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[ambrosiaoctober]

heyy i’m october but you can call me tobi!

some stuff you should know about me:

i’m a lvl17 trans boy and bisexual/demisexual

i use he/him or xe/xym pronouns (not a fan of they/them)

i have OCD and panic disorder, and i’m waiting for an AuDHD assessment (which sometimes i post about)

i have about 700 interests that i will yap your ear off about if i get the chance

main interests ☆

my chemical romance

hello kitty/sanrio, pokemon, legend of zelda, stardew valley, tomodachi life

psychology

art / drawing

arcane, cyberpunk edgerunners, bbc merlin, the amazing digital circus, buffy the vampire slayer

my hero academia, your lie in april, horimiya, the summer hikaru died, saiki k

greek mythology / latin / classics

most of my friends don’t have tumblr but @crikket, @s-soup111, and @tens-radioactive-left-shoe are some of my irls!

[oysters-aint-for-me]

there’s a used bookstore in rural western massachusetts (the montague book mill) whose motto is “books you don’t need in a place you can’t find” and i just feel like that summarizes tumblr too

[oysters-aint-for-me]

posts you don’t need on a site you can’t search

[p0ssiblymayb3]

[silenthillmutual]

i genuinely think ocd is incredibly underdiagnosed bc i will see people posting what are obvious rituals, compulsions, intrusive thoughts, spiralling, hyper morality, etc and its like Have You Considered This Might Be An Issue

[silenthillmutual]

it isnt actually good or normal to have moral dilemmas every day about which posts you reblog. it isn't actually good or normal to check and recheck every message you send "just in case" you sent porn instead of a 'hi how are you'. it isn't actually good or normal to believe that your day will only go well if you have a specific keychain or whatever with you. like i'm not going to diagnose you but i do think some of you need to look into obsessive-compulsive disorder beyond "ha ha funny man wash his hands" portrayals.

[hyumjim]

Starting a collection

[hyumjim]

[daughter-of-sapph0]

come hither, my loyal knight

a little closer

perfect

*baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you baps you*

[hail-the-villainess]

*clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang clang*

[shadelorde]

Hey reminder that allonormativity is specifically intertwined with patriarchal heteronormativity. By which I mean — society does not only want everyone to have sex, it wants a very narrow definition of sex; heterosexual, monogamous, post-marriage sex that requires a romantic relationship, and in many spaces should only be had for the intention of having children.

Queer people who have sex do not benefit in this system and are seen as predators or ‘sexual deviants.’ Queer people who do not have sex do not benefit in this system because sex is viewed as a sort of taboo temptation that everyone will do eventually, and a requirement of marriage (which is also considered a requirement to be “successful” in life).

Which means that sex-averse and repulsed ace people are not “people pretending to be oppressed,” they’re not “people who don’t fancy a shag,” and it also means that ace people who do want to have sex and do talk about their experiences and say that asexuality =/= hating sex are not ‘trying to prove they can be normal’, they’re not traitors to the ace community, and they’re almost never materially benefitting from patriarchal heteronormativity and allonormativity.

Stop being shitty to other queer people.

[notreallyx78]

sorry I liked this "trend" a little bit much so I drew my version :)

[pouletpourri]

so about that one "what now" poster by glitch-

[demilypyro]

oh also in the Dutch dub Jax claims she got her backstory off Wattpad rather than a Hallmark movie

[infizero]

bringing back my too woke opinion that you should be allowed to change labels without the previous one being incorrect

[infizero]

i think you should be allowed to identify as trans without retroactively saying you were also trans in the past. i think the "born this way" rhetoric is limiting and you should be able say stuff like "i was fully a girl when i was a kid and now im a boy" without it invalidating your current identity but maybe that's just me

[bonivers]

going on a guilt trip do yall want anything

[secondbeatsongs]

if you really cared about me you wouldn't have to ask

[delinquentbookworm]

one time I went over to a friend's house and their housemate was making paper in the living room, and we saw this big tub full of water they were using to dissolve old scrap paper into a slurry, and everyone was immediately like "oh, you need scrap paper?" and started turning out their jacket pockets and producing expired coupons and bus tickets and crumpled receipts and old shopping lists and whatever else they'd been carrying round with them for no good reason, and passing it all to the paper-making housemate to make sure it was suitable before it got torn up and dropped into the tub, while people took turns stirring the slurry with a big wooden stick. it was strangely ritualistic, like presenting an offering to some kind of temple elder for inspection before placing it in a watery shrine to be devoured and reformed. pulp for the pulp god.

[that-one-idiot-11]

Gangle appearing right after Ribbit abstracted and her avatar literally being a ribbon....... uuuughghhhghg it was way too easy for Jax to hate her. The poor girl. Both the poor girls. Yes Gangle OBVIOUSLY didn't deserve ANY of the abuse from Jax, yes Jax was an asshole and her trauma does not excuse that. But the real villain in this show is bad timing.

[cemeterymeshi]

oh okay

[aroaceofthesea]

“Of course we’re in love, that’s why i tried to shoot you” “if you really loved me you wouldn’t have missed” is such a raw ass line you would think it comes from Goncharov (1973) and you would be right

[stickylizardcave]

uuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh no comment