Am I the weird one for judging someone? I am 19 and I have two close friends. One of them, who I will call R, is the same age and we have been friends since 2nd grade and the other, who I will call A, is a year younger and we have been friends since 7th grade. R does not A because supposedly because A talks crap about her family a lot. I don't really care because she has been a loyal friend to me and that's all that matters too me. Not to mention A really does have a messed up family life, she just exaggerats as a lot of people do. However, what really gets me upset is that R has the gall to dislike her based on that to the extent she does. R and I were talking about a group hang out and I mentioned A and she gave me this explanation as to why she "puts up with her for me". I put up with way more from your friend then you do with mine! Our freshman year R and her friend for about two years were supper close and I was RIGHTFULLY jealous, since she chose her other friend over me for EVERY group project. I never mentioned it because R never stopped reminding us "don't make me choose between you two or I won't choose either and find other friends". It made me want to choose, like be real we are your only close friends it's not that simple. I didn't want her to choose because she was the only friend I had in my grade and because she showed on several occasions who she would choose with her actions. I love R, but sometimes she is so unaware of what she is doing. Anyway this other friend was a real jerk. She talked crap behind my back, another thing I didn't tell R about. She refused to have a conversation with me except for one time me and A were making fun about the election that was going on and she joins in with a different opinion and later goes and tells R who then talks to me "let's not talk about politics". WE weren't talking politics A and I were SHE joins in after ignoring us for all of our other conversations. Anyway, A has been a saint compaired to R's friend. Sorry I know that spiraled, but let me know if you read this and have an opinion. I don't need validation, I just wanted to vent too an audience that will listen and any response will be my way of knowing I have an audience lol.
