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Friendly reminder to check you’re not holding tension in your body. Let your shoulders drop, unclench your hands and jaw. Take a deep breath. Much better.
If you struggle with anxiety, overwhelm, or just plain feeling like a failure, I have a mantra for you that’s been really helping me out lately:
Just show up.
I used to skip class because the whole thing was so overwhelming: I had to get dressed in something clean even though I never had the energy to do laundry, walk to school, sit in class for up to three hours, plus pay attention, take notes, and participate in discussion. In reality, I was being a perfectionist, and life would have been a lot easier for me if I had Just Shown Up. By staying home because of my depression and anxiety, I wasn’t giving myself the chance to do any of that. I was such a perfectionist that being a “bad” or average student was unthinkable, so I stopped being a student at all.
If you’re having trouble getting something done, Just Show Up. You don’t have to be employee of the month. You don’t have to be valedictorian. Just Show Up.
ime it also helps to be like “you dont have to stay the whole time, you just have to go” bc most of the time once youre there it’s fine. a lot of things are like that, like… you dont have to finish the dishes, just start them. a lot of the time once you start a task it’s easier to finish than to stop, especially if you can trick yourself like “after five more minutes if i still feel bad i’ll go home” or “after washing two more dishes i can stop for today”
even if you don’t finish the task, you started it, and by completing part of it you lessened your future workload and ALSO taught your brain that things may not be as daunting as they seem
This is wisdom! Peace!
you know what years of therapy taught me - Redefine success
so what if no one else gets how the things you define as successes are victories because you have to
so you got to work - success
you used public transport - success
you went to the supermarket instead of ordering online and didn’t just buy things you dind’t want because you got scared - MASSIVE success
Redefine success, your body moved the goal posts, there is no shame in acknwoledging that
7 Tips for Happiness
1. Have one or two really good friends – people you can trust and be honest and real with.
2. Build some adventure into your life. We all need to dream, and to stretch our boundaries.
3. Get rid of the excess stuff in your life – the people and the clutter that take up too much space.
4. Try to find some kind of balance between super-busy-ness and then feeling bored, as you’ve nothing much to do.
5. Give into temptation every once in a while, otherwise you’ll feel too cramped and constrained by your life.
6. Don’t just accept and put up with yourself. Really learn to love and appreciate yourself.
7. See each day as a brand new day – don’t look back at what happened, or the people, in your past.
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feelings are not facts
thoughts are not facts
SHOUT OUT TO EVERYONE WHO STILL TRIES TO GET BACK INTO THE SWING OF THINGS AFTER DEPRESSION HIT THEM HARD. THERE ISN’T ENOUGH RECOGNITION FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO KNOW THAT THEY’RE GOING TO LOSE INTEREST AND MOTIVATION AGAIN BUT PUSH THEMSELVES TO DO STUFF ANYWAYS. YOU ARE FIGHTING A DAILY BATTLE WITH YOUR OWN THOUGHTS AND YOU’RE STILL COMING OUT ON TOP, YOU’RE ALL BRAVE AS FUCK
courage was named courage even though he was cowardly bc he still did what he had to do despite being scared and that’s true courage
your anxiety is lying to you. you are loved and going to be okay.
gods i fucking cried
Make your dreams a priority. Make your mental health a priority. Make your relationships a priority. Make your happiness a priority. Make yourself a priority.
Building Self-Esteem when you’re Struggling with Depression
1. Get into the habit of challenging your thinking – especially when it falls into the same old repeated, negative patterns.
2. Keep a thankfulness journal – and deliberately look for the good things in your life.
3. Spend time with people who can see your strengths, and who make you feel good about yourself.
4. Keep some photos or mementos that remind you of your passions – so theses can help inspire you to love your life again.
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Am doing all four of these not simultaneously but with some survival skill
Hmm… I’ve got a lot of work ahead of me. Hope I’ll have the energy because I sure as hell don’t at this moment.
Being lonely doesn’t mean you’re unloved.
friendly reminder: cliche as it is, healing takes time. things will be very different in a year, five years, ten years from now. keep going
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20 Self Love Affirmations
1. “I am beautiful.”
2. “I love and approve of myself.”
3. “I choose to think thoughts that enhance my life greatly.”
4. “I am worthy.”
5. “I accept myself exactly as I am.”
6. “Forgiveness is the door out of my past.”
7. “When I forgive myself, it is easier for me to forgive others.”
8. “I accept that I cannot change anyone but myself.”
9. “My life is constantly improving.”
10. “I understand that in order to grow, change is needed.”
11. “I flow easily with life.”
12. “I am worthy of forgiveness.”
13. “All experiences are opportunities to grow.”
14. “I welcome positive change with ease.”
15. “I am deeply grateful for all of the wonderful people and things in my life.”
16. “I radiate good health.”
17. “I only give my body goodness.”
18. “I trust my intuition.”
19. “I lovingly think in a positive way.”
20. “I am at peace with myself.”
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