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This is my fucking blog.

I have a horny account but I don’t use it. So watch out.

I’m Nova (she/it), 21, physics Major

I’m not really here to curate a public space so much as I am just reblogging shit I like. Stick around if you’d like.

jadedharleys

maidthings

"this is unbecoming of me" is genuinely a useful thing to have in your mental toolbox

maidthings

Like. you probably shouldn't say it out loud, but if you hold yourself to any principles or standards, you should really really be able to recognize when you've failed to meet those principles

cruiserkashima-deactivated20220

wolfertinger666

this is what call-out drama blogs on queer people look like to me.

wolfertinger666

i look out for the community by keeping track of every porn artist you follow and interact with

wolfertinger666

i keep everyone safe by finding every account you have even the ones you never linked publicly along with everything you have ever said online so I can interpret it in bad faith.

mousidy

a trans woman expressing love freely and openly to everyone in her life. a beautiful thing

mousidy

the damage done by the trans bathroom predator myth is impossible to overstate

to know that the myth permeates the space between you and everyone you meet, living in both of your minds whether either of you choose to believe it or not. it turns our love, our kindness, into a threat

performing indifference can become a kind of defense mechanism for us. a way of saying "hey, I have no interest in you, so you're safe from me"

even the smallest, most platonic acts of love or even kindness feel laced with the guilt of imagined violence

if a tgirl shows you love in any form, know that she's placing her trust in you

celestialorcas

actually to add to this, Ive noticed as a tgirl, anytime I'm affectionate with a person, I always end up overthinking afterwards that I manipulated them into it and they didnt want to (no matter how low key it is (even like holding hands-)), this isnt anything new either, been like it for as long as I've been out, and I think this ^^^^ is why

No matter how self confident we are, its hard to get out of your own head when very loud parts of society nowadays are talking about how fundamentally evil I am for just being a trans girl

mousidy

batter-sempai

THERE IS NO DELTARUNE

THERE IS NO SILKSONG

AND THERE IS NO QUEEN OF ENGLAND

dotclownetowne

beatricemeganblood

fanzines

'Transfem DIY HRT' and 'Transmasc DIY HRT' are a pair of zines aimed at teaching transgender people how to safely self-administer DIY Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT).

Both zines are 100% free to download here from Little Mouse (who also made the zine). Print, share and distribute to those who need it!

The information contained in this zine is collated from, and openly available from, DIYHRT.info.

peekthroughmyeyes

annabelle--cane

I've said this before but every basic feminism 101 women's empowerment event I've ever been to has been all about telling women and girls that it's okay to speak up for ourselves, it's okay to take up space, it's okay to be strong and fast and loud and hungry and sexy and smart and good at things without feeling shame, but apparently, with the way some people talk, the second a trans woman does any of these things it's evidence of "male socialization" and needs to be called out and "corrected." like, even if this were the case, which it isn't, I think it's patently insane to believe "it looks like these women don't have as much crushing shame from a lifetime of experiencing misogyny as most other women" (<- a claim that, from my experience, is simply not true about trans women) and then follow it up with "I must Fix This by teaching them to shut up and be ashamed" instead of, like, idk "good for them, I wish this type of liberation for all other women as well."

wushdxiuehciuhdoijei-deactivate

Similar for Black women (both trans and cis) who are told they are too aggressive or manly when they speak up or even just are presenting neutrally (not overly accommodating), but are interpreted as combative. For example in the workplace, having a neutral face with no smile being seen as “rude” and making everyone “uncomfortable,” and so they are told to force themselves to smile and become more chatty and submissive to make up for their Blackness which supposedly detracts from their womanhood, so they can finally be accepted as Real Women

sloppjockey

scenti. gouache on paper

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refractedglade

transfemstalin-deactivated20260

"trans women are pressured to undergo surgery to get anything close to the same amount of respect as their cisgender counterparts (already not much)" and "trans women deserve to feel comfortable in their bodies and this often includes surgery" are two things that coexist. they are both true things. you do not need to demonize surgery while making a point