Hater thought before bed:
I just saw a TikTok post that said why Jason Todd was doomed to fail as a character - by DC writers and how they write him. Some of the points were okay, but the creator was liking comments that were along the lines of Jason needs to stop acting like Bruce ruined his life and Bruce is a loving parent and cares, that a lot what Bruce does is taken out of context, blah blah blah.
And you know what, I'll probably be the minority in this, but I do agree that there is some merit in the idea that Bruce hasn't done everything that has ruined Jason's life, but there are significant things that he's said or done that with or without context make him look bad. And there are insignificant things that he says - something like telling Jason 'you'll be a detective in no time' when he taught him to be one - where it just makes me think, dude where are you? Do you know who you're talking to? To place it solely on Jason's shoulders when Bruce says and does crazy shit to everyone is weird.
Also, I feel like when people engage in discussions about Bruce and Jason, they reduce Bruce's character and complexity. They can't fathom Batman making a mistake when that's the best part of superheroes: they make a mistake, they own up to it, and accept the consequences. Having him as this guy who can do no wrong and having everyone love him so boring. He does make mistakes, but people have such a hard time accepting when he makes mistakes that harm his family when it's such a common thing!
If you look again under that comment section, you will find me - assuming op hasn't deleted it - Where I leave 3 big ass paragraphs talking about Bruce being a mentally ill bitch unfit to be parenting much less fighting crime (and where I bring up my queens Judy, Gloria, and Catherine) . Very funny to me they seem to easily accept that Bruce has OCD of the moral kind specifically but I bet you if I started arguing the possibility of Jasons inconsistency being explained by psychosis or being medicated vs not they would shut it down with a quickness. Also they were talking about Jason watering down Bruce's philosophy like the specifics don't change depending on the writers' whim, and he hasn't cracked down in it WAY more in the last couple decades. They're ALL fucking inconsistent welcome to comic books dumb ass.