[bigbraidenergy]

˖ ࣪ . ࿐ ♡ ˚ goodbye, darling. i'll see you in hell.

tiff,  she/her,  lesbian,  29,  disabled, oct.  scorpio,  oglala lakota.

anonymous asks will remain off for the sake of my sanity. this place is a wild, horrifying scape that i'm not currently equipped to handle. lmao. if you'd like to ask me questions in regards to content or literally anything else, def feel free to reach out! i promise i'm nice

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[vulturevanity]

I think we need to kill the sentiment that people lose their right to personhood once they do something bad enough

[vulturevanity]

I don't know who needs to hear this but you need to stop dehumanising people even if those people are "abusers" or "creeps" because you need to understand that you are not immune to doing something equally as bad

Abusers and creeps are not some species of especially heinous animal or alien or monster wearing the face of a human. They're people. And you NEED to drill it into your head that they are people because you NEED to remember that people are capable of doingn heinous shit. And you are a person. And your loved ones are people.

By emotionally classifying people who have done heinous things as subhuman filth incapable of thinking and feeling and acting just like you and me, and by using that emotional dehumanization as a reason to deny those people any compassion or support on a systemic level, you risk becoming blind to abuse/violence perpetrated by someone close to you or even yourself. Because if "abusers don't deserve rights", then you won't ever want to admit or accept that you or a loved one is perpetrating abuse, and that makes stopping the abuse or preventing further abuse much harder. This is how you end up excuaing abusive behaviour on the grounds that, since you don't see someone as a disgusting subhuman pile of garbage therefore they can't possibly be An Abuser, Trademark

[vulturevanity]

And here's the even harder pill to swallow: since the world isn't split into "abusers" and "good people", in the same way you or someone you love can inflict abuse/violence on others, the people who HAVE inflicted abuse/violence on others can, in fact, change and become better people

There is no bottomless chasm of moral uncleanliness that someone can run off and fall into and get stuck in forever. People can do better. Yes, even those people. You HAVE to accept this. Otherwise not only is there no motivation for anyone to try and do better (which is when people become stuck in a cycle of violence and abuse they don't want to escape), but your idea of a perfect justice system doesn't look any different from Literal Christian Hell. And I HOPE you understand that Literal Christian Hell is, to put it very lightly, not a good justice system.

[vulturevanity]

I think we need to kill the sentiment that people lose their right to personhood once they do something bad enough

[vulturevanity]

I don't know who needs to hear this but you need to stop dehumanising people even if those people are "abusers" or "creeps" because you need to understand that you are not immune to doing something equally as bad

Abusers and creeps are not some species of especially heinous animal or alien or monster wearing the face of a human. They're people. And you NEED to drill it into your head that they are people because you NEED to remember that people are capable of doingn heinous shit. And you are a person. And your loved ones are people.

By emotionally classifying people who have done heinous things as subhuman filth incapable of thinking and feeling and acting just like you and me, and by using that emotional dehumanization as a reason to deny those people any compassion or support on a systemic level, you risk becoming blind to abuse/violence perpetrated by someone close to you or even yourself. Because if "abusers don't deserve rights", then you won't ever want to admit or accept that you or a loved one is perpetrating abuse, and that makes stopping the abuse or preventing further abuse much harder. This is how you end up excuaing abusive behaviour on the grounds that, since you don't see someone as a disgusting subhuman pile of garbage therefore they can't possibly be An Abuser, Trademark

[perfectday1972]

[onadera2-deactivated20140504]

[velcroing my shoes] i dont know when i’ll be back sweetheart

[64mpg]

ads targeted to women: omg you are thirtyyyy. kill yourself

[flannelgirlfriend]

I love this post so much my friend put it on my 30th birthday cake

[oppalus]

♡ INTRO + PLAYLIST TEMPLATE— love or hate.

two (2) free templates made from scratch and fully customizable. even when text, colors, and images can be changed easily, you’ll need to know how to use the clipping mask and how to change the bending option of each layer.

credits: cocogoose, letter gothic std. these fonts can be found for free, but let me know if you need help with them!

as usual, don’t claim this as your own and reblog if you find it useful.

[hclygifs]

Ꮺ MATTHEW LAW — NEMESIS (2026) GIF PACK (wip)

in the source link, you’ll gain access to #245 medium gifs of MATTHEW LAW in the series, nemesis (2026), that are suitable for roleplays.  please cast appropriately when using these gifs . all of these were made from scratch by me, so you may edit them,  but please do not reclaim as your own! this gif pack is FREE , so I kindly ask that you just reblog/like if you use them . if not it will result in a block .

[bigbraidenergy]

Congestive heart failure, blindness, diabetes, mobility issues (walks with a cane on a good day, typically uses a wheelchair or other assistive device), chronic anxiety, and medication that inhibits heat response, are all some of the medical things my in-laws, Brian and Tina, deal with.

TLDR: this is a gofundme to help my very disabled in-laws get safe housing, as they are currently suffering in a 100F heat wave with no AC. gofundme linked!

These difficulties are a struggle on any typical day, so you can only assume how awful it's been to have these issues with a broken HVAC during a heat wave that has been plaguing them with an average heat index of 100F or more for over a week now.

They were told their HVAC is not just broken, but an outdated system, in which acquiring the parts is only a couple hundred cheaper than replacing the entire system.

So, their stress skyrockets when they're quoted a price of about $5,700 when they were already trying and struggling to save up money to relocate.

For over a year, we have been trying to save enough funds to get Brian and Tina moved to Nebraska, close to my wife and I, so we can help them manage their health. Issue, after issue, after issue — such as this situation with the HVAC — keeps coming up and preventing them from moving.

This fundraiser is to help my aged and disabled parents find relief and comfort after all this time. Relief from the heat, and/or relief that if any health emegencies were to arise, they'd be near family, especially seeing as Tina is also losing vision and should no longer be driving anywhere. My brother-in-law is currently their unofficial live-in caretaker, but has his own health problems and difficulties with driving, and cannot carry the weight of being a caretaker on his own anymore.

Any and all contributions will be either put toward GOAL A or GOAL B, depending on how quickly we can find them a place to move into, if at all.

GOAL A: any and all funds will be put toward their move, such as helpers, a uHAUL, gas, a deposit on a new place, etc.

GOAL B: any and all funds will be put toward the HVAC system.

DISCLAIMER: My father-in-law made me read this to him to make sure it was what he wanted to post. What he doesn't know is that I'm going to add in a bit of information of my own... Tina and Brian are some of the nicest people I have ever met. When I met their daughter, they welcomed me with open arms and made me feel like I belonged there. I found in Brian a father I never had. And despite being far from made of money, they've never hesitated to help us when we need it most, in any way that they could. They have a hair metal, dad rock, nerdy as all hell, friends with anyone type of aesthetic, and they represent it so well. If anyone deserves a little helping hand... it's them.

Thank you so much for your consideration and kindness. Asking for help is a hard thing to do, so your generosity really means the world.

NO AI WAS USED TO WRITE THIS.

YOU CAN DONATE HERE AT GOFUNDME

if you'd prefer a different funding option, such as ko-fi, you can find that here or dm me for other options, but gofundme is preferred.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANY SHARE, DONATION, ETC!!!

[bigbraidenergy]

how do people find discord 1x1 partners anymore

i need a hoe that wants to world build and be super annoying w me

[bigbraidenergy]

could write a whole essay rn thinking about the correlation between mordern transphobia and the witch panic of colonial america

[lomagiffing]

hi folks! i haven't done this in a bit, but i am finally finishing the current packs on my list. so this is a reminder that commissions are open and there are currently 5 slots available for new ones. since i did have a few extra bills this past month i'm in need of some extra money, which means:

any packs over 250 gifs have a 15% discount

any packs over 450 gifs have a 20% discount

i'm also open to negotiating prices and doing pay what you can. packs can be kept private without and extra fee.

as usual the form is in source and my chat/discord is open for messages, thank you all for the support!

[nosimpincurly]

You’re not depressed. You just need $250,000 in your bank account.

[catherinebunnington]

Reblog to materialize $250,000 in prev's bank account

[bigbraidenergy]

Congestive heart failure, blindness, diabetes, mobility issues (walks with a cane on a good day, typically uses a wheelchair or other assistive device), chronic anxiety, and medication that inhibits heat response, are all some of the medical things my in-laws, Brian and Tina, deal with.

TLDR: this is a gofundme to help my very disabled in-laws get safe housing, as they are currently suffering in a 100F heat wave with no AC. gofundme linked!

These difficulties are a struggle on any typical day, so you can only assume how awful it's been to have these issues with a broken HVAC during a heat wave that has been plaguing them with an average heat index of 100F or more for over a week now.

They were told their HVAC is not just broken, but an outdated system, in which acquiring the parts is only a couple hundred cheaper than replacing the entire system.

So, their stress skyrockets when they're quoted a price of about $5,700 when they were already trying and struggling to save up money to relocate.

For over a year, we have been trying to save enough funds to get Brian and Tina moved to Nebraska, close to my wife and I, so we can help them manage their health. Issue, after issue, after issue — such as this situation with the HVAC — keeps coming up and preventing them from moving.

This fundraiser is to help my aged and disabled parents find relief and comfort after all this time. Relief from the heat, and/or relief that if any health emegencies were to arise, they'd be near family, especially seeing as Tina is also losing vision and should no longer be driving anywhere. My brother-in-law is currently their unofficial live-in caretaker, but has his own health problems and difficulties with driving, and cannot carry the weight of being a caretaker on his own anymore.

Any and all contributions will be either put toward GOAL A or GOAL B, depending on how quickly we can find them a place to move into, if at all.

GOAL A: any and all funds will be put toward their move, such as helpers, a uHAUL, gas, a deposit on a new place, etc.

GOAL B: any and all funds will be put toward the HVAC system.

DISCLAIMER: My father-in-law made me read this to him to make sure it was what he wanted to post. What he doesn't know is that I'm going to add in a bit of information of my own... Tina and Brian are some of the nicest people I have ever met. When I met their daughter, they welcomed me with open arms and made me feel like I belonged there. I found in Brian a father I never had. And despite being far from made of money, they've never hesitated to help us when we need it most, in any way that they could. They have a hair metal, dad rock, nerdy as all hell, friends with anyone type of aesthetic, and they represent it so well. If anyone deserves a little helping hand... it's them.

Thank you so much for your consideration and kindness. Asking for help is a hard thing to do, so your generosity really means the world.

NO AI WAS USED TO WRITE THIS.

YOU CAN DONATE HERE AT GOFUNDME

if you'd prefer a different funding option, such as ko-fi, you can find that here or dm me for other options, but gofundme is preferred.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANY SHARE, DONATION, ETC!!!

[sherlock]

He's not gay

Yes he is

[bigbraidenergy]

Congestive heart failure, blindness, diabetes, mobility issues (walks with a cane on a good day, typically uses a wheelchair or other assistive device), chronic anxiety, and medication that inhibits heat response, are all some of the medical things my in-laws, Brian and Tina, deal with.

TLDR: this is a gofundme to help my very disabled in-laws get safe housing, as they are currently suffering in a 100F heat wave with no AC. gofundme linked!

These difficulties are a struggle on any typical day, so you can only assume how awful it's been to have these issues with a broken HVAC during a heat wave that has been plaguing them with an average heat index of 100F or more for over a week now.

They were told their HVAC is not just broken, but an outdated system, in which acquiring the parts is only a couple hundred cheaper than replacing the entire system.

So, their stress skyrockets when they're quoted a price of about $5,700 when they were already trying and struggling to save up money to relocate.

For over a year, we have been trying to save enough funds to get Brian and Tina moved to Nebraska, close to my wife and I, so we can help them manage their health. Issue, after issue, after issue — such as this situation with the HVAC — keeps coming up and preventing them from moving.

This fundraiser is to help my aged and disabled parents find relief and comfort after all this time. Relief from the heat, and/or relief that if any health emegencies were to arise, they'd be near family, especially seeing as Tina is also losing vision and should no longer be driving anywhere. My brother-in-law is currently their unofficial live-in caretaker, but has his own health problems and difficulties with driving, and cannot carry the weight of being a caretaker on his own anymore.

Any and all contributions will be either put toward GOAL A or GOAL B, depending on how quickly we can find them a place to move into, if at all.

GOAL A: any and all funds will be put toward their move, such as helpers, a uHAUL, gas, a deposit on a new place, etc.

GOAL B: any and all funds will be put toward the HVAC system.

DISCLAIMER: My father-in-law made me read this to him to make sure it was what he wanted to post. What he doesn't know is that I'm going to add in a bit of information of my own... Tina and Brian are some of the nicest people I have ever met. When I met their daughter, they welcomed me with open arms and made me feel like I belonged there. I found in Brian a father I never had. And despite being far from made of money, they've never hesitated to help us when we need it most, in any way that they could. They have a hair metal, dad rock, nerdy as all hell, friends with anyone type of aesthetic, and they represent it so well. If anyone deserves a little helping hand... it's them.

Thank you so much for your consideration and kindness. Asking for help is a hard thing to do, so your generosity really means the world.

NO AI WAS USED TO WRITE THIS.

YOU CAN DONATE HERE AT GOFUNDME

if you'd prefer a different funding option, such as ko-fi, you can find that here or dm me for other options, but gofundme is preferred.

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANY SHARE, DONATION, ETC!!!

[tidesandtwilight]

what is with the cop hate??

Oh sorry for the confusion. It’s because I hate cops