Running away from abusive parents

A random blog of abuse, trauma, and about trying to survive so there may be fanfics, and drawings here I accept advices, and I give it too (seriously, I'm desperate)

[furiousgoldfish]

okay I wanna check something:

write down your definition of being close to someone, it can be a close friend, or a family member, or a relationship partner. What level of knowing you and communicating with you, and how big of a presence someone has to have in your life in order to be considered close to you?

[an-abused-person]

well, I don't have many friends .. but I suppose it would be someone who respects my changing decision about physical contact, not teasing when I have a problem, or a concern about something "stupid"

that he respects my limits, and that he understands that I will not always be able to help him

And if such a person exists, then don't come with me asking for fancy things

Sorry for my bad English

[uwiguwi]

if you’re reading this

a lump sum of money is on the way to you

[uwiguwi]

it happened today, damn that was like 3 days maybe?

It Works the money is on its way!

[goodluckrob-deactivated20221110]

Need this.

[mindyourbusinessitsfree]

Of course

[sauvamente]

It worked tho

[ourblackisgold-deactivated20191]

I just won $500 off a scratch Ticket lottery.

[sauvamente]

ENERGY

[deux-pour-chagrin-blog]

OKAY LEGIT I REBLOGGED THIS YESTERDAY. ME AND MY PARTNER ARE IN SUCH A TIGHT SPOT FOR MONEY ATM AS WE ARE SAVING FOR A DEPOSIT ON A HOUSE. I GOT PAID DOUBLE WHAT I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO GET AND SO DID HE AND HONESTLY I CRIED SO MUCH TODAY IM SO HAPPY AND RELIEVED

[lilybeth666-blog]

Positive vibes!!!!!

[realtrashwitch]

[bongachong-deactivated20181020]

Gimma ALLAT SHIT

[saraxdoll]

Run it🗣

[goddess-ambrosia-deactivated201]

I’m in such a tough financial situation and need a boost right about now

[leily-rymer]

:0

[an-abused-person]

Pls!! I'm need money

[an-abused-person]

Anyone have any advice on how to make money living in a third world country?

...nobody?

I guess I'll commit suicide and ask to reincarnate far from Latin America, probably Canada

Anyway, if anyone has advice I am very happy to read

[an-abused-person]

Are you trying to escape from your abusive parents?

May they not find your money! trust me it won't end well

[an-abused-person]

I reached a level of abuse where I am not alone in my mind

it's always not too late for a new Alter, dissociation, an argument, or just panicking

:D

I love my life, at least I'm not alone in this shit

[an-abused-person]

Being constantly abused is also always being alert, and then entering an existential crisis when our abuser does something kind

It is so serious that you even wonder if you are really being abused ... until your abuser brings out his true behavior again, and there you remember it

"I am definitely being abused"

[an-abused-person]

The disgusting thing about abusers is that day after day they will try to convince you, and blame you for everything they do to you

You aren't to blame, but you still believe them because you don't know any better: /

You aren't to blame for anything

[an-abused-person]

Red Flags of abuse

Embarrassing or putting you down

Looking at you or acting in ways that scare you

Controlling who you see, where you go, or what you do

Keeping you or discouraging you from seeing your friends or families

Taking your money or refusing to give you money for expenses

Preventing you from making your own decisions

Preventing you from working or attending school

Blaming you for the abuse, or acting like it’s not really happening

Destroying your property or threatening to hurt or kill your pets

Intimidating you  with guns, knives or other weapons

Shoving, slapping, choking or hitting you

Attempting to stop you from pressing charges

Threatening to commit suicide because of something you’ve done

Threatening to hurt or kill you

[an-abused-person]

The worst thing about abusive parents, or toxic family is that when you try to escape, they will act a thousand times worse to prevent it