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Periods are canceled for 2018. This year, I don’t want to bleed unless it’s from a wound I earned in honorable combat.
how the human brain works:
electricity tickles the meat so that different slimes come out. sometimes the slime feels good sometimes bad. some people make more bad slime than good slime. that’s called clinical depression.
minority culture is being labelled too political because you dont want to be friends with people who literally dont think you should have the same rights as them
Thank you. I will
social media was a good development because back in ancient greece it didn’t exist and people would just be yelling their opinions in the city square instead and the only way to block them was murder or exile
the court of athens, sentencing socrates to death for “rotting the youth and disrespecting the gods”: blocked, unfollowed, reported
Batshit east coast weather has been messing with my sleep something fierce.
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ugh that lipstick is so GOOD on you it’s low key upsetting
As I was in the coffee shop this morning, the barista asked me. “Has anyone ever told you that you look like Daenerys Targaryen?”
lmao THIS HAPPENS SO MUCH
except now that I have buzzed hair, it’s more like Draco Malloy
i think the problem i have with doctors, as a disabled person, is that a lot of the time their aim is to make you the most visibly and physically abled bodied and not to actually better your quality of life
One nice thing about being a blind person:
Most men have so much internalized ableism that they see disabled women as totally non-sexual objects, so it would never occur to them to catcall you.
I was walking down the street w/my sight cane, looking cute af, when a car pulls up and some bro leans out....
“aaaaaaay mama I know you can’t see me, but you can hear me, and that ass is FINE”
it was surreal
Is it better to say low vision or vision impaired? Or is it a person by person decision?
For the most part they seem to be pretty interchangeable, but some people do prefer one over the other. There are also many of us who actually do not prefer any term like that at all, and actually just prefer “blind,“ as a much more straightforward, functional definition that doesn’t feel as clunky. For me, personally, “visually impaired“ and similar terms come with too many implications of visual strain and all of the terrible school officials that forced that terminology on me, when nowadays I can just ignore my eyes and be a lot happier, no matter how much residual vision I have. It feels too much like being called a broken sighted person, so I am much happier being a full and complete blind person.
A little bit of clarification:
Personally, I do not like any of those terms like “low vision“ or “visually impaired“ or “optically precluded“ or what have you, because frankly, most of those terms were created by sighted people, the sighted people who categorize and label is based on how much residual vision we have, creating a twisted hierarchy of “normal“ and “functional“ entirely based on how much vision we have left, something that is entirely false and incredibly damaging to every blind person’s psyche.
It does not, and I repeat it absolutely does NOT matter how much residual vision you have in the slightest. Every single blind or low vision person is capable of the exact same things, and more vision does not make you better or better off or more capable and less vision does not make you worse and worse off or less capable at all. A totally blind person can do everything just as efficiently and effectively as somebody who barely even crosses the threshold into legal blindness, because with the right skills, tools, confidence, and resources, any level of blindness can be reduced to no more than a mirror inconvenience, and that is entirely true.
So frankly, I don’t believe in the visual hierarchy, and while I used to use terms like “visually impaired“ as my primary identification when I was younger, those days were very much the days fraught with internalized ableism and painfully low self-esteem and a desperate desire to cling onto whatever vision I had left, thinking more was better no matter what. I didn’t know a lick of braille, I never left the house by myself and refused to go out at night, I used ridiculous magnification system after ridiculous magnification system to read at a crawling 30 words per minute, but I thought because I “didn’t need a cane“ that I was fine and wasn’t “really blind“ and would never be like those REAL blind people. They were pitiful and I wasn’t pitiful. And more often than not, it seems most other people who use those terms tend to also be using them with similar motivations to my younger self, and it is an incredibly common story.
This isn’t to say that people are not allowed to use the language they want, because people can have all sorts of reasons for choosing the words they do, and they may not be choosing them out of internalized ableism and may have completely different motives. And even if they are using those terms because of internalized ableism, that is a journey that they will need to take for themselves and they may not be ready for the word “blind“ and it is not a journey you can force the ending you think it should have on too. Everyone is at different places, and part of being a community is taking everyone where they are and allowing them to grow at their own pace.
But I, personally, am not fond of those terms, and will not typically use them on this blog and I’m not especially comfortable being referred to with them. I have residual vision, as many blind people do, but I am a very capable blind person who is no better than any other blind person with any less vision than me. I am not fond of using terms created by uneducated sighted “professionals,“ and I am not comfortable reinforcing the visual hierarchy, so I much prefer to remain universally with blindness in all areas of life.
This quote sums up my feelings perfectly:
“For me, personally, “visually impaired“ and similar terms come with too many implications of visual strain and all of the terrible school officials that forced that terminology on me, when nowadays I can just ignore my eyes and be a lot happier, no matter how much residual vision I have.”
And sighted people DO NOT GET IT but life as a person with residual vision is always easier when you IGNORE YOUR SIGHT and do things the blind way. It’s usually safer, less complicated, and better at getting the job done. This is why embracing my identity as a blind person directly led to a better quality of life for me.
In my case, “using my residual vision” can be painful and exhausting and unreliable. This is why I will choose to not do something if I feel like I have to rely on my vision as my only option. COULD I walk around my city without my cane or my guide dog and get to a destination? Probably. But I would also be 100x more likely to be hit by a car that I didn’t see or walk into a man-hole.
I’m starting to just refer to myself as blind for a lot of these reasons, which is v hard and scary bc internalized ableism is A Thing - plus 27 years of being told how!! well!! I!! do!! for someone with as limited vision as me!!
anyway, make your activism accessible but not just physically. describe your images and videos. blind and d/Deaf/hoh people are activists too, and we deserve to know what that screenshot or video says too.
Call your local abled “differently disabled” to make their day!
y do men have to be told that not everyone wants to see their genitals?? like shouldn’t that be a given??? y r u guys like this???
Cool so it’s really fuckin offensive that you group all men together like that. That would be like me saying “why do all women bitch about their friends behind their back?” It’s just not true about everyone.
Lmao but you’re forgetting - the majority of dick pics are unsolicited sexual harassment. Apples and oranges, dude.
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Real talk, I have a wonderful circle of friends who are very aware of mental illness and trauma, but I really want to form connections with other blind/VI or Deaf/HOH folks.
I just feel very alone, a lot of the time. My functional vision is getting worse, and I would kill to have a community who could really relate.