You Don't Know Me

She/Her. Technically an adult but.... I like reading and writing.

[slimegargoyle]

oh and since I’m acknowledging how young you all are: never ever ever ever ever ever under any circumstances alter your educational decisions for a boy 

[simon-lemon]

Even if it’s your father.

[witchoil]

Especially if it’s your father.

[aw-hawkeye-no]

If you’re ever too nervous to comment on fanfics, please look at some of the absolute nonsense I leave people:

First there’s weird reactions to smut:

Sometimes I like to keep the author updated on how I’m doing while I’m reading the fic:

Other times I make astute observations:

Then there’s whatever the fuck this is:

Admittedly half of these weird comments are due to the fact that I like to drink wine and read fanfic at 2 AM, but the point is don’t be embarrassed to leave dumbass comments because I 100% guarantee the author will love it regardless. 

[queerspeculativefiction]

Speaking as an author, these are the best comments. Quality A+!

[drst]

OK now I want to write something that makes people comment “hot diggity dog”  on it.

[ekjohnston]

I tend to review an author’s entire body of work in increasingly incoherent ALL CAPS, and tbqh, I have made some of my best friends this way.

[yourcosmiccat-deactivated201808]

Vintage Lesbian Comic

[ashlynncoy-blog]

“I’m a little plumpish” has just entered my vocabulary

[ashlynncoy-blog]

Like... I get it-

I get why people say “TERF is not a slur.” I do. I understand why that’s said the way it’s said and I’m never going to tell another queer person how to use their vocabulary.

But

To me

TERF *is* a slur. I treat it like a slur. 

If I call you a TERF, you had better believe it’s an insult. 

And TERFs deserve to be called by it. Don’t want to be called an asshole? Don't be an asshole. Don’t want to be called a TERF? There’s a REALLY easy way to keep that from happening.

[curseworm]

the secret cheat code for women is realizing you dont have to date men

[curseworm]

this doesnt just go for lesbians it goes for bi women and straight women too. i cant even count how many times straight women have told me “i wish i was a lesbian so i didnt have to date men” but guess what … u Dont have to date men 

[curseworm]

to be clear this also isnt necessarily saying ‘go date women instead!!’ its just saying…. u dont have to date men. u dont have to be dating women in order to not date men! in fact if ur not attracted to women at all please dont date women just as a substitute for men. but if dating men isnt making u happy… u dont have to do that. u dont have to make a space in ur life for men

[chiaralbart]

Happy international  trans day of visibility 💜

[wilwheaton]

#Repost @namicommunicate ・・・ We’re all just doing our best. It’s okay to take your time to figure things out! Via @crazyheadcomics https://www.instagram.com/p/ByETWrlB7qB/?igshid=1n3pf6svixlew

[galaxysedginess]

Has this been done yet?

[ashlynncoy-blog]

Pablo Hidalgo, Lazer Sword Enthusiast on Twitter

“@Bk2Jakku That doesn’t fit with the timeline. Han and Leia were together up until about 5 years before TFA when it all went to hell, and Re

Pablo doing good work debunking the "Rey is Han's kid because he cheated" bologna

[ashlynncoy-blog]

As teased last week. Another Han Solo back rub in the Hoth era. 

[ashlynncoy-blog]

Just a reblog

[ashlynncoy-blog]

So, on the one hand, I don't like shipping real people.

But on the other hand, my heart needs Brooke & Vanjie to be endgame.

[dirtyrobotfricker]

LIFEHACK TO GET ARTISTS TO DRAW FOR YOU

Find their commissions page and give them money

[iopele]

this hack really works, it’s real, I’ve done it

[wilwheaton]

(via It’s been past time. : BlackPeopleTwitter)

[marvel-lous-things]

Bartender: thanks for stopping that bar fight, spiderman. Can I get you a drink? It’s on the house

Peter: thank you, but I can’t

Bartender: why not

Peter:

Bartender:

Peter, trying not to give his age away: I’m pregnant

[eldritchcannon]

Bartender, shook: oh, congratulations, boy or girl?

Peter, now in full-on panic mode: it’s an uh, spider

[moonbeamdagger]

I’m seeing stuff in the notes about “Miles would do this” and I just want to say: you’re absolutely right. All Spider-folks across all universes share one (1) singular brain cell and most of the time it’s Gwen’s.

[seananmcguire]

As the current author of Spider-Gwen, I can attest that Gwen has not seen the brain cell in years.

[ashlynncoy-blog]

This is so pure

[suzukiblu]

I wish you'd write a fic where R2 disables Vader in ESB before the fight in Cloud City and drags him to the Falcon, ranting that its time to come back to his real family.

Every Stormtrooper is duly alarmed when R2 drags Vader off by the cape. Palpatine is ESPECIALLY alarmed. That’s HIS apprentice! 

R2 will fight you, old man. R2 will fucking FIGHT you. 

[ashlynncoy-blog]

Meanwhile Lando and Boba Fett are having dinner with Han, Leia, & Chewie and waiting for Vader to make some very in-character, super dramatic entrance. Only he never does. They just... have dinner. It's totally normal-like.

[gaypeopletwitter]

[democrips]

fake conversations in your head of you venting to someone

[blandyblaugh-deactivated2018121]

working through trauma by yelling at no one while driving alone

[dandelionpuppy]

validating yourself by imagining situations where bad things happen to people and you save them

[solarpunksoftie]

reinforcing trust in your loved ones by imagining situations where bad things happen to you and they save you

[galaxies-of-apple-trees]

Explaining things to your therapist in an imaginary session

[rootfauna-deactivated20180326]

Projecting all your trauma onto an imaginary character and imagining others comforting them

[strangerinsidethetardis]

Wanting fictional characters to have all the emotional support and physical affection you’ve always wanted

[thatoneanimefangirl365]

Writing a character that goes through the same troubles as you and give them loving family and friends to help them cope