’d quite literally kiss her goodbye. 

We spent our last night in Gramercy the Thursday before the Saturday walkthrough. The Santa Ana winds seemed unpredictably tumultuous that  groggy night as I mediated for the last time in my treehouse bedroom which had mollified as many furious thoughts as it had seen sleepless night. I always look for signs–or do they look for me–and as I tipped and swayed, attempting to mediate but needing  to sleep, in something like harmony with my beloved trees being bent this way and that by winds out of some hyperbolic Angeleno noir, I decided the branches and leaves were bidding me farewell–if not imploring us to move the fuck on already. Not unlike the hideous concrete eclipse of the Capitol Records Building that greeted us upon our return home form Albuquerque last summer, this was a sign, I rationalized.  

I met my wife in this house, not too long after I moved into this uniquely graphic but somewhat clumsily laid out mid-century bachelor sanctuary in which I licked the wounds of a love gone bad and one of the worst real estate decisions in California history. I sold my Silverlake house in 2004 for what I paid for it to a good friend, to move to NY with the wrong girl, only to find myself living in the  very same pal’s office, within spitting distance of my old house, and out of suitcase, within the same year. Then I found Gramercy some 6 months later….just as the market peaked and wouldn’t again for a decade but that didn’t matter, I had a home. I met my wife in the foyer a few months after that, though she insists it was by the bar next to the kitchen. In either case, thank you Greg, thank you Melissa, hi Merritt, and where the hell are you Julian? 

This house reinvigorated my passion for photography and this intangible thing, this digital warehouse, should be a testament to that if nothing else. 

I made 2 records in the garage. 

We made two kids, one made it, and he’s a triumph. 

We knew it was time to move on a couple years ago, just as it was was for the prior owner to pass me the torch as he grew from bachelor to father, to bursting at the seams, but knew also it would be wrenching and it began already to feel a lot like a death, however inevitable, since we arrived home from Canada two months ago.  We tried to extend our “leaseback” from the new owners as we had simply not enough time to find another home, but they declined and we settled on a rental not so many minutes away, but only managed to squeeze in there 72 hours before the deadline. So we’d return to pass the torch to the new residents  after our first full night surrounded by skyscrapers of boxes in a pretty special but not ours space where we’d be parking it for a year. It was during the walkthrough that they mentioned they’d be popping some champagne in the empty reverberant house at sundown. I knew it’d be wrenching but I couldn’t have imagined I’d be frantically documenting the last hour or so in my for so long home, dragging my 4x5 behind me, posing my done with it already wife and son by the bedroom window, between making hurried clumsy final trips down that damn vertical driveway, cramming into the trunk modems and routers, books the movers didn’t spot, and other detritus from this 12 year stand. Nor could I have imagined I’d be squeezing in something like a blessing or a warp speed meditation in my treehouse bedroom, before the sun dropped and the eager new owners arrive to begin their journey somewhat inauspiciously,  behind closed front door (to keep their boxer in) as sweat fell off me into my camera bag as I stuffed it with my 4x5, broke a dark slide, and scurried off the magic deck with the magic view that took magic pictures–just before finally poking my head in the door,  one of the guys bothering to wave from the stairs, the other shouting from the kitchen as I about faced and to no one it seemed, called:  “Have fun guys,” and shut their front door behind me. 

I’d leave behind a pill case, embossed with initials,  which they’d leave in the mailbox for me. But we left behind much more and here’s hoping it doesn’t haunt the happy new tenants too much. 

Here are the last photos.