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we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word

amethyst-wind-uk

Also that neither domming or topping equates to being masc, same as subbing or bottomming doesn't mean being fem.

Being taller/bigger also doesn't mean you have to dom or top or be masc or tough, and being shorter/smaller doesn't mean you're a sub or a bottom or fem or weak.

You can be all/any/none of these. None of these follow on from any of the others. You don't have to put yourselves in boxes to fit caricatures.

begforit-puppy

shibari ropes squishing into fat stomachs and thighs. you agree.

lesbianshepard

one of the funnier incidents of me assuming someone knew a meme irl was when a new coworker was talking about some woman who got arrested for tax fraud and I went "God forbid women do anything" and he got scared and thought I was accusing him of being sexist, so he started apologizing and saying how tax fraud isn't even bad, actually.

qqchurch

acerby

"I'M YOU FROM THE FUTURE! I think..."

thegirlwiththemooglehat

Friends, romans, people who are nonbinary except at work, lend me your ears,

junewild

incredible innovations on the beverage front

ceruleanheaven

religion is so fucking funny the world is just too beautiful there must be a higher entity behind all this. lets oppress women

secondquarrel

so venezuela has become a usamerican colony. like that happened and everything carried on like normal

secondquarrel

like i know venezuela is going through a huge humanitarian crisis right now and their political regime is low in the list of priorities when tallinmg about it obviously it's just it shocked me to read trump congratulating his secretary of energy on how well he's running what used to be a sovereign country until a few months back you know

valtsv

it's forever fucked that refusal is associated so strongly with cowardice and cowardice is almost universally uncontestedly seen as an existential failure that disqualifies you from the right to refuse anything when being able to admit that you're afraid and say "no" are some of the most powerful things that anyone can do

valtsv

"why don't you want to? are you scared?" yes. is that so bad? to be afraid and unwilling? why should that be worth less? why should i hope to be the richest corpse in the graveyard?

kirikomamura

smashfan64

I already like it you don't have to sell me on it more

maelwife

Maybe one reason time seems to speed up in adult life is because when your full time job leaves you roughly 5 hours of free time a day plus two days off a week your life turns into a sort of monotony that makes the days blend together and creative pursuits move in slow motion as you can only get to them when other your commitments are done.

maelwife

When you look back and think damn 2019 wasn’t that long ago where did the time go? Job. Your Job took it.