Hello! I'm quite new to tumblr so I'm still trying to figure things out here, I hope I'm welcomed here.
My name is Ashy and I am an alter in a system that will mostly run this account so I might not be super active all the time on here, just a heads up!
This blog is dedicated to terms and flags that I've created that I might want to share! I know my blog is called "ashys-mogai" but I might post terms and flags here that aren't mogai related. But I'm not super sure yet.
I don't take requests! I don't make terms or flags for others as I do this as a fun little hobby and for my system or people I'm close to. I always do it on my own accord.
Please do not ask me to make you flags, I can't do that. I just thought I'd post my flags somewhere because there might be someone out there who might feel the same way! Also, I think my flags are great and they deserve to shine >.<
My do not interact and before you follow/interact and boundaries are all under the cut!
Boundaries!
- Please do not repost my flags anywhere public without my permission
- If you're a minor please don't try to make friends with me. I'm not comfortable with that being an adult. You can definitely still use my flags unless it's nsfw! And you can still interact here, I just don't want to be like friends or "moots" as people say here
- If you do try to interact with me outside of relation to my flags, you need to have at least your general age on your blog so I know if you're an adult
- I already said this but please do not ask me to coin or make a flag for you
BYF/BYI
I am/have:
- A spoony who doesn't have a lot of energy
- A severely disabled person so please don't expect me to be able to make everything aesthetically pleasing 100% of the time
- A DID system so I also have a bad memory. Multiple parts will be running this blog due to safety
- Varying levels of empathy and friendliness due to being a spoony and a pwDID
- I might post some flags that are slightly or completely nsfw. I can't stop you from using them if you're a minor but please know I am extremely uncomfortable with it. All flags that are nsfw will be tagged accordingly
- Keep in mind I happily block freely even if you aren't on my dni for my safety. If I look through your blog and I don't want to interact with you, I won't
!DNI!
- People who support the Israeli government in the genocide of Palestinian people
- (Pro) endos, anyone who claims to be a non disordered system, including mixed origin and all that jazz
- Syscourse in general, please don't bring that here
- Those of you who identify with disorders you DO NOT have and who identify as a race you are NOT and ESPECIALLY those who try to "reclaim" slurs that ARE NOT theirs to reclaim and anyone who supports this blatant bigotry
- Terfs, transmeds, radfems all those types of bigots
- If you contribute to cringe related communities that are known to be ableist, transphobic, homophobic, racist, all the things; for example, specific subreddits that I am not naming due to safety reasons, but iykyk
- Please don't follow me if your main is about discourse of any type if your following list is public
- Please don't follow me if your main is any type of religious blog
- Aspin Frost + fans
- If you are racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, etc. You know who you are
Gender-adjacent is an umbrella term for girl-adjacent, boy-adjacent, enby-adjacent, etc. It is described as your gender being just slightly to the left. It can be used on it's own or combined with other labels.
Coined 06/26/2025
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[Image ID start: Five horizontal striped flag. The stripes' colours from top to bottom are as follows. Dark redish pink, light pastel sky blue, white with a tinge of yellow, pastel pink, and darkish teal green. Image ID end]
Enby-adjacent is described to be "non-binary" but slightly to the left. It's on the neutral-aligned spectrum but the experience cannot just simply be described by the word "enby" or non-binary. This can be paired with other identities or standalone.
Coined 04/20/24
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[Image ID start: Five horizontal striped flag. The stripes' colours from top to bottom are as follows. Dark orangish red, light dirty yellow, white with a tinge of yellow, pastel red/salmon, and darkish yellow green. Image ID end]
Girlboy-adjacent or boygirl-adjacent is described to be a "girlboy" or "boygirl" but slightly to the left of the binaries. The experience cannot just simply be described by the word girlboy or boygirl. This can be paired with other identities or standalone.
Coined 04/20/24
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[Image ID start: Five horizontal striped flag. The flag has two colours on each stripe and the colours look like they make a staircase effect from top left to bottom right. Each stripes colours from top to bottom are as follows. Darkish rose red and darkish yellow green, pastel lilac purple and pastel seafoam green, white with a tinge of pink and white with a tinge of yellowish green, soft pastel pink and soft pastel green, and darkish purple and darkish seafoam green. Image ID end]
Boy-adjacent is described to be a "boy" but slightly to the left. It's on the masc-aligned spectrum but the experience cannot just simply be described by the word boy. This can be paired with other identities or standalone.
Coined 04/20/24
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[Image ID start: Five horizontal striped flag. The stripes' colours from top to bottom are as follows. Darkish yellow green, pastel seafoam green, white with a tinge of yellowish green, soft pastel green, and darkish seafoam green. Image ID end]
Girl-adjacent is described to be a "girl" but slightly to the left. It's on the fem-aligned spectrum but the experience cannot just simply be described by the word girl. This can be paired with other identities or standalone.
Coined 04/20/24
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[Image ID start: Five horizontal striped flag. The stripes' colours from top to bottom are as follows. Darkish rose red, pastel lilac purple, white with a tinge of pink, soft pastel pink, and darkish purple. Image ID end]
Innominate is a name identity described by having no name. This can be because the individual simply doesn't want a name, has no name to begin with, or doesn't identify with any name. Those are only a few examples of how an innominate individual might identify with this term, but there is a wide range of experiences. This can be used by anyone with any gender, sexual, romantic, or platonic identity.
Coined 04/20/24
Alternate flags I made
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[First image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag. The colours from top to bottom are as follows. Dark gray-black, darkish olive green, muted yellow-green, white, muted yellow, yellowish light brown, dark gray-black. The fourth (white) stripe is jagged. First image ID end]
[Second image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag. The colours from top to bottom are as follows. Dark gray-black, darkish olive green, muted yellow-green, white, muted yellow, yellowish light brown, dark gray-black. The fourth (white) stripe is slightly thinner than the other stripes. Second image ID end]
[Third image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag. The colours from top to bottom are as follows. Dark gray-black, darkish olive green, muted yellow-green, white, muted yellow, yellowish light brown, dark gray-black. All of the stripes are jagged. Third image ID end]
Demiagenderflux is a gender identity which describes being agender that fluctuates in intensity.
Coined 04/17/24
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[Image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag. The stripe colours from top to bottom are as follows; Black, gray, white, gradient stripe, white gray, and black. The gradient stripe goes from light gray, sky blue, sea foam green, bright pastel green, to light green. Image ID end]
Solarflormonaric is a xenogender or an aesthetigender relating to monarch butterflies and sunflowers. This gender can feel like sitting in a field of sunflowers with monarch butterflies flying around, but it doesn't necessarily have to. Whatever feels right for you. This can be used as a standalone gender or paired with others.
Coined 04/14/24
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[First image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag with a sunflower and two monarch butterflies surrounding the flower in the middle. Stripe colours from top to bottom go from a gradient of vibrant orange red to a yellow, cream white to the fourth stripe. The fifth to the seventh stripe is a gradient from dark, musky yellow to a warm brown. The sunflower is yellow, while the inside of the flower goes from dark brown to light brown from the inside out. Two green leaves are pointing from the top right and bottom left of the flower. The monarchs are on the bottom right and top left. First image ID end]
[Second image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag with a sunflower and two monarch butterflies surrounding the flower in the middle. Stripe colours from top to bottom go as follows- darker aqua blue, lighter aqua blue, light pastel yellow, darkish brown yellow, light green, dark pine green, and dark brown. The sunflower is yellow, while the inside of the flower goes from dark brown to light brown from the inside out. Two green leaves are pointing from the top right and bottom left of the sunflower. The monarchs are on the bottom right and top left. First image ID end]
Solarflorbeeic is a xenogender or an aesthetigender related to sunflowers and bumblebees. It can also feel like a warm summers day in a field of sunflowers and bumblebees. This can be used as a standalone gender or paired with others.
Coined 04/13/24
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[Image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag with a sunflower in the middle surrounded by two bumblebees. The flower the the middle has exactly twenty-eight petals that are a gradient of darker yellow on the outside to bright yellow on the inside. The inside of the flower has one small circle inside, both circles being a gradient of lighter to dark then dark to light. The flower has two leaves one on the top right and one on the bottom left. Each leaf is a gradient of lighter green on the outside to a darker green on the inside. The bees are on the bottom right and top left of the flower. The bees have black and yellow stripes with white wings. In behind the flower and bees are the seven stripes. The first three stripes (top down) are a striped gradient from dark brownish yellow to lighter golden yellow. The fourth stripe is pastel yellow. The fifth stripe to the seventh stripe is another striped gradient ranging from brown to dark brown. Image ID end]
MLMcurious can be used by itself or alongside other attraction identities. It is a term for anyone who is curious or open about exploring homosexuality for any reason. It does not necessarily mean the individual is currently engaging or wants to engage in these sexual or romantic endeavors, but it can. This can also be used to describe anyone questioning whether they are gay.
Coined 04/03/24
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[Image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag. Stripe one, four, and seven are all the same width while all being twice the width of stripes two, three, five, and six. First stripe is a sea green colour. Second stripe is a lighter sea green. Third is a pastel green. Fourth is white. Fifth is a light sky blue. Sixth is a dark dusty navy blue. And the seventh stripe is a dark dusty purple. ID end]
Lesbicurious can be used by itself or alongside other attraction identities. It is a term for anyone who is curious or open about exploring lesbianism for any reason. It does not necessarily mean the individual is currently engaging or wants to engage in these sexual or romantic endeavors, but it can. This can also be used to describe anyone questioning whether they are a lesbian.
Coined 04/03/24
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[Image ID start: Seven horizontal striped flag. Stripe one, four, and seven are all the same width while all being twice the width of stripes two, three, five, and six. First stripe is a coral colour. Second stripe is a light brownish orange. Third is a dusty pastel orange. Fourth is white. Fifth is a dusty pastel pink. Sixth is a darker dusty purplish pink. And the seventh stripe is a dusty magenta. ID end]
Demisoftboy is a masc-aligned gender that feels slightly like a softboy and slightly something else.
Coined 03/23/24
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[Image ID start: a seven horizontal pastel striped flag. The top stripe (first) is a pastel seafoam green. The second stripe is a lighter pastel seafoam green. The third stripe is a light pastel sky blue. The fourth stripe is white. The fifth stripe is a pastel orange. The sixth stripe is a pastel red. And the seventh stripe is a dusty redish pink. Image ID end]
Ragdollic describes those who identify as a ragdoll cat, with ragdoll cats, or ragdoll cats are incorporated into their identity somehow.
Coined 02/10/24
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[Image ID start: seven horizontal striped flag with a cat paw print in the middle. The stripes from the top (first) to the bottom (seventh) are as follows; darker brownish dusty pink (first), darker cream (second), light dusty pink (third), eggshell white (fourth), darker tan (fifth), dark hazelnut coffee (sixth), darker dusty gray blue (seventh). The paw print is on a slight angle to the right and takes up most of the middle. The paw is a brighter light dusty pink. Image ID end]
Demi-homoromantic miaspec person/demi mlm person is a homoromantic/gay miaspec person who is only romantically attracted to other miaspec people once a close bond has been established.
Flag coined by me 02/05/24
Note: I did not create the definitions or flags for demisexual or mlm. I just wanted a combination of the two flags/definitions. At the time I made this, I could not find another flag like this so if it exists already, sorry!
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[Image ID start: A nine horizontal striped flag with varying sizes of stripes and a black triangle pointing out of the left side. The first three stripes (top down) range from dark coral green (first, top stripe), sea green (second stripe), and light green (third stripe). The fourth, fifth, and sixth stripes are all about two to three times thinner than the rest of the stripes. The fourth stripe is white, fifth is a grass green, and sixth is white. The seventh, eighth, and ninth stripes range from sky blue (seventh stripe), navy blue (eighth stripe), and dark purplish blue (ninth stripe). The triangle takes up almost half of the width of the flag and points straight to the middle (fifth) stripe. Image ID end]
Starynightic is a xenogender related to stars and the deep night sky. This gender feels like a warm and cool summer night surrounded by an abundance of stars. It also feels like the vast vacuum of space with billions upon billions of stars but feels warm and at home.
Coined 01/19/24
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[Image ID one start: A five horizontal striped flag with a horizontal line of seven small stars within the third (or middle) stripe. The first two stripes are both blue. The first (top) stripe is a dark navy blue and the second stripe is a lighter navy blue. The middle stripe is a light blueish-purple. The last two stripes are both hues of purple. The fourth stripe is your typical purple and the last (fifth) stripe is eggplant purple. The stars range as a gradient from darker golden orange on the outsides to bright yellow on the inside. Image ID one end]
[Image ID two start: A five horizontal striped flag with a horizontal line of seven small stars within the third (or middle) stripe. The first two stripes are both blue. The first (top) stripe is a dark navy blue and the second stripe is a lighter navy blue. The middle stripe is a light blueish-purple. The last two stripes are both hues of purple. The fourth stripe is your typical purple and the last (fifth) stripe is eggplant purple. The stars range as a gradient from dark purple on the outsides to light pinkish purple on the inside. Image ID two end]