Brown SB on the East Coast

20-something, new SB learning, practicing, doing and documenting 

[thetenderpassion]

[sugarbbyxo-deactivated20160708]

Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!

So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo

Safety

Deleting yourself from the internet

Sending pictures via google voice texting 

Square cash warning 

Amazon gifts safety

COP or POT?

Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby

Phone safety

What information should you give your SD?

Verify him

Safety links for sugar babies

All about screening

How SD’s can track where you live

The Miranda warning

Internet safety tips

Receiving packages

Staying safe as a sugar baby

Sugar baby safety 

Sugar baby safety tip

Sugar baby safety & catfishing

Free background check website

Is he the real deal?

Tricking him to keep your privacy

Keeping your privacy

Very important hoe safety tip

Free-styling

Free-stying guide

Eye-contact

Turning vanilla to sugar

How to approach men while free styling

Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies

Where to freestyle

All about free-styling

Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start

Free-styling tips

Top three places to freestyle

Free-styling & staff

What NOT to ask him

Meeting SD’s online

Craigslist title tip

Ashley Madison

Sugar dating and craigslist

List of sugar dating sites

Sugaring using tinder

Tindering tip

How to tinder

Craigslist masterpost

Craigslist sugar

Writing/writing back to messages

The perfect message

How to message men on sugar sites

Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid

Perfecting your message

More messaging advice

Sugar sites to check out

Weeding through messages on sugar sites

Allowance, financials, and budgeting

How to get the allowance you want

How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance

Allowance or pay per meet?

All about money

Cash/gifts on a POT date

What form should I take my allowance in?

How to make real money

Sugar baby banking tips

Spending your sugar money

Asking for money on a POT date

Getting him to buy you something

Financial advice

Drain his bank account

When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…

Saving money

How much can he really pay you?

Budgeting tips for sugar babes

Tips on spending your sugar money

Allowance and AmEx cards

Let’s talk budgeting

5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer

What to say to get the allowance you want

Sugar banking

Allowance and bank laws

Random cash tips

He pays for what he wants

Investing 101

Allowance negotiation tactics

The art of sugar dating

How to handle a first date with a POT

What NOT to talk about on a POT date

Organizing your POTs

How to: manipulate the conversation 

How to create a positive impression

6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had

What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!

50 unusual date ideas

Checklist the night before your date

What you need to do before your POT date

Your first POT date

Dining etiquette

Dining etiquette pt. 2

How to fake confidence

Conversation tips

Confidence

Classy conversation topics

First date conversations with your SD

What to bring in your purse on a sugar date

Bullshit to spit on dates

Things to know about wine

First date advice

How to handle a first date

100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date

How cheat your way through small talk

Conversation topics

Developing your personality

The psychology of persuasion

Seduction, manipulation & negotiation

Remember: You are an actress/actor

The art of seduction

Strategies to try on your SD

Sugar negotiation

Bullshitting 101

Make him take you seriously

How to make him want to say yes

Body language 

Master guide: Body language linguistics 

Manipulation tips

How to manipulate people into liking you more

Sugar manipulation

How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more

Emotion, seduction and manipulation

Marketing yourself

How to attract a man

Perks of sugaring - power

Being your SD’s fantasy

Manipulation success

The girlfriend experience

Keeping your SD

Treat your SD right… Or someone else will

Keeping him hooked

Don’t become familiar or ordinary

Become his fantasy

Don’t forget the details

Keeping your sugar daddy

 Bedroom tips

Treating your SD right

How to keep an SD interested

Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD

Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)

Blowjob tips

Appearance

How to make yourself more attractive

Fashion tips and dress codes

How to dress “sugar”

Hoe products

Fuck-proof makeup list

How to be a kept woman

Looking elegant

Sex prep

Lingerie masterpost

20 beauty tips

Charming cash out of your sugar daddy

Vaginal hygiene 

Invest in yourself

Sugar tote essentials

Contouring cheat sheet

A hoes guide to body care

Sugar baby check list

Platonic Sugar

A tip for aspiring sugar babes

Being a platonic SB

Being a pure sugar baby

Sugar Travel

Traveling with your SD

Travel etiquette for sugar babies

Sugar baby travel tip

Traveling sugar

General tips/info on sugaring

The rules of sugaring

Sugar baby manifesto

Sugar baby academy

How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps

This lifestyle isn’t for everyone

The secrets to being a successful sugar baby

Random sugar baby tip

Great sugar tip

“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”

25 tips to make you better sugar

Being a successful sugar baby

10 golden rules of sugar dating

General sugar baby tips

Sugar baby general guide

Apps every sugar baby needs

Sugar baby mentality

Sugar baby survival tips

Sugar baby wisdom

Sugar baby resources

What being a SB is all about

6 common sugar baby mistakes

Remain calm, cool and collected

Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:

What SB’s often forget

You are not asking for too much!

Beginning advice for newbies

Tips for new sugar babies

Always have a plan B

Tip to new sugars

So you want to be a sugar baby…

What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?

5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them

Patience

Remember this when you become a sugar baby

4 things every aspiring SB should know

“How do I become a sugar baby?”

How to stand out as a sugar baby

“Learn from my sugar mistakes”

“When is right to start sugaring?”

Tips from a successful sugar baby

6 tips for aspiring SBs

All about him

How to know if he’s the right sponsor

Sugar daddy check list 

Don’t believe what he says

How to get him to raise your allowance

POTs

Filtering the POTs

How to spot a fake POT

Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay

Distinguishing sugar from salt

10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship

Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date

“What should I say?” And personality

Don’t be mundane and predictable

When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”

When he complains about paying you

When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before 

Communicating your standards

How to say “no” to your SD

How to insist on a condom

What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”

When he says “I’ll pay you later”

Your sugar profile

Writing tips

Make your profile work for you

Face shot or no face shot? 

Random tips/things/misc.

P.O. boxes and why you should have one

“Advice I received from a whale SD”

Long distance sugar

How to be a boss ass bitch

Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote

How to organize your hustle 

Sugaring from scratch

“Sex is sex, but money is money”

Mandatory sugar tool

No luck finding a sugar daddy?

The official sex worker reading list

Getting your sugar daddy back

Sugar baby texting

Suggested sugar reading list

[amoredulce-blog1]

New POT, 1st Date

I’ll call him Chip. Everything went well, but I feel a little conflicted.

He isn’t interested in giving me an allowance, but has the means, and wants, to spoil me in other ways, and I think he’ll come through on that. But I think if I just call an allowance something else, I could probably get it out of him. I think he’s got a lot of potential to offer me more down the road, which I recognize is a risk I’ll be taking. While I do feel drawn to him, I’m worried also.  What if I’m seeing something that isn’t actually there? Or what if I’m not communicating with him well enough? To be honest, I’m probably not. Ugh..

I guess one of the reasons I’m still into it is that he’s also pretty decent as a person, his body is something I think I can handle, and his fantasies are pretty easy to fulfill. To be continued....

[amoredulce-blog1]

Miguel’s song, “quickie” gets my head in the game for POT/SD dates. Particularly the line, “I don’t wanna be loved”

[amoredulce-blog1]

When a POT asks me why I want to be an SB: Me in my head : well the ho was already there, I just want to get nice shit for it now

[nicolerichiecirca2003]

listen…i literally dream of being a woman with a skin care routine, that smells good always and eats vegetables but i am a swamp demon and i’m doing what i can with that 

[amoredulce-blog1]

Day 1 of coming off coffee. Last semester had me drinking maaad coffee just to stay awake to finish homework, which led to drinking it the next morning to wake up. Wake up, to stay up, and the cycle continues. Trying to just drink water now, and honestly I don't even care that much about coffee but this headache now without it is bangin

[memewhore]

[vanillascentedthot]

Yoooo, this is amazing 🌹

[tianasweets]

[mayadanje]

goals

[candiikismet]

Yesssss Zipporah!

[sugarnbliss]

What is this?

[hathor77]

Pretty sure its Joseph on netflix

[mycollegesugarbabylife]

It’s called Prince of Egypt!

[amoredulce-blog1]

Tinder Addendum 1

Okay so I kind of regret “liking” so many people on Tinder. Everyone is matching with me, which on one hand is good, but on the other, not all of these people mention anything about sugaring, or being a sugar daddy. My logic at the time was to cast a wide net and broach the subject with everyone. But now I just see that as a lot more work than if I had only selected people explicitly saying they want a sugar baby. This is potentially a lot of people to convert. Not that none of them have potential… It’s just making me feel more quick to cut to the chase. I don’t want to turn away any potentials, but I’m risking sacrificing tact at this point.

[og-itgirl]

[amoredulce-blog1]

Tinder

So I decided to make a tinder account today for the purposes of freestyling. I made a FB account with my SB identity, which is what links to Tinder. I wasn’t sure which direction to go in for the pictures I posted. I decided to take “sexy” pictures. On my account with SA (which I’ve deleted for now), the pic I used was pretty professional (aka boring). So this time I decided to spice it up. I didn’t reveal anything other than cleavage though, and I’m glad with how it  turned out. All I put in my profile was that I am a sugar baby, and moved the age settings up. Then I just started swiping right for most people. I mean, I’m trying to discriminate between who looks like they have money and who doesn’t, but to be honest, my skills at determining that aren’t very advanced. If he looks like he’s really looking for a girlfriend, comes across young, has a lot of pics of his kids, I swipe left. I’m not here for that. That still leaves a lot of people to swipe right for, and really, I figure the more the merrier, right? So of course not everyone has matched with me. In regards to those who have, not all of them mention anything about spoiling, sugar, or being a daddy. But I’ll entertain them for now. If they have 2 cents for a brain, they’ll have read what I’m looking for. Of course,  I know that still may be giving too much credit to some. So far though, I’ve been matched with 3 people who have explicitly mentioned looking for a sugar baby, wanting to be a sugar daddy, wanting to spoil, etc. So I’m pretty psyched. That being said, not quite sure how to keep it moving forward. It’s great to be matched and to start chatting, but then I gotta figure out if they come to my city? How/when would they like to meet? And for now I’m sticking to the advice I’ve read about having a date before bringing up an allowance. I may eventually change my stance on that, as it’s a good point about that potentially wasting time, but on the other hand I do see the logic in trying to hook them first. Any thoughts?

[bronzedsugaruk-deactivated20170]

Reblog if you are a SUGAR BABY

I want to get to know all of you ladies! #

SugarSupport

[sugary-mangos-blog]

New to this whole thing, so I want to make some friends and get to know the community better! Follow me please :) I’ll follow back

[okayilubuhbye-deactivated201611]

Bless you, MusicalHoe.

[greyscalesound]

If nothing else, this gives me a list of shit to buy my girl lol

[afatbabe]

If you’re not noticed, you’re still valid.

[afatbabe]

Like, if no ones gonna read it, you should still write it.

If no ones gonna see it, you should still do it.

If no ones gonna hear you, you should still say it.

You’re not measured by how people react to you.

[scum2000]

You’re not measured by how people react to you.

[brakehagen-deactivated20161009]

i’ve been laughing at this for like 8 minutes straight