Barafundle Baying

Meg. Teen Wolf, Supernatural, Sherlock, Hannibal, Some One Direction, And Always Harry Potter.

[studentlifeproblems]

[beanixwright-deactivated2022030]

hot flaming take i’m abt to slap you with: it’s not acceptable to punish children for their grades, no matter the circumstances.

[beanixwright-deactivated2022030]

lost a follower for this one!

[transarsonist]

Any situation in which the grades are "bad enough to punish" is a situation in which your child is already struggling, and needs, more than anything, your support and affection.

If you punish them you will teach them nothing but how to loathe

[contentment-of-cats]

Can't reblog enough.

[thewizardofrhetkhonn]

This this this this this! Punishing your child for bad grades fucks them up in the long term and is, in my personally experienced opinion, a form of emotional abuse. I still have grade anxiety because of my mom's reactions to me getting fucking B's, not to mention an aversion to being proud of my grades because they were never good enough.

[captain-snark]

Also, it fucks you up when you see other kids getting paid for good grades when you already get them because anxiety and that is what is expected and it just shows you how the system works. 

[omghotmemes]

This is why they teach science & math in schools

[thesixthduke]

Osterley Park library.

[growaglow]

Source: livingaleatory

[everythingfox]

Resting Fox

📷: Shiro Sasaki

[mental-ch-illness]

me, as my laptop fan suddenly becomes louder: what is it?? what program?? who is doing this to you????

[sarahsoph]

*opening task manager* Who do I need to kill?

[queenhelenblackthorn]

A relevant thread

[isawagirlinmydreamsss]

As I kept reading my eyes got wider and wider

[official-book-wizard]

this is absolutely amazing

[mysharona1987]

[la-laborista-republiko]

Straight women should unionize

[witchaj]

What the actual FUCK

[thebestpersonherelovesbucky]

This right here is a HUGE red fucking flag. If you’re in a relationship with someone who wants complete control over finances, especially to the point where you don’t even have access to money, this is an attempt to control and isolate. They will use ALL sorts of excuses. “I’m better with money” “You spend too much” “You’re too impulsive” etc. It has nothing to do with looking out for you or money. It’s straight up abuse and will likely lead to worse.

[whereintheworldiskamalakhan]

Also, women need to be independent in every way they can. And they also need to know what’s going on with their finances, even if their husband makes all the decisions or whatever bs goes on. Because (true story), one day that husband could die and you’ll find out that you’re in a crazy amount of debt that you never knew about because he didn’t tell you shit and that gets to be a lovely surprise after the funeral.

[dancinbutterfly]

Women should ABSOLUTELY be independent and you should ABSOLUTELY keep your banking separate.

HOWEVER!

If you are in that circumstance?

Grocery shopping and gas stations and big box stores are your BEST friend. I know we’re in a pandemic but put on an N-95 and go. Use your debit card every time and take out 20-40 dollars each time you shop for these sorts of things because that doesn’t read as a withdrawal. It counts as part of the shopping. Women have been doing this for GENERATIONS now. My mother did it when my father was financially abusing her and she taught me and now? I pas this on to you.

Take your 20-40 dollars a trip and put the cash somewhere he won’t look.

Where won’t he look? With a friend who he doesn’t want to know. In the yard he expects you to care for. In the laundry he won’t do. In the kids room where he doesn’t go because that is your job. In the dog food he expects you to refill.

Or.

In you can take that money and put it a fucking bank he doesn’t use. Under your name and your name ONLY. Because when you leave him - which on average will take 7 attempts because thats how many times it takes to leave an abuser - you will need all the money you can squirrel away.  Depending on how often a woman runs absolutely necessary errands and how much money a family makes, she can squirrel away 1K+ in a year this way which may not seem like much but it’s enough for a softer landing than ZERO especially if she’s not working.

Take care of yourself ladies.

[elizabethleestorms]

Same goes for the opposite men. I’ve seen it happen where a woman controlled all the money and was financially abusing the man. It happens to everyone and keep yourself safe.

[jadedaceofspades-deactivated202]

And this isn’t a “straight” thing. It’s an abusive thing. 

[christel-thoughts]

Right, because if you don’t think this happens in queer relationships, you are sadly mistaken.

[fatimafares123]

Now YouTube has a habit of recommending me the weirdest stuff recently, but today i got this on my recommendations

And about halfway through listening to this, I went and read the comments, literally I could not stop reading I was there for hours, here are some of my favorites

[moonlit-grimoire]

First off, Oliviaalee's channel is a godsend for writing. My favorites right now are:

Give them a try here

Also...honorable mention

[safetytank]

[mntds]

[sosuperawesome]

Queer Chemistry Pride Pins / Stickers / Patches / T-Shirt

Yas Petit Poulet on Etsy

[justcatposts]

This giant mountain lion playing the shell game to win his favorite stuffed toy 

(Source)

[savitrireekbhawan]

I have always been obsessed with Victorian houses.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[lesbyterianchurch]

It’s that month again folks! Happy February.

[cystalreeds]

Bonus: