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My dad fucking forced me to delete tumblr on my phone because he found out it has "adult content"

you know what he found to call it adult content?

nudity? no

sex? neither

lgbt people, because "it isn't appropriate for a minor"

i still have tumblr on pc but he said that if he found out i still use it on pc he will force me to delete my account

well, with that, i dont think i can post that much anymore, i have some post on queue on this account and some other on @musical-quotes-offical, but after that i dont think i can post as much as i do now

themoonforjoy

I need to set the record straight for queer people who don’t have a transphobic government holding their birth certificate hostage.

In the United States the average native-born citizen can prove their definitive citizenship in terms of eligibility for work through either a birth certificate or a passport. Birth certificates are legally owned and issued by the government of the state you are born in.

I was born in Texas. Texas has banned trans people from changing our birth certificates to match our name and gender. Texas will put me on a list if I reveal I am trans in any legal way, including having ever applied to change my gender marker. I cannot change my birth certificate.

This means the only way I can prove my eligibility for work is with my passport. Without my passport, I can’t legally apply for work.

That is why the executive order banning trans people from changing our passports to match our gender identity is such a huge problem. It’s not boo hoo I can’t leave the country to go on vacation, it’s stripping me of my labor rights and daring me to work in a sweat shop if I want to survive.

And say I did want to cross the border because oh, I don’t know, fleeing to seek asylum in a new country suddenly becomes very important—wouldn’t it be a good idea to have a passport that matches my identification to show local authorities, so they don’t deport me back to America?

I know not everyone can read legalese, but I need the LGBT community to at least try to stay up to date and connect the dots on the legal ramifications of orders like this if we are going to fight back. Because frankly, my passport was recently threatened, and I was not impressed by the ignorance I was met with from cis gays and trans folks who hail from the east/west coast.

comprehensive-sex-ed

Reblogging this because safety matters.

exaltprincess

The funniest part of the Tomodachi Life direct was when they said "you can pick their dating preferences!" And selected all three options, then went totally silent for a few seconds and made her straight again. Genuinely made me laugh for like five minutes

contradictory-yet-useful

taking that out of the tags

abearinthewoods

Source: @klaufir

capriciousarsonist

ah, the two genders, Girl and Orb

sailorfailures

spacefinch

thisisexorsexism

my friend going "wait, people actually USE neopronouns? i thought they just, like, put them on their profile and stuff..." at the time i used multiple neos (i don't currently, but some of my alters do)

this is exorsexism

arliediaries

i don’t think any of my friends will ever understand how much i love alice oseman’s books.

honourable mentions: radio silence and loveless

benhope

(i did end up drawing tv!ben again)

busket

I remember when it was a big shared sentiment in the queer community that "sex =/= gender =/= pronouns =/= physical appearance or expression" and. I feel like everyone even other trans people have forgotten about all that except the first part. and in many cases people forget the whole thing entirely