Adopted and Abused

Abuse can happen after adoption. This is a blog calling out those who were supposed to be our protectors.

[shadow-bloom]

Hey guys it's me again, I'm sorry for asking for help again so soon but I need your help again. Thanks to the pandemic my 2× a week trauma therapy is done via telephone. I wasn't paying attention to when my minutes ran out and now I have no minutes and therapy is at 5 tomorrow. Could y'all help me get minutes on my phone? 🙏

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Ps- thank you so much for your help getting my meds, my constant anxiety is below a 5 for the first time in weeks ❤️❤️❤️

[headboardlights-deactivated2021]

gays rb this with ur favorite way to sit wrong in a chair

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[adoptedandabused]

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[adoptedandabused]

I just wanted to say I'm here for all of y'all that suffered or are still suffering from child abuse this April. I know that with it being child abuse awareness month this month can feel like hell, especially if your abuser pretends to be someone that saves children. Pls drink some water and take care of yourselves, no matter what you might've been told you are amazing and amazing ppl deserve the best ❤️

[dsu2014]

shoutout to my kids of color growing up in western societies who feel disconnected from their culture. to the kids who never had the opportunity to b engaged in their culture, who cant speak the languages. s/o to my kids of color who willingly choose not to engage in their culture, for whatever reason. u r valid. s/o to all the kids who r engaged in their cultures and can speak their parents native tongue but get made fun of and teased at school and mocked. ur valid. to all the kids of color who have put up w racism all their life growing up. to all the poc who dont fit western beauty standards or western views on their ethnicity. who dont “look” //// enough. to all my biracial kids and adopted kids, to lgbtq+ kids, disabled, dark skinned poc, girls of color. to the young poc who r suffering bc of this election. kids of color r so strong and valid and beautiful and deserve happiness. non poc can rb

[justsomeantifas]

People do actually need to understand that adoption IS an industry and this industry does sell children.

If you can understand that there is no ethical consumption under capitalism then you can understand that there’s not going to be ethical adoptions when everyone is being threatened with poverty and alienation.

[shadow-bloom]

Hey if y'all could I need help getting stuff for laundry and some pads and tampons. My friends just helped me escape an abusive situation but I don't have this stuff and I just started my period. If you could help I'd really appreciate it.

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[shadow-bloom]

Bump. I could really use the help

[adoptedandabused]

Bumping this again, pls donate or reblog, these are even more important now that I'm in college. 🙏

[justsomeantifas]

Illegal Child Adoption SHOULD be considered human trafficking in the USA.

[justsomeantifas]

We SHOULD gut these adoption agencies siphoning babies from the poor and other countries and putting them into wealthy typically christian families.

They’ve evaded political ramifications for their violence because the wealth of rich typically white people buying human children like dog breeds at a store insulates said agencies from scrutiny.

The United States Government bends over backwards to justify these practices so much so that they refuse to even label it human trafficking.

[adoptedandabused]

@justsomeantifas based off what you said I think I was trafficked. Holy shit

[shadow-bloom]

Hey if y'all could I need help getting stuff for laundry and some pads and tampons. My friends just helped me escape an abusive situation but I don't have this stuff and I just started my period. If you could help I'd really appreciate it.

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[shadow-bloom]

Bump. I could really use the help

[shadow-bloom]

Tw sexual abuse, adoption

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Anyone else in here adopted and was sexually abused by the female adopter? She was supposed to be my mom and my hero. Instead I got that thing. What fucks me up is she wasn't enjoying it sexually. She was enjoying humiliating me and hurting me. Like the way she'd light up with this weird mix of rage and excitement when I started crying y'all. Shit still haunts me 😭

[shadow-bloom]

I don't have the money to buy my meds this month. I'm on lithium (bipolar), seroquil antipsychotic), atarax (anxiety), and prazosin (ptsd). I literally need these meds to remain mentally stable and avoid going back to a mental hospital again. It'll cost me 46 bucks total if anyone can donate

https://www.paypal.me/ShandiCrabill

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[adoptedandabused]

Signal boosting. It's close to time to get my refills and I still have no income

[shadow-bloom]

Hey guys I need your help again. As you know I was diagnosed with C-PTSD, Bipolar,DID, GAD, and MDD as a result of severe childhood trauma. My therapist is wanting me to get my medical marijuana card, but there's one problem: it's 250 bucks and I have no money until my disability gets approved. If y'all could help I'd really appreciate it.

PS: thanks to all of yall that helped before. ❤️

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[lily-orchard]

What do I say to people who are more interested in fucking one of my alters (I have DID) than me? She's like 7 or 8 and I'm really uncomfortable because it seems like pedos that are trying to find a legal loophole since I'm an adult. 😥

[shadow-bloom]

I don't have the money to buy my meds this month. I'm on lithium (bipolar), seroquil antipsychotic), atarax (anxiety), and prazosin (ptsd). I literally need these meds to remain mentally stable and avoid going back to a mental hospital again. It'll cost me 46 bucks total if anyone can donate

https://www.paypal.me/ShandiCrabill

Pay Shandi Crabill using PayPal.Me

Go to paypal.me/ShandiCrabill and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.

[adoptedandabused]

Fundraiser on my main account. I need to refill my meds but I have no money until my disability gets approved.

[mintykin]

❗AVOID THESE PEDOPHILES AT ALL COSTS! ❗

I was scrolling through Tumblr and came across a post of KNOWN PEDOPHILES ON TUMBLR (many of which have or want to rape actual children/minors)

THERE ARE ACTUAL PEDOPHILES ON TUMBLR TRYING TO GET IN TOUCH WITH MINORS ON TUMBLR

PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST THIS LIST AND KEEP OUR MINORS SAFE

[kya-kawaii]

☆ Reblogging the version not invaded by pedophiles/pedophile apologists ☆

[ijustlikegayporntoomuch]

Lets fucking roast this shit out of em guys!

[mintykin]

Just gonna say this again.

DO NOT IN ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM INTERACT WITH THEM. JUST BLOCK/REPORT.

[girl-in-the-tardis]

# REBLOG TO SAVE A LIFE!!!!

[julie-the-memedealer]

Keep away from these people. If you receive a message, don’t talk to them, don’t insult them, just block them and report. #KEEPMINORSSAFE

[furiousgoldfish]

reblog if you still feel like everything done to you is your fault

[adoptedandabused]

I know it's not, but I sure as hell do feel that way

[anxietyproblem]

[ilovekimpossiblealot]

I think I'm really done letting people who do unbelievably shitty things get a pass. You shouldn't either.