An (inclusive) list of French endearments to use in your works
This list can be used by both French-speakers and non-French-speakers; As a French-speaker, it's taken me a while to get accustomed to inclusive speech because it feels really off sometimes, specifically in speech, because the inclusive terms are new words, and not something we've always had in the language (like, for example, the singular they), so this can serve as a guide for that.
Endearments to use when addressing a character who uses feminine terms
Darling -> "Chérie"
My darling -> "Ma chérie"
My darling -> "Ma chérie"
Dear* -> "Chère"
My dear -> "Ma chère"
My dear -> "Ma chère "
My friend -> "Mon amie"
The following two are never used in English but are regularly used in French. I've especially heard it said from parents to their children.
Treasure -> "Trésor"
My treasure -> "Mon trésor"
Endearments to use when addressing a character who uses masculine terms
Darling -> "Chéri"
My darling -> "Mon chéri"
My darling -> "Mon chéri"
Dear* -> "Cher"
My dear -> "Mon cher"
My dear -> "Mon cher "
My friend -> "Mon ami"
Treasure -> "Trésor"
My treasure -> "Mon trésor"
Regarding characters who use gender-neutral terms
French does not have any official gender-neutral terms. We typically consider the default to be masculine, but this is considered misogynist by many, so some have come up with some gender neutral variants for pronouns and such, but they aren't commonly used all that much. That being said, here are some alternatives to the binary you could explore:
Darling -> "Chéri.e"
My darling -> "Maon/man chéri.e"
My darling -> "Maon/man chéri.e"
Dear* -> For this one specifically, I propose a combination of the feminine and masculine forms; "Chèr"
My dear -> "Maon/man chèr"
My dear -> "Maon/man chèr "
My friend -> "Mon ami.e"
Treasure -> "Trésor"
My treasure -> "Mon trésor"
If you want to further read on inclusivity in French, here's a document I found, written by DiverGenres, going into further detail about inclusive language in French
*: This translation of "dear" can be used both as a noun and an adjective (for instance, you can have A address B by "cher/chère/chèr" or "cher/chère/chèr B")


















