Fandomland

A place where I collect all things meaningful to me. A place where I manage to ignore adulthood a little while longer. A place where I get to be myself more than in reality.

[whimsifae]

the most fun a girl can have is finding parallels, noticing patterns, making connections, contemplating

[miss-nerd-alert]

[recoverr-a-deactivated20210530]

good friends, good partners and good family exist. toxic and one-sided relationships are not the norm in life and you’ll find someday that healthy love is real. healthy relationships are real. healthy friendships exist and they’re not limited to your twenties, thirties or forties. you’ll find the right people for you.

[comfortfrogblog]

you will feel so alive again.. like so incredibly alive. i dont know when that will be but it will be. u are gonna feel so alive that ur cheeks hurt from smiling oh man oh man i promise that day is coming. you do have a future, you do have good things coming, and you’ll survive everything that’s thrown at you until you reach that day

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

shoutout to the really anxious people who face the world every day even though it makes their whole bodies freak out

[thememedaddy]

[brightlotusmoon]

[anxietyproblem]

[ampervadasz]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

No but seriously. Normalize finding love in your 40's. Normalize discovering and chasing new dreams in your 30's. Normalize finding yourself and your purpose in your 50's. Life doesn't end at 25. Let's stop acting like it does.

[official-boob-posts]

lainey molnar is actually one of the only good people on instagram

[lalalloronaa-deactivated2024041]

i sometimes forget that this is everyone’s first time on earth too. like. this is my first time seeing a butterfly this color. but its that little girl’s first time seeing any butterfly, ever. and i accidentally left a bag of groceries at the store after paying and now i’m cursing under my breath and it’s like. there a thousand other people out there who did that today too. and a thousand more from yesterday. and. like. we’re not actually alone. and we’re not actually failing. at least not in a way that a few billion people haven’t before you

[feelingsoftheday]

Remember that the right person will never get tired of you even in the worst times

[ryanthedemiguy]

No, they will! But they'll work through it, or walk away for a bit (i'm talking minutes to hours) and then come back.

People can love you and still need to get away from you for a bit. And there is nothing toxic about that — it's good, in fact. It helps remind everyone involved that everyone has boundaries, and everyone needs time to themselves.

It's okay. Calm down before you talk about something that made you angry while your loved one is sick. Be sure of what made you mad so you can discuss it together.

Love isn't a one-way street, and it's something that takes work. Part of that work is knowing when you need to step away.

[borderlinereminders]

Yes! I love this add on.

[borderlinereminders]

Friendly reminder that no one can give 100% all the time in a relationship. It is normal to fluctuate. Things will not always be 50/50. In fact, it’s rare they will be.

Sometimes, my depression is really bad and I’m only able to give 20%. My partner steps up and gives a bit more. Sometimes he’s have an exceptionally bad week at work, and I need to step up a bit.

This becomes a problem if it’s always one person giving all the effort. But it is absolutely normal for things to fluctuate and not be even all the time.

Sometimes both my partner and I can only give 40%. In those situations, we sit down and come up with possible compromises, a game plan and check in with each other when we can.

I bring this up in response to asks in my askbox about my “can you love me harder today?” post where they say that your loved ones should always love you as hard as possible. And it’s not realistic.

[a-skeleton-of-something-m0re]

Never thought about this but makes a lot of sense to me, have to keep it in mind even for friendships and familial relationships.

[borderlinereminders]

Yes. Re-sharing because this definitely applies to all relationships. Not just romantic ones.

[whatbigotspost]

From instagram

I had no fucking idea of the history of Adidas. They did just drop Kanye literal minutes ago as of posting this. But wow…….too little too late shit.

[looopylupin]

robin: wait so how many kids do you have??

steve: biologically, legally, or emotionally?

[pangur-and-grim]

so much care put into housing this aging spider. why are my eyes wet

(tiktok link)

[masque-de-nox]

Alien Scientist: No, you don’t understand. Humans will pack bond with anything.

[rongzhi]

A man in Inner Mongolia, China, comparing the sizes of goats at different ages.

English added by me :)