When she said „I don’t feel like a girl“, she meant that she feels ostracized by misogynistic beauty culture and the lack of female solidarity as a result of the patriarchy. That she doesn’t feel seen.
She needed to hear that femininity and beauty rituals aren’t what makes her a girl or a woman. She needed female friends and rolemodels.
But you gave her hormones and cut off her chest. You medicalized a social condition. You failed her.


















