*: ïŸâ§Â  90 loaded questions / interview the muse.
found on this website, so credit goes to them.
Whatâs your favorite strategy for avoiding tough situations?
How often do you do things just for the attention?
Would you prefer to be manipulated or to be the manipulator?
What is something someone always tells you to do more of?
What is something someone always tells you to do less of?
Who do you look to blame when things go wrong?
What is the one thing people assume about you that you wish was true?
What is the one thing people assume about you that you wish wasnât true?
When was the last time you lied to protect your image?
How often do you put on a happy face when youâre really not feeling it?
When do you think you began putting your guard up so much?
Who made you feel most anxious when you were a kid?
How do you speak about others when theyâre not around?
What aspect of your life are you most delusional about?
How often do your admit you were wrong?
Which one of your biggest flaws do you like to rationalize the most?
Is it your fear of commitment or your fear of intimacy that makes you shut down more?
At what stage of a relationship are you most likely to withdraw emotionally?
What is the one compliment you always get that youâre too embarrassed to accept, so you deflect it?
What would someone say is your worst habit?
What is the one insecurity you are pretty sure has some basis in reality?
When was the last time you felt really insecure about the parts of yourself you pretend donât exist?
What is the most interesting white lie youâve told?
Do you ever feel like an imposter?
Do your friends know how competitive you are?
Whatâs the hardest thing about being rejected?
How do you deal when you know youâre being irrationally jealous?
How do you deal when you know someoneâs not willing to give you what you want?
Are you ever afraid of people knowing who you really are?
If you went to a therapist today, what would they say is holding you back the most?
When was the last time you lowered your standards just to get someone elseâs approval?
Is your need for revenge greater than your need for peace?
Have you stopped trying to control things yet?
Which parts of yourself do you still seek validation for?
How do you cope with being unfairly ignored?
Do you like punishing yourself for things that are out of your control?
What does someone say is your biggest problem when communicating?
Are you okay with not knowing what happens next?
Will you ever feel okay with being imperfect?
Does sabotaging yourself give you an odd sense of comfort?
How do you feel about being disliked by some people?
Whatâs the strangest thing youâve done just to avoid failure?
What is the biggest risk youâve taken just to prove yourself?
Whatâs the boldest thing you do every day, just to feel like youâre still in control?
What accusation would you defend yourself most fiercely against, even though you know itâs true?
Whatâs the most toxic thing about yourself you actually kind of secretly like?
How much do you enjoy being in control?
When do you give yourself permission to lose control?
What guilty pleasure are you currently justifying to yourself?
What is the most passive-aggressive way youâve dealt with your rage?
What is the pettiest and most immature way youâve avoided losing face?
Whatâs the worst habit you have that rewards you the most?
How do you get your needs met when youâre alone?
What is the most ridiculous thing youâve done to please people?
What is the most ridiculous way youâve rebelled?
Whatâs your favorite way to channel your aggression?
How do you cope with being betrayed?
Are you okay with disliking someone?
What is your favorite form of self-destruction?
Whatâs the one thing you struggle most to manifest in your life?
Whatâs the one thing that you manifest so easily, people are jealous of it?
Whatâs the most irrational reason youâve ever had for disliking someone?
What is one fear that youâd be ashamed of your friends knowing about?
Which one of your deepest secrets do you think is the least common?
How do people normally find out you hate them?
What is your go-to strategy to deflect criticism, even constructive criticism?
What is one thing people always get wrong about you?
What emotion motivates you the most when youâre down?
What emotion makes you want to give up?
Are people shocked when you stand up for yourself?
How often do you say yes to the things you really want to say yes to?
How often do you say no to the things that make your skin crawl?
How far are you willing to go to maintain a relationship, even an unhealthy one?
What is the worst way someoneâs ever abandoned you?
What is the worst way youâve ever abandoned yourself?
How do you entertain yourself when youâre not around people?
Are you happier alone because you enjoy being alone or because you prefer it to being surrounded by horrible people?
What habit do you know you could quit but donât want to?
What is your favorite strategy for avoiding difficult people?
What is your favorite strategy for avoiding conflict?
What is the weirdest thing that gets you angry?
What is the weirdest thing that makes you sad?
How often do you take responsibility for other peopleâs crappy behavior?
When are you most likely to shut people out?
Which insecurity would shock people if they knew about it?
What do you find yourself justifying to people, even when no justification is needed?
When was the last time you tried to please someone who made you angry?
What do people often tell you need to focus more on?
What do people often tell you need to focus less on?
What is the one thing that could make you happy, but you refuse to do it because youâre afraid of what others would think?
