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@ashelly80
Guess who has FL?
Ok y'all! I was scared to lose everyone so I have a Fetlife as ashelly80 and MeWe as somuch fun. I didn't feel comfortable with MeWe because it already tried to connect me to people I know IRL. I will possibly do a bdsmlr page instead. I'll play it by ear. I'll do my best to keep the same name wherever I go! Hope you come with me! 😘
December 17th - a rescue plan
Some good news, I’ve been talking to two developers now and got them working together, we just had a meeting with the guys behind an existing large (millions of users) site similar to Tumblr, with a vibrant and open-minded community, and more importantly, it has open-minded owners who believe in free speech. They think we can get something done here to rescue the whole community.
I’m not allowed to reveal the site name yet. I can tell you it’s mainstream, open to everyone, open-minded and welcoming. (It’s not WordPress or any site owned by Facebook or Twitter. It’s not Pillowfort, that’s in closed beta. It’s not Ello, that’s mainly for artists. It’s not kinkspace or fetlife, those are too specialist. It’s not jux, that seems to be closed. It’s not Soup, that seems still in development and too small.)
One of the reasons for delaying the announcement for next few days is they don’t want a “land grab” where people take the names of current popular Tumblr users over there (cyber squatting). So they are looking at ways for existing Tumblr users to keep the same names on the new site.
More info over the days to come.
The plan is, broadly:
1. By December 9th, announcement of the new site and how to secure your username there
2. By December 10th, an online tool for bloggers to copy their existing content to the new site automatically, with the same tags and captions.
3. Bloggers will need to copy their content across between December 10th and December 17th if they want to use the automatic tool.
4. My understanding is that after December 17th there will be no public access to any “flagged” posts on Tumblr, but the original poster will still be able to see the flagged post (for a short time at least). Therefore, the original poster may still be able to manually download a post to their own PC or phone, after December 17th, and manually upload it to the other site. But if you have lots of posts that will take a long time, it will be better to use the automatic tool before December 17th.
Please understand that these dates are approximate and may change for technical or other reasons.
There may be a few rough edges or not so perfect looking site design on the transfer tool. Everyone is doing their best. The main goal here is to help as many people as possible preserve access to their content, in the short space of time Tumblr has allowed us, and preserve as much as possible of the Tumblr community spirit somewhere new.
The new site will cater for photo, GIF, text and html posts. It will not offer video and audio posts, due to cost reasons - maybe in future, but for now you will need to preserve video and audio content yourself in some other place.
If your Tumblr blog has a mixture of original content and reblogs, or all reblogs, all of that can be copied over to the new site. Reblogs will become “your” original content if nobody else posted them yet, otherwise they will be shown as reblogs. The devs are looking at ways to preserve attribution of reblogs back to the original Tumblr poster, if that person also moves to the new site.
Important: your Likes cannot be copied from Tumblr to the new site. You will have to go find the same posts again on the new site, and like them afresh.
(Similarly, existing reblog comments, asks, messages and other user interaction on Tumblr cannot be copied to the new site - that’s just too much to do, in the short time available.)
If you want to preserve any of your existing Liked posts on Tumblr, you will need to either: (1) download the post to your own PC, or: (2A) reblog it now to your own Tumblr blog, and then (2B) use the automatic tool, before December 17th, to move your whole Tumblr blog across to the new site.
If you have Liked a lot of posts here on Tumblr, the gridllr.com webapp should be able to help you do steps 1 and 2A quickly, I mean download or reblog.
(Someone complained to me today about the appearance of Gridllr on a phone. It’s best to use Gridllr on a PC, Mac or Tablet with a large screen.)
If you have liked a post here on Tumblr and the original poster decides to delete it, or even to delete their entire blog, some time before December 17th, then that post will be permanently lost. So if you want to be sure to preserve any of your Liked posts, you should best download or reblog as soon as possible. If it’s reblogged to your own blog it is safe from deletion, at least for next few days.
Obviously, you will lose access, after December 17th, to all past posts you have liked, if Tumblr has flagged them as NSFW. Again, the steps (1), or (2A) and (2B) covered above will be the only way to hold on to these posts.
Oh I so hope this works. It would be great to get this out so we can try to get as many people as possible all back in one place and not split up all over different platforms.
Please reblog
Think this is where I am going. MeWe is what it's called I believe. Not 100% yet, but likely!
Where to now??
I haven't decided what my plans will be, if I even continue this journey. Please feel free to let me know where you are headed. I'm not a tech savvy person so, anything I use must be simple! I'm hoping to decide on one over the weekend and get one started so I can share it before we disappear! If nothing else, I have had fun on this journey and I appreciate the amazing smiles and confidence you have given me, along with those that managed to make it into my "real life". I never imagined all of this from some dirty pics! Anyway, love you bunches! Let me know where you are going and I will try and decide. 😘😘😘
The Truth About Kinky Women
This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.
You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. That’s wonderful.
Let me ask you something:
Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says “I’m a guy. I’m looking for a girl. If you’re a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?”
Suppose you’re into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say “I’m a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and I’m looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.”?
Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say “Hey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?”
Every time you post on here asking for people to “help you out,” that’s exactly what you’re doing.
You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, she’s somehow different from a “normal” woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.
Submissives aren’t submissive to everyone
You’ll hear submissives say “I’m submissive, but I’m not your submissive.” No matter how many times you’ve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.
Kinky women are not whores
Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them “whore,” but they’re not sex workers. They’re not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)
Kinky women are not easy
Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.
Kinky women are not objects
Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.
Kinky women have feelings
Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, she’ll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?
The Truth About Kinky Women by Septimus1812 is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported License.
A good read
I've been very lucky that most anyone who has written to me has been respectful. However, there are douchebags that don't seem to understand the basic concept of manners or respect. There have been a handful or two that have been blocked. Just thought I'd share this for educational purposes and as a way to say thank you for those who have been respectful. You know who you are because I actually respond to you.
My Goatmilker cups
To all hucows out there - what do you think? Wanna become milked by me and my portable goat milker? Like to see more? Then please reblog. All female followers are encouraged to send me pictures of their udders.
What do y'all think? I really would love these Industrial suction cups on me! You can't have tits like mine and not use them to their full potential right?
A message from Bessie to our readers:
I am a Hucow who is grateful for her Farmer. He not only trains me, teaches me, encourages me, but he also nurtures my growth. Yes sometimes RL gets in the way of our plans/goals. I would much prefer to be kept in my pen, bred/milked all day, or sent to pasture to be bred by bulls of my Farmer’s choosing. But sadly we both have life responsibilities. Yet my Farmer is always there when i need encouragement or a gentle reminder. I am a lucky girl. I have a Farmer, a Daddy, a partner, a trainer, and a Dom all in one. So thank you Sir for always allowing me the opportunity to fulfill your desires and mine through your hand. Under His Eye!
Soooooo jealous!
“Here you are, so full of goodness and the arms you crave do not hold you, and you blame yourself, you think you it is because you aren’t enough. Stop. This isn’t true. You see, the truth is you are so enough and so good that not everyone was built to deserve you. Not everyone has the capacity to understand the magnitude of your enough.”
— Nikita Gill
“Human beings are funny. They long to be with the person they love but refuse to admit openly. Some are afraid to show even the slightest sign of affection because of fear. Fear that their feelings may not be recognized, or even worst, returned. But one thing about human beings puzzles me the most is their conscious effort to be connected with the object of their affection even if it kills them slowly within.”
—
Sigmund Freud
Sound, well thought-out advice
i’m trying so hard to give up 100% of control. I think then…is when I’ll finally reach subspace
@lil-miss-curious It absolutely will be. you’ll have no more cares or worries, just blissful numbness.
Probably not quite what you WANT, more like what you NEED… Or something. Maybe. It’s worth a try tho’ - isn’t it?
Good luck.
☝️☝️
True!!
Tips for faceslapping women
- Find her tolerance limit: First hit her softly and then gradually increase the force of each slap if you see she can take it. - Always make her close her mouth before the slap to avoid her teeth cutting inside her mouth during the slap. - Always hit her in the jaw. Never close to the ear (audition loss hazard), nose (bleeding nose harzard) or eyes. Any hit above the cheekbone (around the eye) will give her a black eye. - If you wanna slap her hard in one cheek, then is useful to support her other cheek with your other hand. This is done to avoid a strong “whiplash effect” on her head. -Avoid slapping her as a punishment/discipline. She has a fatty butt and some sensitive thighs that can be used for that purpose. Those are much safer to hit than her face. Use them. - Never slap her with anger.
A good slap puts a naughty girl immediately in her place. It makes her shut up immediately so it’s really effective against a back-talking girl. Normally it brings instant tears of submission. But it can be a severe tool, so it must be used with care.
Remember: Women are delicate beings and they are easy to break. Better play with your toys without breaking them… so you can keep on playing!
Cheers
;-)
Javier
Boost. This is actually a pretty good primer on slapping, something one doesn’t often see addressed.
D/s vs Vanilla
A collection of observations from My personal experience in having been involved in both D/s and vanilla relationships or having observed the behavior of others. As a disclaimer, I am in no way “defining” right or wrong behavior. All relationships are unique. All Dominants and submissives are different. Your experience(s) and observation(s) may be different from Mine.
Leaves for work in the morning…
Vanilla: (Light peck on the cheek) “Have a nice day, Hon.”
D/s: (Passionate embrace, perhaps even tongue exploring) “Meet you back here at 6pm, Babe!”
Walking down the sidewalk…
Vanilla: Anyone’s guess who takes the curb side.
D/s: Dominant takes the curb; submissive takes the wall. Always!
Walking together anywhere…
Vanilla: Maybe hand holding… but not likely.
D/s: Dominant holds submissive’s hand (with his on top and hers underneath), or places hand in the small of her back or on the nape of her neck. Alternatively, submissive locks arms at the elbow. Or dual arm around waist embrace.
Getting things done…
Vanilla: “I’ll get around to it.”
D/s: “It will be done today.”
Working though an issue…
Vanilla : “What’s wrong with you?”
D/s: “Have I made you upset?”
Deciding where to go for dinner…
Vanilla: “Where would you like to go?”
D/s: “We are going (here) tonight.”
Having dinner in a restaurant…
Vanilla: Your phone has your undivided attention.
D/s: Your partner has your undivided attention.
Clearing the dinner table of stacked dirty dishes…
Vanilla: Everyone fends for himself or herself.
D/s: Stacked dishes are heavy. Dominant carries dirty dishes from table to kitchen.
Expressing disappointment…
Vanilla: … … … … (withdraw with silent treatment).
D/s: “I am unhappy with you and here is why.”
Giving a compliment…
Vanilla: “You look nice tonight.”
D/s: (Grabs her ass and pulls her in close). “You are so Mine!”
Walking up stairs…
Vanilla: Parties walk side by side or random determination who leads.
D/s: Dominant walks behind submissive so that He can help her if she trips and stumbles.
Walking down stairs…
Vanilla: Parties walk side by side or random determination who leads.
D/s: Dominant walks in front of submissive so that she can brace herself on Him if she trips and falls.
Approaching a building door…
Vanilla: Whoever gets there first opens the door.
D/s: submissive waits for Dominant to open all doors. Always!
Entering of exiting a vehicle…
Vanilla: Everyone fends for himself or herself
D/s: submissive sits patiently in vehicle and waits for Dominant to exit vehicle and walk around to open her door.
Investment in the relationship…
Vanilla : Both partners give 50-50, at best. More likely it is 75-25.
D/s: Both partners give 100-100; otherwise D/s doesn’t work.
Sex…
Vanilla : “Honey, can we have sex tonight?”
D/s: “I want you now. Get undressed and go wait for me. Now!”
Orgasms…
Vanilla: She fakes them half the time.
D/s: She climaxes at Dominant’s discretion.
Falling asleep…
Vanilla: “Good night, Hon.” (rolls over and goes to sleep)
D/s: “I am so in love with you. Come here; I want to feel you next to me as I sleep.”
Saturday mornings…
Vanilla: Get out of bed immediately upon waking.
D/s: Take in your partner as they sleep. Plan your day while in bed together.
Accountability for personal behavior…
Vanilla: Little to none, particularly over time.
D/s: An absolutely requisite all the time.
-IADD🌪 (© May 10, 2018)
Absolutely have to agree with the D/s part ❤
Love this post.
Perfect! 💕
Perfect comparison. That’s what I love, switching between vanilla and D/S
Love!!! I got a taste of this and I am wanting more!
I'm a needy Dom
The more I read posts by submissive girls about their fear of being needy and the stigma that’s attached to it, the more I realize I need to say this…
I’m a needy Dom.
I need her to text me repeatedly until I respond because she can’t wait to share something with me.
I need to hear the excitement in her voice when she hears mine.
I need her undeniable devotion.
I need her to recognize the things I do for her.
I need her to need me.
I need her to pay attention to my likes/dislikes just as much as I pay attention to hers.
I need to feel her love. Consistently.
I need HER. Every bit of her. Her deepest, darkest corners. Her sharp edges. Her weaknesses.
I need her naked soul.
Wow. Love this.
Missing
I've got a lot going on in life right now. My headaches are back and after 5 brain surgeries, they are no joke. Bear with me guys I'll start posting again soon!
Humans are bad at most things. Love, relationships, parenting, holding ourselves together, being dependable. But there is one thing we are so good at, that we are in fact, spectacular at it. We are all so damned good at being broken open. It’s how the light gets out. It’s how we know it’s there. Because once in a while, someone comes along who tells us life is so much more than just existing. Someone comes along to remind us, to stop being so small and so human. And do better by being so much more.
Nikita Gill, The Light (After Iain S. Thomas)
