it’s my party i’ll say fuck if i want to

lesleysue •27• ♏︎♐︎♓︎

[lesleygorgasm]

happy pride, lesbians don't like dick regardless of what it's attached to. there's nothing wrong with being bisexual which is what you are if you date someone who identifies as a woman but has a whole ass penis

[lesleygorgasm]

stop asking me to babysit if your kid doesn't know how to narcan me

[87352257]

“i’m fluid” - you’re bi

“i’m pansexual” - you’re bi

“my sexuality fluctuates” - you’re bi

“i like the label queer because it’s unlimited” - you’re bi

“idk I just like people regardless of their gender” - you’re bi

[theangryman]

the most important thing is that everyone follows *your* rules for how they label themselves, because you are the most important and special person who decides everyone’s identity for them ❤️

[hexagon-club]

Hi tumblr user theangryman. I know this is something you find confusing, but the thing about categories is they arise out of a collective need for humans to identify and communicate distinct entities and concepts. This only works if there is some sort of collective agreement as to what the limits of those categories are.

Arbitrarily redefining categories to mean whatever you want them to mean is somewhat against the spirit of collective communication as an enterprise. Because if anyone can just invent new meanings for words just because they feel like it, then words no longer mean anything in particular and as such they cease to be useful as tools of communication.

The fact is that no matter what sort of semantic sophistry you engage in, there are still going to be people who are attracted to both sexes. So it is perfectly reasonable for humans to have a word that means “attracted to both sexes”. And if people who are attracted to both sexes feel that the word that means “attracted to both sexes” doesn’t fit their identity, well that’s too bad because the point of language is to identify concepts and communicate them. And if being described accurately hurts your feelings, that is what we would call a “you problem” and it’s unreasonable to expect that other people should lose the ability to communicate with one another over it.

[godlessondheimite]

it’s kind of wild that we expanded the definition of eugenics to “having any hopes or expectations for the health of your baby or believing that there are certain broad expectations for what makes a good situation to raise children in.”

“i hope my baby does not have Painful Liferuining Disease.”

“wow hitler. so everyone with Painful Liferuining Disease should DIE?”

[p0rc3la1n-m3th-add1ct10n]

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but saying terfs need to be raped, abused, punched, killed, humiliated, assaulted, does not make you some progressive feminist queen It does not make you a good person it doesn'tmake you more "woke". In fact, you are just disgusting. You aren't even trying to make valid arguments. You are just using violent threats and expecting everyone to agree with you, and the most startling part of it is that a lot of people do. I am appalled with how normalized race and death threats are in common day media, especially in the trans community and even more so in the Tims section of the community.

[90swizard]

people not believing in bio sex when it was perfectly clear which sex was barred from opportunities for all of fucking history makes me want to vomit. like if you think sex is fake you are a misogynist. that’s it.

[tra-receipts]

’No one is forcing gay men or lesbians to date trans people if they don’t want to’

Social coercion and shame is a type of force. It’s shaming gay people for their sexuality, telling them that they are wrong and broken, and telling them that the only way they can be ’right’ or ’an ally’ is to date trans people.

[tra-receipts]

[tra-receipts]

[ddrfreakymoves]

I kept scrolling and scrolling it never ended

[fingerlickinbutch-deactivated20]

But this never happens! We’re totally not being gaslit! :)

[addictedtocaring]

Reading shit like this actively makes me more “transphobic” because these people are rapey as fuck and they do, actually, scare me. Same sex attracted trans folks are much less likely to be frightening (except the ones who are active misogynists) but these heterosexuals who are literally threatening, mocking, and shaming gay men and lesbians for being homosexual? Yeah, they do scare me.

[radicalemonade]

@in-nowhere-land here is another one

[hexagon-club]

Is there any other civil rights movement in history that has put this much energy into whining about how women don’t want to have sex with them? How is this an actual problem.

[cordycepsfem]

I want to vomit. Just an endless mile of pretentious rape apologists and aggressive straights claiming their oppression is the worst - when their oppression is people not being attracted to them.

[thememedaddy]

[donnerpartyofone]

It's hard to say this without sounding like a right wing dickhead, but the thing about progressive spaces is that they may naturally attract people who are always on the lookout for excuses to start a fight. Like you can find yourself faced with someone whose political outrage is totally justified, and whose humanitarian ideals are right on the money, but simultaneously they are carrying a ton of psychological baggage about being wronged and getting revenge, and they will exploit literally any opportunity to live out this psychodrama with anyone in their line of vision. I have thought of several related anecdotes since I started typing this post, but I'll limit myself to the thing that inspired it, which is that I just visited this ultra-lefty cafe/bike shop/community gathering space where I've heard that the proprietor is constantly in a fight with everyone around her. When I paid for my stuff I noticed that there was no tip option, but I thought I had heard something about this, so I snuck away to look at the website and it made me really glad I didn't ask! I think there should have been a really enticing and exciting way for her to say "I've decided to be the change I want to see in the world, so I'm paying my baristas a full living wage, I'm making sure EVERYONE feels welcome and comfortable here, and I'm selling products I believe in!" -- but instead all the web copy sounded more like "You're either with me or against me, you're a fucking piece of shit asshole if you can't handle the inclusive atmosphere here, and by the way tipping is for fascist cavemen and if you ever try to tip someone you are refusing to relate to them authentically and you are enforcing a dangerous and evil power dynamic that should be purged from human society (so therefore I pay my staff well)." Like everything she stood for was totally agreeable, but why did she have to put it like it was directed at her worst enemy, rather than at the kinds of people she wants to attract? If the word on the street is to be believed, the reason for this posturing is that she spends quite a lot of energy making as many enemies as possible, and she probably likes it that way. I guess I'm just reminding myself, and perhaps others, that while one might think of "politics" as being broadly social and theoretical, no individual can fully separate the political from the intimately personal. Even somebody who seems to want to uplift and protect their fellow humans may be getting some perverse inner satisfaction out of that valiant crusade, and you may never realize it until you find yourself in a confusing fight with them.

[lilyflxwers]

ok i absolutely need to know what accents u all have pls reblog and tell me or comment or whatever I must know

[ms-hells-bells]

marie antoinette was a clueless teenage girl thrown into a marriage and country she had no choice in, and has been slandered for hundreds of years since her death, with made up quotes such as “let them eat cake” when her final words were actually apologising to a guard for stepping on his toes, the fact that despite the extravagance she was much less fancy and money wasting than previous royals, and the erasure of her efforts to listen to and help the people despite having no political experience and her king-husband being useless, all providing a perfect example of the sexualised demonisation of young women with any semblance of power throughout history, and in this essay i will

[bitterbadfem-harpy]

Dude it wasn’t her fault tho. All that shit wasn’t her fault.

Her husband’s great-great-great grandfather built the palace of Versailles. Louis XVI only even became king because his older brother died at the age of nine, then his parents died of tuberculosis. He became king because his grandfather died and every other male in his immediate family was already dead. He was completely unfit to rule, and his wife was a teenager.

Imagine you’re a literal kid and your parents pack up your shit and say “Congrats honey you’re a bride!” And then you get murdered for shit your husband’s ain’t-shit family did decades before you were born.

[watermelinoe]

they made pornography of her that contributed to her execution. she was just their sacrificial lamb.

[foxincrocs6shooter]

Oh look, porn has always been a means to degrade women

[tofufem-deactivated20230127]

Not even to mention the du Barry necklace scam that was the nail in the coffin of her public image

[decadent-hag]

Definitely one of the Top Images of all time I gotta say

[brucebocchi]

[madhopz]

[absolutegibberishandnumbers]

jokes to make after failure that aren’t self-deprecating:

I’m the best to ever do it

Nobody saw that (best if said loudly)

No one’s ever done it like me

I could be President/they should make me President

Behold, a mere fraction of my power!

The public wants to be me soooooo bad

I’m an expert in (thing you just failed at)

How could this have happened to god’s favorite princess?

Nothing ibuprofen and a glass of water cant fix

I’m being sabotaged

[bodacious-ass]

hot take apparently, but woman isn't a feeling. if you like things that are stereotypically feminine that doesn't make you a woman. just like if you don't like things that are stereotypically feminine, that doesn't make you less of a woman. reducing being a woman to a feeling instead of biology is taking away womanhood and putting it in the hands of men to decide what defines it

[cursedpossums]

unrestrained summer fun

[cursedpossums]

every year around late may, without fail, this post starts getting notes again . and my little wet raw chicken breast of a brain gets puzzled. because i forget that summer is , in fact. a yearly event

[valtsv]

always remember the Final Girl Code:

- do it alone

- do it scared

- do it with a knife in your hand if you have to

[grimandghoulish]

reblog if you remember what it felt like to walk into blockbuster