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emolgana

incredible stuff happening out there

#naw 😭#aether.rb #txt

aethereal-adoration

clitorises

I do not understand the cultural obsession with pink pussy. My girl has olive skin and the most beautiful golden sculpted cunt in the world and I could stare at it for a thousand years

wolf-disco

Shoutout to brown, black, purple and red pussy as well. Every shade and shape of pussy is fucking gorgeous

#aether.rb #murmurs

theomenroom

when applied to drinks, "dry" means "without sugar". therefore it follows that sugary drinks can be called "wet". the meanings of the terms "hot" and "cold" when applied to drinks are obvious. thus the aspect of any drink can be determined.

for instance, green tea, freshly steeped and served without additives, is hot and dry, and therefore has an aspect of fire.

a mocha, on the other hand, while hot, is sweet, and therefore wet, and thus has an an aspect of air.

lemonade, which is wet and cold, has a water aspect.

finally, the drink which most epitomizes the earth aspect, being both cold and dry, is vodka

#aether.rb #🪭.txt

borderlinereminders

Hi! I have a question. Do you think it’s okay to not express every negative bpd feeling to your partner? I just felt a bit of jealousy, and I am okay with sitting in the discomfort of it, and letting it go. I don’t really feel the need for reassurance, I trust my partner so much! I just wonder if that’s okay? Or do we always need to say those things out loud?

Hi anon,

You absolutely don’t need to express every negative feeling to your partner. It’s actually really healthy to do what you just described. Which is to notice the jealousy, sit with the discomfort, and let it pass without acting on it.

That said, if a feeling isn’t going away, or it’s too heavy to hold alone, it’s okay to talk about it. Sharing doesn’t mean you’re failing at self-regulation. It just means you know when to lean on your partner for support.

What matters most is:

•You’re self-aware. You noticed the feeling instead of being swept away by it.

•You’re making a choice. Sometimes you let it go, sometimes you share. That’s different than bottling.

•You trust the relationship. The fact that you can even choose whether or not to share shows real security.

You don’t have to tell your partner every fleeting thought. But you can (and should) bring it up when it’s lingering, when it’s hurting, or when you need reassurance. Both options are valid.

And honestly? Being able to regulate and knowing when to reach out are both skills. You’re not doing it “wrong.” You’re practicing balance.

Ultimately, you know what you need best. I talk a lot about sharing our feelings in healthy ways, but sometimes we’re able to self-soothe and move forward on our own. And it can actually make the relationship feel lighter, because you’re not leaning on your partner for every passing thought. So while it’s okay to talk to someone about it if needed, I do encourage self soothing wherever possible.

#aether.rb #relationships

bakwaaas

‘relationships are work’ means ‘you have to put effort into loving each other intentionally & learning how to love each other and communicating properly’ not ‘your relationship makes you feel stressed and sad most of the time & the other person disrespects you and treats you bad but you stay anyway’

#aether.rb #relationships

theclassyissue

creatingblackcharacters

This makes me so sad fr. Because yeah, jogging while Black can get you shot. Like even if the shirt is meant to be jokey, it really might be the difference between life and death one day, who knows.

#aether.rb #black #bipoc

#aether.listens #bad omens

chesh-ires-deactivated20210426

being nonbinary and a fan of non-human creatures isn’t easy. like i’m constantly struggling with the fact that i’m both like “i wish there was more enby representation in humans” and “i’m the same gender as mewtwo and that fucking rips”

ckret2

the tension between “representing NBs only as nonhuman characters is dehumanizing and othering” and “but monsters, aliens, and robots are so much cooler than humans”

mypunkpansexualtwin

spoonies-and-knives

[id/ a stock photo of a handshake between two people with a third person’s palm on top of it. One arm is labeled “neurodivergent ppl”, the second — “ace/aro ppl” and the third — “nonbinary ppl”. The three hands are labeled “wanting to see real human rep in media vs thinking aliens/robots/etc are fuckin sweet” /end id]

#aether.rb #queer #🌻.txt

galactic-mayhem

saw this on pinterest but i think it belongs here too

vinnie-vindictive

this will never not be important

How much resentment I hold towards my parents’ decisions made in consideration of Christianity, to take away the opportunity for my family and I to learn more about my cultures, its lore, stories and legends. And how they engaged in Christofascism through this against persons who lacked the power to defend themselves against it as children.

“These practices are just meaningless things your aunties and uncles believe in” and “we are Christians so we can’t believe in this kind of non-Christian stuff”.

Framing my culture and its indigenous spiritual ties as backwards and dangerous. Using “we” as though I too, followed what they deemed permissible. While they framed it as inherently morally good to oppose these indigenous practices.

I hold so much resentment for how Christianity as a Eurocolonial tool (ie Christofascism) and its congregation amplified these attitudes in Sinodiasporas under Christian-backed societies (typically eurocolonial or post-eurocolonial).

And how walking through a Eurocolonial society, and never having been to nor lived in a country that isn’t stained and corrupted by it, means this fearmongering and moralising against my culture and its practices—is embedded everywhere.