How to Feign Your Life is Together
Have a signature accessory, clothing article, make up look, or hair style.
Have a fragrance. Make your hair scents and lotions match your perfume.
Itās okay to dine alone. Bring a book or people watch.
Love your hair. Research the best brands for your hair type and use masks weekly.
Your nails donāt need to be fancy, but keep them maintained.
Stay worldly. Know works of art, artists, designers, films, books, politicians. Spend your lunch break reading the paper or a magazine.
Crying is not a weapon. Itās okay to feel your emotions, but never use them as an excuse to avoid your problems.
Jealousy is boring. Love and appreciate others. If you canāt love them, forget them.
Boost others. Flatter others, but donāt deprecate yourself in the process.
Donāt sulk. Donāt let the whole world know your problems. If you donāt want someone to give their opinion, donāt share your situation.
Your life is between you and the universe. Donāt post your personal matters for others to see.
Donāt emotionally blackmail others. They hurt you? Let them know and then move on. Itās between the two of you and not the world.
Cook dinner. Cook dinner and listen to music, the radio, or a podcast.
Treat yourself to candles and flowers. Be your own cheerleader.
Take naps. Take a cat nap on a Sunday afternoon with the blinds open and the fan on high.
Drink your water, eat your vegetables. Take care of your body.
Never have time to take off your jewelry before bed, but always have time to take off your makeup. Your nighttime skin regime is important.
Mystery is beautiful. You donāt need to reveal much of or about yourself.
Never appear other than as you are. Donāt lie about yourself. Embrace who you are at your core.
