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alexei; he/they; 25.5 this blog is where I am supposed to die for my sins queer + trans christian immigrant

[parakeet]

Young people don’t know when I joined this website a decade and a half ago we used to have to walk to the post button and back and it was uphill both ways

[parakeet]

Everyone in the notes being like oh yeah the reblog button used to be at the top of the post and you had to scroll back to the top I forgot about that I was just shit posting 😭 how could I forget after my first reblog of Colors of the sky

[villainessbian]

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[corporrealism]

new piece about queer conventions of attractiveness, body hair, and my own transition <3

[yournewfriendshouse]

this is exquisite, OP

[thisuserhaspassed]

[biglawbear]

Where's that post that's like "I can't buy expensive things like plane tickets on my phone, I have to use my laptop, big purchases are for the big screen"

Because apparently this is a literal actual thing that retailers hate cuz you think more before spending a lot of money, they want you to spend a lot without thinking about it so much

Source

Keep buying Big Things on the Big Screen, it's healthy for you financially to think before spending a lot of money!

[jackalovski]

Most mobile purchases are scams or impulsive purchases, think microtransactions and cheap apps.

Phones have autocorrect, nobody wants to fill out an important form or purchasing agreement when autocorrect can choose to replace your name or address with something stupid.

Everyone knows that most of the apps on their phone are spyware, any Facebook app monitors what you do in every other app, no one wants to trust their phone.

This has nothing to do with screen size it’s all to do with the questionable and down right unethical marketing tactics that have infected phones. Soon people are going to stop trusting windows machines too with their built in adds and AI tech.

[onyxheartbeat]

I’m in love with neon lit cemeteries of Iceland.

Photo sources — ✝️ ✝️ ✝️

[lillyviarabbit]

rotting

[lillyviarabbit]

still rotting

[lillyviarabbit]

currently rotting

[lillyviarabbit]

rotting again

[coat]

Fridge vegetable push notifications

[dogdayafternoon1975]

saw a post abt HBO removing shows that suggests ppl just “burn dvds” but everyone doesnt know how to do that so here is one way to do that

- get blank dvds (Both +R or -R work, I think +R is slightly cheaper, the difference is rewritability), these are not very expensive for the amount you can get in bulk (if you are in the US 100 of them is about 30$ at walmart)

- an external DVD drive that plugs in via usb is also around 20-40$ (it tends to be closer to 20)

- download DVDFlick (free)

- if you don’t already have the mp4/mpeg of whatever media you want to burn, you can download movies/shows off of sites like gomovies.sx and soap2day

gomovies.sx will have a download button that looks like this

below the video you can choose one of these

if you click streamlare for example and then the download button it will take you here where the mp4 is

(if you’re on an iphone/ipad, clicking download will save it to your files app)

- if you cant find the download button on soap2day you can also install a video downloader extension which will find the movie for you

- at this point you can drag and drop it into a google drive or keep it on your computer but if you still want it on dvd ->

- open dvd flick, drag and drop the video

- click “project settings”

- give it whatever title you want, you can change encoder to “normal” (default is below normal if you are doing other things on the computer). you dont need to change target size or thread count (unless you want to)

- insert a blank dvd into your drive, make sure you click “burn project to disc”

- click accept then click “create dvd” next to menu and project settings. it will create a destination folder and this dialogue box will pop up when you click “create” on more dvds, just click “yes” and then “okay” on the box that appears after it

it’ll take a couple hours, once its done take a sharpie & write whats on it and stick it in a case . or dont . im not ur mom

[dogdayafternoon1975]

🔫 check the notes for my replies i am no longer asking 🔫

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[yaoiboypussy]

Can we stop with the “do you want a man like this in the women’s bathroom then huh? [picture of a passing trans man]” stuff.

Because it ignores and downplays the violence trans men face in bathrooms it frames trans men as a threat to cis women.

Also just the whole thing of framing someone who looks like a man/masculine as being a threat is just . Weird. Non-passing trans women aren’t a threat either.

Transphobes have made it very clear they want to ban trans men from both the men’s and women’s bathrooms. They don’t want us in either.

[yaoiboypussy]

the whole “i don’t want someone who looks like a man in the women’s restroom” thing is what they use against trans women to ban them from women’s bathrooms. So maybe trying to switch that around by saying “erm actually do you want this other person who looks like a man in your bathroom. Checkmate!” Is weird!

[genderkoolaid]

Here’s why this common argument about trans men in bathrooms does more harm than good

[skulandcrossbones]

[micro-usb-deactivated20230625]

[historicaltimes]

Columbia student flashes the peace sign after being beaten by riot police at an antiwar demonstration, April 1968

via reddit

[rosiefingers]

[rimonoroni]

this is actually a perfect addition. the hebrew in the tags there is a Jewish proverb/song, and it translates to “the whole world is a narrow bridge; the essential thing is not to fear at all.” the point is that, like. the whole world is scary, and that is exactly why you can’t live in fear of it. walk the bridge anyway.

[heaven011]

[bruntalism]

not the cocksucking eye contact

[gomorrite]

[fuckyeah2000s]

[hotvampireadjacent]

I remember seeing a clip of this years ago this ISNT a case of lazy translation he’s literally saying “speaks Japanese” IN Japanese

[nezreblogz]

[calware]

i wish that people were more accepting of the fact that not everyone's "core being" or whatever you want to call it will line up perfectly with a label. some people use labels that match their feelings 100% some will use labels that mostly of kind of fit. some will use a label but only to get people to stop asking about it. some use no labels. etc. labels are just tools that we use to describe our unique + indescribable experiences and feelings, and they tend to work pretty well, but it isn't 100% effective. this is what it means to not sort people into boxes

[calware]

"can this gay man date an agender person since gay men are only attracted to men?" "this woman who identifies as a lesbian had consensual sex with her male friend and enjoyed it, which means she's actually bisexual and can't call herself a lesbian anymore" "my friend told me i can't date my genderfluid partner on days he identifies as a boy and still call myself a lesbian because lesbians don't date men" "trans women can't reclaim the f slur because it's for gay men only" "lesbians can't use he/him because that's for boys" "if a guy who only dates men says he doesn't want to identify as gay he clearly just has internalized homophobia. he's gay" "bisexuals aren't attracted to nonbinary people but pansexuals are" "you can't be nonbinary and a lesbian because lesbians are women who experience same-sex attraction and nonbinary people are nonbinary, not women" "aromantic people can't be in romantic relationships/asexual people can't be in sexual relationships" "if two gay men are married and one comes out as a trans woman they have to get divorced" "you can't identify as queer because it's a slur" "you have to have dysphoria in order to change your gender" "only aspec people can use the split attraction model" why are we doing this. what's the point

[shadovvlurking]

[frehorn-deactivated20181011]

Whatever floats your stoat