Sonar Headcanon time, I need to blurb while I'm on the train
Warnings: NSFW below the cut (if my formatting works) I'll start with Fluff and Angst so you can avoid the NSFW if it's not up your alley. Mentions of Family drama, substance abuse and abusive relationships
Sonar is cuddly. As my headcanon of him being a spectral bat goes, they're huge cuddlers and are very social bats. I do headcanon him to have some fruit bat (his mother is a fruit bat, more on her later) so overall his love language is Spending time and Physical touch
that doesn't mean he isn't big on acts of service, he loves doing stuff for his partner. is it some weird primal instinct from his half-Bat? yeah 100%. but would you really complain when he carries you to the couch after a long day to rub the knots out of your back?
Malevola did a lot for him when they met. If he hadn't met her I could've 100% have seen him falling down the Incel Pipeline during his drug use Era. She taught him a lot more than how to cut back. (and that he's not owed the company of a woman either)
she also helped him come out. He unfortunately developed a bit of internalized homophobia; it happens with the Cryptobro Mansphere, so when she finally got it through to him it was okay he fully embraced his Pansexuality
that doesn't mean he hasn't abandoned all of the lingo yet. he still can't come to terms that Pepe the Frog and Filthy Frank were Alt-Right Pipleline figureheads.
Why is that? Sonar is very much autistic and this is at least hinted at being Canon in game. (the constant delay on understanding social settings and his hyoerfixations, that's for another blurb)
Before he got caught he lived a super cushy life. what else would he do with all the money he stole? He has champagne taste and knows how to flaunt it.
he does have some hidden money that wasn't seized. Initially it was a big old pool of cash for drugs (or if need be to flee the United States so he can start his rug-pull career elsewhere) but now he's using it for less nefarious purposes.
absolutely not a dog person. (it's ironic If you keep track with My ocs but I digress) they're way too much on his Enhanced sense of smell and hearing. He likes Lizards and snakes and other weird pets- he wants a Tarantula but hasn't had the time to invest in one.
part of his parole required some community service outside of Hero work; so he chose to work at the LA Bat Rescue. it's implied he can communicate with bats so he's their top volunteer.
he loves to sing. (I beg yall listen to The Gentle Men if you like Sonar AND Moistcritical)
had a crazy ass abusive ex in college. she tried stalking him when he got to SDN but they shot that down fucking quick.
so bat colonies consist usually of a few families and others dotted here and there; thus leading to me giving sonar this massive family.
he's the third youngest of Six. All of his siblings have V Names (his mother Vera is to blame)
Vera is very much like Nicole Watterson to me. She's the family Matriarch and her husban, Lian, is absolutely devoted to her.
he's wasian. I saw someone here say he was and now I can't unsee the idea. Lian is a Second Generation Chinese-American and Sonar's paternal grandparents live in China
Sonar speaks Mandarin as a second language subsequently
I sadly won't go to much into the dynamic of his Chinese family members because I'm not educated enough (yet) to make it accurate. there's no specific reason I chose Chinese either (maybe it's influenced Cuz I watched Nezha and I love learning about the Chinese new year, but feel free to lmk if this doesn't make sense)
in order of age with his siblings it's Vance, Vincent, Violet, Him, Valeria and Vesper.
he looks like his dad the most but personality wise he's all Mama. he's the biggest damn mama's boy too
so when he got caught with his scams and his mother disowned him, he was devestated
cue why he got into drugs and like I stared above almost fell into Incel culture.l
post-Game ending; his mother and sisters have reached out to rekindle their relationship. however his dad and oldest brother want nothing to do with him anymore.
which breaks his heart cuz he has three nieces from Vance and he adored them and his dad is the reason he pursued music AND finances.
after that he doesn't brag about harvard as often.
he mainly gunned for it so he could please Vance; since he went to Harvard as well
thankfully he has the Z-team; wo are like his second family. they'll eventually reassure him that his goals don't need to matter to anyone but himself. (it got way to quiet without his holier than thou college rants)
He's happy to see that Violet had a baby during his Absence. he's making it his life goal to spoil her
and also making it obvious he wants a daughter so bad
I'll be mentioning his dick Here, be warned
I made another post on this but he's gotta be way taller than JUST 6'0 or 5'9. my personal headcanon he's 6'5 excluding his ears. he was a preemie as a baby so his height was shocking to his mom AND Dad.
he's lean, mostly trains his arms and chest to help him fly and climb better- but his legs aren't neglected. He's like Charlie- if he flexes his muscle is visible but otherwise he seems lean (sleeper build)
he suffers from Arthritis due to his joints undergoing massive strain when he transforms. I also see him having a Bougie ass cane he pretends is for show but is realistically a Mobility aid.
he has bat feet- Aka they're prehensile and he not only loves to freak people out with them but also hang off a bar he drilled into his bedroom. it alleviates the pressure in his legs and spine.
on bad days (like rainy cold) he's bundled up under a nest of blankets trying to not grouch and moan in pain from his aching joints. (Malevola and the reader if you will will be there to soothe him)
he has little membranes attached to his underarms as well.
his diet is skewed. he does enjoy raw meat, blood and small prey animals but he's a total slut for sweets and fruits. Feed him one of those raw fed dog meals and his fur will shine like river water.
this being said he's super vain and well groomed. constantly washing his fur with the premium shampoo and brushing his teeth thrice a day- carrying a tin of altoids in his breast pocket. he smells fucking phenomenal.
he can purr and make all the noises a bat can, but he has this specific roar in his beast form that's unique to him.
has a rut cycle during the Late Summer/Early fall. he gets a week off cuz otherwise he's impossible to control and just genuinely insufferable. he's not just horny he's aggressive to any guy that interacts with his partner. there's been many a time he's nearly blew out Robert's ears for trying to talk to his partner. (for either dispatching or general conversation)
hed follow said partner around the house headbutting their back ever so gently and making little chirps. followed by constant begging.
he does know no means no and will back off. he's spent many seasons alone so it wouldn't be new.
he gives a gift basket of fine wine and chocolates to anyone he's given issues too during the week.
As for his dick, he's a little above average. yes his dick is both bat like and human like- but he has a knot. I don't care that it's impractical but he can't explain why either.
he's pushing 9 inches in his human form, nearly over a foot in his beast form.
shockingly he's a little embarrassed of it, he's had many girls get scared off because it's too inhuman for them. and plenty more weird people who like it BECAUSE it's not human. (in a fetishizing way.)
thankfully the reader sees it as just a dick. and that dick is attached to the love of their life, so there's no weird fetishizing or demeaning remarks.
which sends him over the moon. it's nice to have his body seen as anything but disgusting or an excuse to have weird fantasies fulfilled.
Switch. when topping he's very much a soft Dom who loves to praise but bottoming he needs the same treatment. degradation would've done something for him if it wasn't always discriminatory in the past.
he's a "I'll try anything once" and "a holes a goal" guy. however he does have hard nos he won't delve into. like Vomit, Scat, Ageplay or CBT
he does love to scratch and bite, he needs people to know you're HIS
again with the possession thing he does have a breeding kink. again he wants a kid after all.
if you don't want one that's fine, but he's still gonna beg you to let him cum inside
he also does cum more than the average human, he's proud of that (until he has to clean up, then he's a little shy)
if you're just as freaky as he is he'd wanna use his claws to carve his initials into your thigh. not enough to scar BUT enough to bleed
he's a munch. bats preform oral sex so it'd be a crime to NOT headcanon him as one, he'd eat you anytime anywhere. yes this includes in the office during your period. he does NOT care
he loves Roleplay, he's a damn good actor
one of his favorites? A predator and prey chase in the woods that leads to him having your face in the forest floor as he snarls and bullies himself into you.
bonus points if you ask him to Megabat for this.
he'd set up a safe word and accommodate to you if you have any trauma or triggers that may occur
and if he ended up causing any panic attacks you best believe he'd stop immediately and utterly worship you and calm you down
he's the utter king of aftercare. you're Guaranteed a soft warm bath where he washes all parts of you with a sponge whispering how good you were for him, then he'd swaddle you In a blanket he threw in the dryer so it'd be warm and present you with a charcuterie board he made before you started.
he fucking adores you. if he lost you he'd be lost with himself.
he's a bit silly with sex sometimes. he'd be utterly driving you into the mattress and then ask you if you wanna go bowling with Malevola later.
if you tell him you want a kid with him prepare for the Rut season, you're gonna get pregnant if it KILLS him.
Robert would take one look at you afterwards and just give you this look. it's not disapproval or anger it's just a look.
