Ash

pronouns: they/it/she. please use fem terms for me, queer dumbass 18+ < our age

[ash-the-tiefling]

hi our name is ash

our pronouns are they/it/she i prefer they/them and it/its tho

Ask box rules: No transphobia or homophobia will be tolerated on this blog

DNI: nsfw blogs, people who are homophobic, people who are transphobic, people who are anti-endogenic systems, christians(most of you are kinda dicks tbh we know some arent but alot of you are like a large majority of the ones weve met online are)

DO NOT INTERACT: MEN, PEOPLE WHO SUPPORT TRANSMISOGYNISTS AND PEOPLE WHO BELIEVE IN TRANSANDROPHOBIA(this one technically falls on the same thing as the last thing mentioned before this one but added it separately for clarifications sake)

i got this many boops on halloween

[abonethrownfromthevoid]

Losing my mind over this

[softservewidow]

Never forget these two queens putting on the most showstopping tiktok of all time

[type-o-philia]

Is a dark benefactor too much to ask for? Sigh... a dark benefactor with feeling tendrils and seeking eyes? No?

[type-o-philia]

This one didn't get any credit and that's not fair. You don't love a mysterious eldritch patron?

[type-o-philia]

Is a dark benefactor too much to ask for? Sigh... a dark benefactor with feeling tendrils and seeking eyes? No?

[type-o-philia]

This one didn't get any credit and that's not fair. You don't love a mysterious eldritch patron?

[juliathehomestucklover1709]

Homestuck ship arts

[windyshade]

prospit kids werewolvews derse kids vampires you agree

[mariamlovesyou]

OK I'm in the pussy 👍. Now what

[albertnatural]

Extract the artifact and get out of there STAT!

[thenewborndeity]

[divineobject919]

[transientmelody]

[ign1ted-ember71]

[demilypyro]

i cant be dommed i'm too afraid of vulnerability

[demilypyro]

"willingly relinquishing control" haha youre funny

[demilypyro]

"you're a good girl it's okay" you are trying to hurt me stay back

[demilypyro]

just tell me to kill myself

[demilypyro]

JUST TELL ME TO KILL MYSELF

[demilypyro]

I'M A NORMAL GIRL I'M NORMAL

[demilypyro]

i. uh... yea? i guess it would be?... i mean that sounds nice. validating but not threatening

[piratesexmachine420]

[demilypyro]

ALRIGHT

[shubbabang]

its not funny but i do think about it a lot

[dikdikpronouncedxylophone]

This made me think about this panel from Calvin and Hobbes:

But unlike the adult in this strip, Calvin’s dad actually APOLOGIZED for yelling at him when he saw how guilty his kid was:

[storyweavingspider]

For the Black folks here who (rightfully) don’t use Facebook: over on Facebook yesterday apparently several “white only” groups got raided by tens of thousands of us bc klansmen don’t know how to set group controls 😭 I been howling laughin over this shit it made my night

[storyweavingspider]

UPDATE:

KKKrackers keep making new groups but not fixing the settings so we keep flooding the new ones too it’s still ongoing. I’m fuckin dying 😭😭😭

[storyweavingspider]

P L E A S E every time I open Facebook there’s an evolution to the situation!!! Out here on some Black KKKlansman shit to keep getting in and fucking around 😭

EDIT: I forgot to add the photo oop

[yestozidk]

Ngl lie this is the best one

[ladymavet]

I'm fucking hysterical, this is so funny

[ladymavet]

UPDATE

BULLYING WORKED!!!!!!!!!!!!

[radicalgraff]

"Welcome to Genocide Nation. Land Back"

Seen in the Northern Territory of so-called Australia where protesters from around the continent are converging to demand the closure of Pine Gap, a US spy base which has operated since 1966.

[jewag-only]

can nana even talk didn’t she date her moms boyfriend

[flowery-guy]

ralsei coming out to susie & kris and susie says “oh yeah i already know.” and ralsei is like ?????? and susie goes “flowery told me.”

[cherryhatter-deactivated2015072]

KICK THE CAN!

Let’s play the biggest game of kick the can on the internet.

To kick the can, reblog it. I wanna see how long this can go on for.

[visibun]

the oldest reblogs for this post that i can find are from january 2nd of 2013. this can has been getting kicked around tumblr for almost 13½ years now

[drtanner]

And yet somehow this is my first time kicking it!

[calamity-corner]

no afab baby you don't have a "transfem headmate" words mean things

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

counterpoint this does happen with fictives quite frequently

[calamity-corner]

counterpoint: still not what transfem means

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

yeah lets not do pluralphobia in our transfeminism

[calamity-corner]

i'm plural, dumbass, i just know what words mean! being "bodily transfem" is the only way to be transfem because we all exist in a body! if a member of a system is a girl and the body they all share was afab then she's cis! because that's what the words mean. i don't care about vibes i care about material realities and there isn't one in which a headmate in an afab body has the lived experience of being transfem, and vice versa.

if she's not speaking "as a transfem", and she's not "bodily transfem", then what the fuck are we even doing here. "trans woman" isn't a different gender from "cis woman", they're both just women. you are very clearly misunderstanding that and that's transmisogyny my friend. there is no gotcha you can catch me in here, you're just wrong. it's okay to be wrong it's just an opportunity to learn. or you can dig your heels in and keep doing transmisogyny, your choice.

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

you know being an asshole to someone is not a great way to get them to listen to you.

[calamity-corner]

lol. lmao even. tone police her after not listening the first two times, that tracks

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

shit like this is why i hesitate to fully commit to transfeminism. some of yall are so assholish about such petty things that do not matter. were literally being systematically killed by a surveillance state but no lets go after headmates who have a different experience with something as complicated and nuanced as plurality.

i generally agree with the movement but jesus christ learn when to just leave it be.

[calamity-corner]

there it is! "a feminist was too much of a bitch to me so that's why i'm bot a feminist" give a big round of applause folks we got there

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

i literally just said i agree with the movement but dislike the community but reading is hard ig :/

[calamity-corner]

what you said was "i hesitate to fully commit to feminism because some feminists are assholes" but reading your own words is hard ig :/

[shehellonmyspawntilisister]

i hesitate to fully commit to the transfeminism community because ive seen extremely widespread opinions on both plural people and mixed people that are fucking apalling.

[calamity-corner]

i just don't know how else to explain to you that someone who is a girl in a body that was afab is cis, definitionally. whether she's a headmate or not, it doesn't matter. "transgender woman" isn't a gender, it's a relationship to womanhood that is based in a lived experience, one that someone afab does not have. do you argue about letting white people talk about being "racialized" because they're plural too? do you hesitate to commit to antiracism because some people are just too mean about white people's headmates? i can't stress enough again that i am a plural transfem. but the headmates i have who are men are, shock horror, not trans men. because our body was not afab, and regardless if whether you're a fictive or a factive or an introject or what, you only have the lived experience of the body you live in. that's how being alive works. this doesn't have to be so hard.

[folly-of-alexandria]

Someone assigned female at birth cannot have a "transfem headmate" anymore than a white person can have a"black headmate"

[boxheadpaint]

had a bad low blood pressure moment last night and messily asked my partner for saltines and water before realizing i should probably ask for the Blood Pressure Medication I Need To Take. while they went to go grab it though i still had water and crackers so in a daze i took a swig of water but didnt swallow and then tried to cram 2 saltines in my mouth. full of water. in bed. with mouth full of water

[boxheadpaint]

[spidermanifested]

Boxhead Devouring Two Saltines, 2024