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[innerward]

[interyuurei]

Dear perisex trans community,

You cannot reclaim hermaphrodite or baeddel unless you are intersex, and it’s not transmisogynistic to tell you that. Those slurs are intersex slurs only for intersex people to reclaim. Time and time again we have said the h slur in particular isn’t even reclaimable for us (or at least to use them ONLY FOR/TOWARDS YOURSELF if you do reclaim it since it hurts so many intersex people still today), so why do you think you can reclaim it? You cannot reclaim it. Either of them, please stop trying to.

And no, hermaphrodite still being used in animal biology or as “medical terminology” does not give you the right to use it be it in attempt to reclaim or you are referring to intersex people. Preferably, at all, but you know. There are other slurs still technically used those ways we know still are slurs, yeah? This is no different.

And no, you cannot transition to intersex, transitioning doesn’t make you intersex and absolutely does not give you the right to use those words. Psychologically intersex is not real, and if you have a cdd, an alter cannot be intersex unless the body is. It’s no different than an alter cannot be a different race from the body. It’s not transphobic to tell you that, either.

Pointing out and trying to educate on harms and bias in our communities is not bigotry, not inherently, some may try to use education as a front for being -phobic/ist but it’s very clear thats not what I am doing and you know that. Or, at least, I hope so. I truly am trying to go about it which is as gently and kindly as possible. Perhaps ask yourself, if this upsets you, why? Why does being educated on intersex people and gently told you are taking terms not meant for you make you upset?

You do this all the time, do you not? Try to inform and correct completely without malice but just to make places safer? Help people understand? Why is it suddenly not okay for intersex people to do so be it with slurs or other terminology, or just trying to explain to you intersex experiences? Especially but not solely intertrans (yes we can also be trans being intersex is not automatically cis or cis lite or however other way you automatically categorize us) experiences? Really think on that.

Please listen to intersex voices, trans and cis intersex voices, stop “including” us only as argument points then turning around and trying to boot us from our own communities right after. Our liberation goes hand in hand with yours, they do not clash. We are two sides of the same coin, stark differences but also significant overlap. Queer rights are trans rights are intersex rights are human rights.

Kind regards,

your intersex transfem sibling

editing in a p.s… I clarified a bit more in the comments and sort of went off on another tangent. I am turning reblogs off for awhile as my paranoia is spiking. Have a good one, especially my fellow transfems, be you perisex or intersex. You are loved, dear sisters and siblings <3

[anti-willo-purpleguy]

potential hottake from a new alter , but . . .

cults are not funny.

they're not aesthetic.

they're not cutesy.

they're not edgy.

they're not anything you should want to be involved in.

cults are serious , trauma inducing organizations filled with abuse of all kinds , death ( obviously ) , and exploitation of many different kinds of people.

no one should want to lead something where they could take advantage of those who are most likely more vulnerable than they are.

no one should want to exploit people for money , `` special favours , `` or . . . anything - really.

having delusions doesn't mean you can't experience the consequences of your actions.

having disorders doens't excuse horrible behaviour.

having trauma doesn't excuse traumatizing others.

being hurt doesn't mean you should hurt others.

i'm not saying that everyone with delusions , disorders , trauma , etc. are bad people . . .

what i am saying is that no one should get a pass for being a horrible person.

don't demonize what you don't understand.

don't infantalize what you see as different.

and don't romantacuze what could harm yourself and others.

thank you for reading.

[the-fictive-haven]

Hey other plurals! Remember, there is no one stopping you from holding your headmates' hands.

There is no one stopping you from hugging your headmates.

There is no one stopping you from kissing your headmates.

There is no one stopping you from other displays of physical intimacy with your headmates. Given everyone's boundaries are being followed, we would highly recommend doing so!

Not only is it good for your mental health, but it can be good for your physical health as well. Our body was tired earlier and someone fronted to give someone else a massage in the headspace - note person B is usually very restless - and she and the body were fully relaxed in minutes. We actually fell asleep because of it and woke up feeling fairly refreshed.

So yeah, give your headmates some probably much needed attention, I'm sure they'll appreciate it!

[sickdollsys]

Also on the topic of pride month let's shine a huge light on trans people!!

Transwomen are being banned on here for no reason, being called drag queens eveb when they aren't, labeled as femboys when that's an extremely transphobic term used to fetishize and misgender trans people and came from a video fetishizing and mocking a transwoman!!

Transmen are having HUGE hate groups on them online esp on tumblr, being told their issues aren't real qnd are covering up transwomen issues (they both are having a lot of issues they need help for), get sexually harassed constantly bc "they r men!!" ALWAYS being censored too everywhere, a lot of ppl don't eveb think transmen exist?? (Transmisandry/transandrophobia exist no I wont argue on that ur juet transphobic and possibly misogynistic if u disagree)

Nonbinary people aren't even talked abt after 2020 and treated like a trend and just the butt of sm jokes, get treated either like a boy or girl, and people forget them so much and when they call it out they are juet "sooo woke!!"

And don't even get me STARTED on how intersex people are treated, people refuse to acknowledge them existing when they do exist and are constantly covered up!! They go through do much medical malpractice and abuse it's sad, most intersex people go their whole life without knowing they are, people forget they exist and never include them half the time or fetishize them like crazy.

Xenogenders still aren't even taken srsly and people wanna kick us out the community which hey guys!! This is exactly what bigots want!! Once we are gone they'll have yall go after the enbys then the bi people and so on and so forth. Xenogenders aren't even new btw they've been around for centuries and we aren't a joke, we go through the same hell as the whole community.

And the genders that are under the trans umbrella like bigender, pangender (me!!:D), trigender, polygender, twospirited, genderfluid, agender, demigirl, demiboy, demigender and soOO much more genders barely get mentioned or again, treated like a joke, we are ALL losing our rights so instead of stupid fucking infighting of who's valid and who's going through worse how about we all stfu and focus on the real problem? We all go through horrible things, we all are valid and we all are losing rights if not already having them

YOU ARE FALLING FOR WHQT TRANSPHOBES WANT.

Focus more on fighting for our rights back!! Instead of sending transmen death threats how about you speak out for them and stick up for them? Same with every other trans person!! If you can't support one of us you can't support all of us.

[bake-a-fragment]

the smell of sugar lingers in the air as you step inside...

welcome to fragments & frosting, a bakery themed fragment resource blog!

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…stay as long as you’d like!

[sysballs]

"Positivity"

You may not know who you are, and that's okay.

You may not ever find out...And that's ok too.

You may figure yourself out really fast!

And that's great!

But remember...there's always bits and pieces left to discover.

To improve upon.

To delve into and to love.

...

Love yourself before others, but don't forget to love others too.