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Stop treating fem and masc as the only way to be non-binary.

[PT: Stop treating fem and masc as the only way to be non-binary. /End PT]

Fem and masc enben are real, important members of the community. I am a masc enban myself. But people *cannot* keep pushing this "are you a masc enby or a fem enby?" concept. People cannot keep treating fem and masc as the only two gender types that exist.

Stop excluding androgynous enben.

Stop excluding neutral enben.

Stop excluding null enben.

Stop excluding genderless enben.

Stop excluding xenine enben.

Stop excluding outherine enben

Stop excluding aporine enben.

Stop excluding culturally gendered enben

Stop excluding unlabeled enben.

Stop excluding multigender enben.

Stop excluding multitrans/multicis enben.

And while we're on the topic of treating enben like they have only two categories - lesbian/uranian and straight enben are completely real, and deserve to have a place in the community. HOWEVER, please stop neglecting enben (and binary people attracted to enben) who don't fall into those categories. Please stop neglecting diamoric orientations [link].

Please stop neglecting feminamoric, viramoric, symmaic, contraic, ceteramoric, tria, etc, etc. Please stop labelling every single NBLNB, NBLW, and NBLM relationship as "lesbian", "uranian", and "straight."

Please stop acting like every enban should be comfortable using the gay-straight identities.

Also, stop acting like every enban uses they/them (or that every man uses he/him or every woman uses she/her) pronouns, and stop calling enben "theys." It's very othering to hear "men, women, and theys" and exclusionary towards enben who do not use they/them. Enby/enban, person, enbies/enben, and people are all *right there.*

And please stop erasing cis and other modality enben [link.] Thank you.

oh god there's more

#aggressively queer #lgbt pride #lgbtq community #lgbtq positivity #lgbtqia #anti exclusionist #pro lesboy #pro mogai #pro mspec #trans rights #trans community #trans pride #pride #radically inclusive #radqueer dni #pridel droids

vinceclaires

"Its not that deep" SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP

s0lace-1n-s0l1tude

Transids make trans people look like a joke and when you point out that what they're doing is based on stereotypes and is harmful to people actually impacted by what they want to have,because they just want the "aesthetic",they act like that makes them more legitimate or whatever

No you're not valid

#aggressively queer #anti transid #transids dni #fuck transids #not transid safe #transids are not valid #use dissomei or something for christ sakes #this includes the “”“”non harmwess 🥺“”“” ones too #pro mogai

asciifunction

reminder that not everything is queer. disorders are not queer. paraphilias, hypersexuality, and systems are not queer identities. disorders are not just labels you can apply to yourself for fun.

they're putting chemicals in the water to turn the frikin droids gay

sotiredofendos

A system is a collection of alters. Alters are chronically dissociated self states, with different neurological pathways that often are accompanied by a varying degree of amnesia. Dissociation is caused by stress/trauma. Alters are a byproduct of dissociating from trauma. You can’t dissociate from trauma you do not have. You cannot dissociate without trauma. You cannot have alters without trauma. You cannot have a system without alters.

You cannot be a system without trauma.

Do you have to know about the trauma ? No. Does it have to be a certain type of trauma ? No. Does it need to be a certain severity ? No. It just needs to have occurred during critical developmental period of the brain. Before the ego states have stitched together, it must be chronic, and beyond the child’s stress threshold, otherwise it will not disrupt the developmental growth. This is different for everyone. The reason trauma cannot be listed as a diagnostic criteria, is because there is no “xyz trauma that causes dissociative disorders”. It’s completely unique to each person suffering from the disorder. And in often cases, the person suffering from the disorder isn’t aware of their trauma. That’s the point of the disorder. This does not mean you don’t need trauma to suffer from a dissociative disorder. Systems are byproducts of dissociative disorders, you cannot be a byproduct of a disorder you do not have.

Endos are not systems. What do I mean by this? I mean that, by definition, that term is not suited for them, and is not meant to describe them. Just like kinning doesn’t mean you’re a system, just like roleplaying doesn’t mean you’re a system, just like religious practises such as tulpamancy isn’t a system. You are perfectly free to do whatever you please, truly. But do not compare it to being a system. You do not share our experiences. You are a different community entirely, and that’s ok.

But please, for the love of god, stop invading our community, and stop spreading misinformation about an already stigmatised and misunderstood disorder.

I understand if you didn’t know better. But please, educate yourself, and stop spreading this misinformation. Being a system isn’t an identity. It’s not a label. And please, stop comparing it to being queer. This is a mental illness. Being queer is not a mental illness.

mr-weirdo-mcgee

cloudboundcritters

"we need more weird queers!!"

you start parroting TERF talking points the milisecond someone says they are a lesboy or gaygirl

you cry when mspec lesbians/gays exist

you refuse to use neopronouns or it/its, even when those are a persons only set of pronouns

you expect a-specs to experience attraction in some way (yes, that includes platonic attraction)

you exclude intersex people

you can't even accept furries.

homosexuality-offical

1 note = 1 dead homophobic politician

all queer discourse would be solved if people actually focused on the actual harmful labels (radqueer,superstraight) invading the community

hopethesillyheartwitch

Just because you don't understand something (Lesboys, Turigirls, neopronouns, contradictory labels) doesn't give you the right to be bigoted to them btw.