you have this superpower! BUT you have this side-effect
is it worth it?
yes!!
the side effect is bad but ITS WORTH IT
meh it's okay
the side effect makes it unusable/not worth it
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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me

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@arya7stark
you have this superpower! BUT you have this side-effect
is it worth it?
yes!!
the side effect is bad but ITS WORTH IT
meh it's okay
the side effect makes it unusable/not worth it
Results/option I didn't think of
HACKS 5.06 – Quik Scribbl
its so funny seeing a bunch of native new yorkers and los angelians try to fathom what a small town is like "yeah lets meet at the vegan place" there would not be an exclusively vegan restaurant i regret to inform you
i feel like some of yall are overcorrecting in the other direction, maybe its different in other countries but a town of 18 000 for SURE do have a grocery store and a restaurant of some kind
Can confirm. I live in a town of 17,000 and while we do not have a vegan restaurant (the concept of vegetarianism seems foreign to most residents), we do in fact have three grocery stores, an impressive selection of Mexican restaurants, and a few of other options for good measure. Also a weird number of tiny specialty museums.
I have also lived in a town of 2,000 that had multiple restaurants and a grocery store.
i am begging, BEGGING the hr fandom to realize that slavs are people and not unsocialized cave men.
look, i hate russia just as much (more, so much more) than the next guy. i LOVE russia bashing
but post-soviet countries are developed countries. we have towels & hygiene products and we are actually way stricter about cleanliness & self care than the west is.
there is no such thing as a 3-in-1 in eastern europe. we wash our floors on our hands & knees with towels & boiling water. we wear tapachki everywhere around the house. there is a stereotype of slavic women putting on dresses & heals to take out the trash and that stereotype exists for a reason.
i was raised in america and my ukrainian family is horrified by the way westerners live, not the other way around
the hr fandom is obsessed with the notion that ilya would be this frat boy living in filth when that is just unrealistic. he was raised with so much emphasis on cleanliness, he was taught to take care of himself & his image.
being an immigrant & depressed do not make him an animal
he is a slavic man born in russia in the 90s - not only were our slavic mothers cleaning daily/weekly like royalty was coming to visit but they made sure you knew to do it yourself age 4 and up
he would still know how to keep his house clean - not just tidy, squeaky clean - by the time he arrives in boston
biggest fear instilled in us as kids was a messy filthy house and smelling like we have not taken a bath in 2 days
There's a bunch of adhd advice out there that's like "people with adhd tend to work better under deadlines due to the anxiety so here are ways to artificially induce a stress response in order to get you to get work done" and it's like well what if I don't want to be stressed out all the time in order to function
this gold shouldn't stay in the comments
hey loves, I’ve been reading through the comments and loads of people are asking how to not fall into this pattern because that’s all they know. so, here’s some advice from Auntie Pan who’s been in the trenches (stress-caused disabilities and chronic illnesses).
context: grew up in an abusive, controlling home, escaped to uni, had a prolonged mental breakdown, became a teacher and worked in a dysfunctional school with amazing kids and nightmare management for years. I did not realise I have adhd and autism for a long time. (You might even be able to scroll back through this blog to find the time around which I did realise lol.)
ANYWAY, things that have helped me because my body can no longer handle any kind of stress without flaring up:
If you’re doing anything that requires you to do a lot of prep before you begin the actual thing (e.g. cooking, deep cleaning a room, moving house), mise en place. That’s a fancy french way of saying get everything ready before you begin. So if I’m cooking idk spaghetti carbonara, that means fry and chop the bacon, separate the egg yolks from the whites, put water in the kettle, put dry spaghetti into a pan. Once everything’s ready, it reduces the mental load and means I can focus on the actual cooking and any clean up that I can do along the way. H/t to @ms-demeanor for this, you changed my life!
the Might As Well rule. This one works really well for me but you gotta be careful otherwise you’ll get sucked into the Vortex. Basically, let’s imagine you’re in the bathroom, brushing your teeth. You notice that the extra roll of toilet paper has been used. instead of thinking, “I’ll get to that later”, and then forgetting about it until you sit down on the bog (no judgement, we’ve all been there), you think “Might As Well put an extra roll while I’m here!” This tends to help with the little tasks that build up over time. This Does Not Work for big tasks.
Leading on from no.2, Do It Immediately/ASAP really helps me too. My current boss will email me on a Friday and say, ‘don’t reply to this now! Leave it til monday!’ But she and i both know that if i leave it til monday, I will forget and get stressed and this will make me Very Ill. So, instead, the moment i receive the email, I’ll either schedule in replying to it as soon as I’m done with my current thing, OR I’ll reply to it immediately.
Anything that can’t be actioned immediately, i mark as Unread. Anything Unread in my inbox is a future action, and i check those Unread emails/texts/whatevers Every. Day. To make sure whether today is the day i have the info to action it. (This also means i have to stay on top of my inbox. I read all my emails and then mark them accordingly. I’m also brutal with unsubscribing)
The House Always Wins. Both in a literal sense, because i am in a constant battle with keeping my house clean, and i know now that I’ll never get it as clean as i want it. It’s impossible, i no longer have the energy or stamina to vacuum and scrub everything. But also just in a life sense. I’m never going to achieve things to perfection, and perfect is the opposite of done. And getting things done is that much more important when you have limited energy and strength. Accept that you often have to half-arse life in order to Full-Arse the few things that really matter to you.
Have multiples of everything, everywhere. I wear support gloves, so i need to have handcream at every sink and everywhere i sit down in the house. I try to keep it unobtrusive, but it means i don’t have to trek upstairs just to moisturise my hands. Gum, phone chargers, pens and pencils, water bottles, hand sanitizer, whatever you need.
Work with people, even if it’s online. Body doubling actually works. Also I’ve found that if I’m working on assignments, taking myself to a library or study area that isn’t my bedroom helps so much.
Show off! Tell people on here or elsewhere in your life about the fact that you’ve just written 100 words! Or that you’ve cleaned the fridge and that’s a really big deal for you. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small.
Basically, you’re aiming to reduce the mental load as much as possible. Wear the same types of clothes all the time to minimise the amount of laundry. Eat the same three lunches so decision fatigue doesn’t take over.
All of this takes time to implement and it is cumulative, but i hope it helps. Reading the comments on this post, i finally understand why adhd is comorbid with so many other conditions. let’s take care of each other <3
I'm so glad to hear that helped you!
For anybody looking for resources from someone dealing with actual ADHD, I have an incomplete but ever growing list of ADHD tips, tools, and suggestions on my website.
A lot of the pages on that site are adapted from my tumblr posts, for instance I'm adapting this post about car repair projects with ADHD into a guide on project management and completion with ADHD.
(Red links are stuff that I've got planned but haven't published for reasons that are probably clear to anyone looking for ADHD advice online)
A 15-year-old boy is about to base his entire personality on the last movie you watched for the next 10 years. HOW BAD IS IT?
He is going to get himself killed. Badly.
He is going to (try to) kill himself
The most obnoxious person in the world has just been born
FURRY (derogatory)
FURRY (normal)
Not much has changed? But now he's stuck like this for 10 years? Yikes.
It's cringe but it could have been a lot worse
At least he'll have fun at Comic Con
If anything this is a slight improvement.
He's not a boy anymore. He's a man now.
She's not a boy anymore. She's a girl now.
FINALLY, a son I can be proud of!
This is the best one
Shocking no one, the gay one from N'Sync just upped the game on the meme.
We put glow collars on the dogs when we walk them at night, and it is Extremely™️ effective on Boswell
im obsessed
oh, of course. because he died for our sins.
Unmute !
Australian bird calls come in two predominant flavours: wonderful, unique calls and songs that you’ll never hear anywhere else, and just straight up screaming.
The Kookaburra manages to ride the line between them.
reblogging this to add that I often think about the old man yaoi mangaka on bluesky who said "the phrase that finally convinced me that the English language is truly beautiful was 'this shit is so ass'"
all outta shits = can't be arsed
Lost in Translation; Found in Vibes
The difference between Gaga, iQIYI, and Viki's jokes for Wishing upon the Shooting Stars' scene in episode four since they're not actual translations but a vibe.
Gaga:
Do you know why the scarecrow won an award? Because he was outstanding in his field.
Do you know what you call a lazy kangaroo? Pouch Potato.
Flashback
One day, Ming and Hua were driving near a cliff. Ming told Hua, "U-turn!" Hua yelled back, "No, you turn!" And then he drove off the cliff.
Do you know what you call a penguin in the desert? Lost. Because it's lost.
Why did the bicycle fall over? Because it was two-tired?.
iQIYI:
Do you know why the guards are always chuckling? They're standing at the chuckling (checking) point.
What illness does Judy get if she works too hard? Jaundice (Judy's) disease.
Flashback
One day, Xiaoming and Xiaohua were riding horses. Halfway through, Xiaoming shouted, "Rein in, rein in!" Then Xiaohua said, "it's not raining!" Then, he fell off the cliff.
Why do penguins always look so smart? Because they're always wearing suits.
Do you know the color of toilet paper? not answered in show
Why did the phone go to therapy? Because it had too many hang-ups.
Viki:
Do you know why the campus security is always laughing? Because he's caught a funny bug.
What will Judy get if she works too hard? A Judy good time in the hospital.
Flashback
One day, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hua went horse riding. While they were riding, Xiao Ming told Xiao Hua, "Hey, hold on!" After that, Xiao Hua told Xiao Ming, "Yeah, I'm holding my horses!" And then, he fell off a cliff.
What will happen to penguins if they run out of breath? They'll start asking "Waddle I do?"
What do toilet papers love to do? Roll on!
Whose house doesn't have a telephone lines? Seashells, because they use shell phones.
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It wasn't until Viki's translations did I realize the past jokes were overlapping with the current jokes because "roll on!" was shouted (in the past) AFTER the telephone joke was asked (in the present).
I'll update with the Youku jokes when I get them.
I want to go to this exact point and run around it saying “I’m in Sweden!” I’m in Finland!” “I’m in Norway!” until I get tired
i aspire to great things in life
According to Google Maps, that point is in the middle of a small lake.
So we’ll do it in January when it’s frozen.
actually that’s why they’ve helpfully dropped a big-ass cement block with a bridge surrounding it in the middle of the lake: for the express purpose of doing what OP aspires to do
there’s so much beauty in the world.
There’s also a point like this which connects Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands!
They even made a circle there which tells you in which country you are
And the tripoint of Slovakia-Austria-Hungary 👋😊
the tripoint of czechia, slovakia and poland is just A Rock In A Ditch lmao
:->
adhd gothic
you want to watch a movie. you put it on. two hours have passed. you haven’t watched the movie. there are five new tasks in front of you. you want to watch a different movie.
there is an object in your hand. it is extremely important you don’t lose it. you look down. there is nothing in your hand.
you don’t know your friend’s name. you’ve been friends for months. they just told you their name. you do not know their name.
your friend doesn’t laugh at your joke. why didn’t they laugh? do they hate you? they assure you otherwise. you know they are lying. did they ever like you?
someone asks you what you just said. did you say something? you said so many things. you said nothing. you said everything.
there is something you’re forgetting. you check. you check again. there is nothing you’re forgetting. there is something you’re forgetting.
you had something to say. you can’t remember. it was important. wasn’t it? you can’t remember.
there is a task that needs to be done. it should take ten minutes. you check the clock. it’s been five minutes. you check the clock. it’s been two days.
I have never had my hourly life experiences called out like this before and I don’t know if I like it. 🫠