like i assure you, you can 100% feel awkward around kids and not know what to do because you havenāt been socialised in spaces where you learned how to properly care for and deal with children without sayingĀ āew i hate themā. just say youāre not comfortable around them because you donāt know what to do, thatās a valid feeling that a lot of people share. donāt say you HATE them bc u donāt know how to handle yourself and therefore project your insecurities on them. like they arenāt the vessels for your feelings of inadequacy, they arenāt a blank canvas to project your issues on. theyāre innocent.













