lonely hearts club

[carolinaknowswhy]

gen z has to reckon with its radicalization problem. you are not a morally pure and superior generation of youth come to save the world, your men and boys are radicalized at an unprecedented level and you ignore it because it’s too hard to address but you have to. these boys are in your classes, they date your friends, you know them and you cannot continue to pretend this is an “old white guy” problem

[carolinaknowswhy]

girls are contributing, too. the coquette aesthetic, the “i don’t want to girlboss i want a man to pay my bills”, girlmath girljob girlmoney. it’s a joke, it’s clothes, it’s whatever, i get it but it is driving a mentality of traditional gender roles and you know you’re joking but your boyfriend doesn’t. your kid brother doesn’t. you have to stop this shit it is a contributing factor

[thewolfandhismoon]

everything is so oversexualized that you can feel the lack of genuine love in the world

[whjwiwowpwlsskwjwbwbkwkwlwnw]

lets say prostitution is a profession. minors are allowed to work, under certain conditions. why shouldnt 14, 15 and 16 year old girls prostitute themselves for some extra allowance, do some porn after school, do an internship in a brothel? if this thought makes you uncomfortable, you realise that the sex industry is not like any other industry. that perhaps, sexually satisfying men is not a viable career or profession for young girls. its not lack of skill or responsibility stopping teenagers to enter the sex industry like it does with some jobs. because thats not needed to be used as a sex object. in fact, a lot of sex buyers and porn consumers specifically look for young and unexperienced women - men in general actually. the next logical step of legalisation, of treating prostitution as a profession, of bending to the demand, is this. not to be a slippery slope stacy but i wish this was something more people considered.

[capricorn-season]

[ronedob-deactivated20220805]

doctors be like "we have no idea what causes this extremely mysterious illness" and the illness affects 1 in 8 women

[strezzedanddeprezzed]

Watching porn in a relationship is an extremely big deal and I’m tired of people pretending it’s not. Even liking girl’s lewds and bikini photos is a big deal. A man will never be full emotionally and physically present with a woman if he puts himself in positions were the majority of women he sees are hyper sexualized. For him, his partners will never be good enough because he knows there’s a girl out there that would do things his partner won’t. He knows there will always be a more personally appealing girl he can fantasize about at the click of a button. In the back of his mind, there will always be a ‘what-if’. What if his partner just looked or acted a little more like his favorite pornstar. 

Men who lust after women like this will never fully appreciate their partner’s beauty. When their partners grow older, his fantasy girls stay fit and young. A man who truly loves their partner would not need porn. A man who truly believes his partner is the love of his life does not need porn or other women to satisfy him. 

Porn ruins love and relationships.

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

“During a stroke, men often suffer a sudden loss of function on one side of the body. They may have drooping eyelids, garbled speech, and numbness - all the things we traditionally associate with stroke.

Women, on the other hand, may have a headache akin to a migraine or a sudden change in mental or emotional status - and unless their providers know what to look for, they can be misdiagnosed or not diagnosed at all.

…

In the UK, stroke is the fourth largest cause of death among the general population, and although men have a greater chance of stroke, women are more likely to die as a result.”

- Dr Alyson McGregor, Sex Matters

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

“Women need to be aware that any or all of the following symptoms could indicate stroke:

Loss of consciousness/fainting

General weakness

Shortness of breath or difficulty breathing

Confusion, disorientation, or unresponsiveness

Sudden behavioural changes or changes in mental status

Agitation

Nausea or vomiting

Hiccups

Headache

Pain, including neck pain or pain in the extremities

Seizures

“

- Dr Alyson McGregor, Sex Matters

[kangarookawaii]

normalize telling people in their 20s and 30s who have gender identities that they’re way too old for that shit

[weavingshaw]

bro WHERE is the love of my life this isn’t funny anymore

[desaturated7-deactivated2021090]

kind of fucked up how e-prostitution has become just a normal side gig for women but im sure this will have no consequences

[cyberlesbiab-deactivated2021052]

consequences? like getting paid? 

[desaturated7-deactivated2021090]

consequences like ptsd and being stalked and doxxed and never recovering your self esteem and the uniquely female experience of being treated as an object to be sold for mens entertainment, an experience u are incapable of understanding as a straight man. goodnight

[cuntaloupes-deactivated20241215]

consequences like an unprecedented suicide rate among young women once the economic crisis passes over and they can’t get jobs because their nudes are on the internet or consequences like pimps trapping them into the sex industry until they get murdered or die of drug overdose because they have nowhere else to go.

[starjasmines]

marina’s “at least i think i do” has done more for pop culture than ariane grande could ever dream of

[penisactivist-wench-deactivated]

When men try to control women they don't ban makeup , corsets and hair products because there is nothing intimidating about beauty and femininity. What they do try to restrict access to is money, land and resources because that is actual power!!!!

So please stop spreading the idea that pretty privilege helps women access anything of substance. There's no privilege in sinking time, money and resources whilst trying to appeal to the men who create these standards. Your payoff is idealistic and conditional, dependent on your ability to be the everyone's fantasy. And in the real world your self definition isn't collateral. Do not play this game.

Please don't use the argument that men wanting to give you stuff so that they can eventually use one of your holes is a privilege. My heart can't take it 💔.

"The true privilege is not having to care at all about how you're perceived. Your body is a vehicle for you to enjoy life, and it's not a coincidence that men who have real power often look healthy but dress casually and definitely don't bother with the constant body modifications young women subject themselves to. Health and comfort is the combination that provides foroptimal experience; being healthy and comfortable is everyone's genuine preference for themselves, and what we should aspire to all other things being equal. "

[kiefbowl]

women be like “I’m nonbinary I can finally get a haircut”

[kiefbowl]

men be like “I’m nonbinary stop talking about my dv arrest”

[vriskarights-deactivated2023012]

Makes me SO sad to see how hard trans identified females will be shat on within their own community. I remember when I was 14 before I desisted I was like wtf this is bullshit.... I'm not actually a man with male privilege so why are people acting as though trans men are an oppressor class? It's transmisogyny this and tranmisogyny that bro... thinking about how it seems autistic girls are more likely to ID as trans (baseless observation, no source) and it just like boils my blood idk like vulnerable females are being coerced into this movement and then prompty being told theyre the problem when theyre in pain and looking for help and community. Coupled with the fact that one has to walk on eggshells to avoid saying the wrong thing and being socially exiled, i just cant imagine the anxiety. Like I know it's because it's a male supremacy movement but you'd think they'd at least pretend to care about trans boys.

[spare-dignity]

"As a trans man you have male privilege"

"But I don't pass for male irl"

"But you pass online so you have it online"

"Pass where, we're in a trans facebook group, you know I'm not male"

"USE YOUR MALE PRIVILEGE TO UPLIFT TRANS WOMEN"

[bettedavisgf]

i love it when cats wake up from a nap and come to find you they’re like ummmm i was just thinking about this and we need to cuddle

[vriskarights-deactivated2023012]

I really feel like there's something to be said about the link between anxiety disorders and misogyny. So many young women are fatal perfectionists, to the point that they barely breathe. I wonder, what is making them feel the need to look perfect, perform perfectly, and keep everything neat and tidy? Just something I've been thinking about after starting pelvic floor therapy and attempting to heal the way stress has damaged my body.

I think its also noteworthy that nothing has freed me from my anxiety quite like radical feminism has; learning that it's bullshit women are expected to be this and that in the first place has made it so much easier to just Be and Accept. So much of my guilt and shame is gone!

[sportsbianism-deactivated202306]

im immune to gaslighting bc i know im right

[sportsbianism-deactivated202306]

ppl will get gaslit into believing that gender is an immutable reality and biological sex is imaginary for humans and then reblog this post. lol