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I’M GONNA KILL YOU IF YOU DON’T BEAT ME TO IT

#new carrd new me #in vain #that’s my personal tag #abt #i use that pretty sparingly and usually for stuff that’s part of my blog theme #i think my new carrd looks pretty snazzy but i thought that about my last one #and i got embarrassed of that eventually too #anyway.#average phoebe bridgers stan

ferrethaver

women should get even more childless

grendel-menz

I hope you know that it’s always this

orpheuslament

lets out one truly pitiful little whimper & then goes back to doing fucking whatever

theunsubtleknife

Sci-fi short stories are so efficient; they take 15 minutes to read and then you think about them for the next 5 years

bonediggercharleston

Hey guys, what if *puts the most horrifying mindblowing concept into your head with about 15 pages*

broken-horn-of-equius

pure-presence

puttingherinhistory

Everyone has the potential to fall victim to being indoctrinated into a cult. Anyone can be sexually assaulted. Anyone can become a victim of an abusive relationship. Yes, even if you're intelligent and strong willed. Yes, even if you think you're tough and "don't take shit from anyone".

If you've never found yourself as the victim of a cult, or sexual assault, or abuse, the only thing separating you from people who have been victimized by cults / sexual assault / abuse is circumstance. That's it. Sheer luck. Luck over what family you were born into. Luck over who you were surrounded by when you were emotionally compromised or in any way vulnerable. Ect.

You are not better than people who have been victimized. They didn't do anything wrong to ask to be victimized. Anyone can be victimized by these situations given the perfect storm of circumstances. You are not better than people who have been victimized by cults / sexual assault / abuse.

You need to understand that if you are lucky enough to have never been victimized by cults / sexual assault / abuse, it's very little to do with how smart or strong you are or you doing all the "right" things. Someone can be smart and strong and do all the right things and still find themselves a victim given the perfect storm of bad circumstances.

The sooner this can be understood, the sooner we can do away with victim blaming culture. And the sooner we can do away with victim blaming culture the sooner atrocities like cults, sexual assault, and abuse can stop being so prolific. Victim blaming culture allows these atrocities to thrive. And they will continue to thrive until we shift the blame to where it rightfully belongs.