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“it isnt something you have to read critically” well 😭
this technically is true but I think this also perfectly encapsulates why I am inherently distrustful of like. “”cozy”” “turn your brain off” fiction lmfao. like okay WHO gets to turn their brain off and who has to suffer through bigoted caricatures of themselves while everyone else is having cozy silly no brain time 😐
Real talk tho yall why the hell are we using gender assigned at birth labels to identify “what kind” of nonbinary someone is. First of all AGAB was created by the intersex community to uplift their voices about medical discrimination. And for some reason, people saw it and went “oh goody!! A new box to shove nonbinaries into!!!!”
Yall. It’s not hard to say “person with breasts” or “person with a penis” or “person with a uterus” or “person who menstruates”. Like your “AGAB” doesn’t actually give anyone the information you think it does…
irritating as fuck when people get mad at Black people existing in premodern historical fiction/fantasy media. like first of all, you're racist. and second of all, you are acting as though Black people didn't exist in premodern Europe which is simply false. especially when we're talking about the Mediterranean, like what the fuck do you people think is along the southern half of the Mediterranean Ocean?? everyone's on boats, there are GOING to be interactions with Black people in Northern Africa, and there are GOING to be Black people in Mediterranean Europe. stop being stupid. your imagined homogeneous white European past is not historical reality, get over it you massive losers
always going to include this Psych reference
youre not yaoiful at all
Notice how you exclusively use the word *boy* to refer to trans MEN.
Stop infantilizing them. [Oops, that's transandrophobia!]
- sincerely, a tfemme sister.
Sister, I'm coming up on 40, I'm allowed to point out when men who are half my age are acting like immature boys.
Plus, not all of the people I'm referring to are men, some are masc, and I don't want to misgender them.
"boys" correctly describes the group that I'm referring to.
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If using men is supposedly incorrect, then so is using boys. It's the same concept just with some added infantilisation. What correctly describes the group you're referring to is trans men and trans mascs. That's it. There is no shorthand (such as "boys") that isn't either exclusionary or derogatory.
Yes. It was intentionally derogatory I order to describe their immaturity
So you're transphobic then, or just plain ignorant to the fact that not every acts like you. You're being derogatory to an oppressed group just because they aren't as mature as someone twice their age. Glad you're willing to admit that, although I highly doubt they're the immature ones in this situation.
someone has to tell them to snap out of it and stop treating women poorly
Are they treating women poorly, or are they (rightfully) treating you poorly because you're being an asshole to other trans people?
“Trans women who have/depict trans women with facial hair are engaging in self harm” is just word for word the kind of misogyny cis women have been lobbing at each other (especially butch/intersex/gnc women) for decades holy shit. Stop normalizing externalizing your internalized transmisogyny
gotta hate being affected by a unique intersection of transphobia and misogyny which is not allowed to be called transmisogyny but also isn’t allowed to be given any other name or else i’m evil
i suggest not letting it get this far
seeing young trans men saying how they feel so “validated” by people telling them to kill themselves because “at least they see me as a man” is actually so fucking sad. 15 year old trans boy you do not deserve to be treated like a monster because of the words you use for yourself and the goals you have for your body. you do not need to accept this kind of treatment from your own community in order to prove that you’re not a threat. you are a person. you are a person
Notice how you exclusively use the word *boy* to refer to trans MEN.
Stop infantilizing them. [Oops, that's transandrophobia!]
- sincerely, a tfemme sister.
Sister, I'm coming up on 40, I'm allowed to point out when men who are half my age are acting like immature boys.
Plus, not all of the people I'm referring to are men, some are masc, and I don't want to misgender them.
"boys" correctly describes the group that I'm referring to.
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If using men is supposedly incorrect, then so is using boys. It's the same concept just with some added infantilisation. What correctly describes the group you're referring to is trans men and trans mascs. That's it. There is no shorthand (such as "boys") that isn't either exclusionary or derogatory.
Yes. It was intentionally derogatory I order to describe their immaturity
So you're transphobic then, or just plain ignorant to the fact that not every acts like you. You're being derogatory to an oppressed group just because they aren't as mature as someone twice their age. Glad you're willing to admit that, although I highly doubt they're the immature ones in this situation.
we're all obsessed with material conditions until a trans guy exists and then what really matters is his male soul and the body it might hypothetically have in any number of situations that are not reality and have no bearing on it. "if trans men were cis they'd be cis men" "if trans men were cis they'd be cis women" it literally does not matter because we're not fucking cis
This isn’t feminism you’re being an asshole
"Trans men will never understand what it's like to have thousands of nazis attack you" Girl has no interest in the oppression of anyone but people like herself like
You look up Elliot Page and it's like the second thing that pops up
interestingly transitioning is not some magical way of becoming a feminist. youre just repackaging misogyny and throwing it at trans men like majority of us arent in a very similar boat and stand up for yall all the time. wake up, touch some grass, and talk to actual real life trans people. and maybe examine your biases and internalized misogyny.
-neither is being afab
-"repackaging misogyny" is extreme levels of projection
-harassing a trans woman advocating for herself is the opposite of standing up for yourself
-trans women do more to deconstruct internalized misogyny before we come out of the closet then most people ever do
-not being a feminist is usually dysphoria inducing for us
-y'all don't have that problem. You can transition and not even begin unpacking your misogyny, as is very clear to anyone who can see.
No one ever said being AFAB automatically makes your feminism.
Disliking you doesn't mean they're repacking misogyny. You do not represent every woman ever.
Complaining about other people isn't self-advocating.
Replacing your hatred of cis women for trans men doesn't mean you're a better person, it means you've found someone new to hate. You didn't deconstruct shit, you just redirected it.
Political beliefs don't have anything to do with dysphoria. Again, being a woman doesn't automatically make you a feminist, dysphoria doesn't change that.
This might be a shock to you, but most of your anons don't hate you because you're a woman. They hate you because you're an ignorant twat who believes that any problem that doesn't involve you is non-existent. You can't hide everything you do behind a shield of claimed misogyny.
you tell your average "trans ally" cis feminist that you're a trans man, and there's a nonzero chance she might hit you with the "oh, you look so convincing that I'd cover my drink around you!"
...sorry, you don't like being told you look like a rapist? but I'm being gender affirming! telling you that you look just like a real man! don't tell me you're "not all men"ing me. you're just like the rest of them. maybe you actually ARE a future rapist if my suspicion upsets you so much. you're so lucky I'm even entertaining you. man up and take it on the chin, or go back to being a girl if you're too much of a bitch for that.
(thus you leave the conversation feeling, well, it's better than being misgendered, I guess.)
if you told someone : "trans women are more likely to be seen as predatory and have to be careful in many interactions because their actions are likely to be seen in negative light"
and they removed the trans part and went: "no, women don't have to worry about being seen as predatory when interacting with people, either you are lying about that or you are not really a woman"
you would rightfully be pissed off
SO STOP REMOVING TRANS FROM TRANS MEN WHEN DISCUSSING ISSUES TRANS MEN FACE
