[raulimages]

[im-mender]

Smoking on that we'd

[what-if-i-just-did]

Tumblr as the loud, alt, gnc nerd with coloured hair, a ton of Pride pins, and lots of merch

Ao3 as the quiet, unassuming book nerd that's secretly freaky as fuck

Does anyone else see my vision

[strangestcase]

and they’re both racist

[mrhealyourgirl]

and they're both racist

[wizardarchetypes]

i think avoidance is such a little-recognized ocd compulsion. all the time i talk to people with ocd who are like "i was always having intrusive thoughts about using kitchen knives and harming myself or others but i'm okay now because i just stopped using knives ever 👍 so i'm good now"

and i'm like unfortunately i have bad news.

[wizardarchetypes]

if you don't know why this doesn't work, the issue is that ocd never stops when you implement a compulsion. it evolves. today you've "solved" it by never using a knife again (and losing access to an important cooking tool, thus limiting an aspect of your life) but in a few months or a year it'll be that forks are dangerous too. and hey, isn't it risky to use the stove? avoidance will even begin to manifest in places you might not recognize.

the point is that OCD compulsions are never solutions, they're actually the problems. the intrusive thoughts SEEM like the problem and the compulsions FEEL like the solution. and that's how it getsya.

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31912219-8048-1434 - Whiteboard Fox

Whiteboard Fox is a simple online whiteboard that allows you to collaborate with others in real time.

so @lovingtogekiss and i made an Addison Whiteboard,

no overly 18+ content

no griefing

secret third thing

draw as many addisons as you possibly can. i have to drop this and run right now but i hope whoever joins has fun?!

[infectiouspiss]

blowjob? more like nojob! #unemployed

[thegenderdruid]

blowjob? more like job blows! #employed

[live-long-and-pasta]

[thebaconspider]

Updated my commission info:

i'll work on making a comm sheet i can post on its own soon

examples can be found at my art blog dm me either here or on that blog if you're interested

[thebaconspider]

Commissions will be closed for about a week because I'm going to be away from my computer.

Should be able to reopen early june!

[thebaconspider]

I'm back at my computer so comms are open again!

[severalcomic]

RELIEVED OF DUTY

[sp1resong]

great post everyone hit the towers

[parabolic-antenna]

‘was it you* who was mad at me that one time’ is the system equivalent of ‘were you on your period when you were mad at me’

*you as in the headmate the person asking you this knows you as and probably sees as more important than the other ones

[parabolic-antenna]

both carrying the underlying assumption of ‘you would never be mad at me if you were in your right mind’

[patches-of-our-soul]

shoutout to the headmates with questionable sources.

to the headmates who can't talk about their sources.

to the headmates who feel ashamed about what their sources were about, even if they're disconnected from the events in that source.

to the headmates who can't talk about their source without fearing people will go "oh... okay" and never look at you the same way again.

to the headmates who had no say in how they came to be or why they came to be.

to the headmates who think they'll be shunned for talking about how they formed.

to the headmates who hate their brain for forming them how it did.

to the headmates who can't talk about their origin at all.

shoutout to the headmates who can't talk about any of these things for whatever reason.

[homoeroticjunoincident]

being ace will have you thinking things like ‘i would love being gay if i was gay’

[black-quadrant]

ADHD affects how I experience time, not how I experience attachment. I love you. I miss you. I just don't realize how long it’s been since I last said that, let alone messaged.

I understand that most normal functioning brains need regular engagement to maintain a bond. Absence doesn’t diminish my affection. My silence isn’t neglect or disinterest. It’s time blindness and object impermanence. The contact gap is purely neurological, not emotional. Thank you for being patient with my inconsistency and holding a seat in your heart for me.

[quastions-i-dont-ask-on-main]

Hello, Tumblr user. Here's a non-binary character who uses they/them. Their ASAB isn't relevant at all for the story and everyone regardless of relationship uses they/them for them and they're trans. Your challenge will be to not try to sniff out their ASAB. Go---- oh you're already telling other people who don't agree with you they're wrong and bigoted for hcing it different from you. Okay.

[birdboy-blues]

13. what's something you learned recently?

people can be nicies to me without ulterior motives

[birdboy-blues]

birboy

tobekith

[sesamie]

simple asks to help bolster ask culture again

What's your blog title from?

What movie have you watched most recently? What did you think of it?

what are you looking forward to right now?

if you could do anything at all today, what would it be?

What's your drink of choice? (Coffee/tea order, alcohol of choice, pop, etc)

What's your hair routine like? Anything special?

what's your favorite way to travel? Is there a mode of travel you haven't done that you want to experience?

favorite month of the year and why?

favorite time of day and why?

do you play or follow any sports? & elaborate on that?

what kind of music is stuck in your head a lot lately?

dishes or laundry?

what's something you learned recently?

if you could give a TED talk on anything, what would you talk about?

What's a piece of advice you find yourself giving a lot?

what's a piece of advice you would give to yourself five years ago?

do you believe in luck and superstition? Do you carry any lucky items or follow any lucky rules?

Are you musical? Play any instruments or sing? Would you ever perform for an audience?

Write, type, or speak?

what do you wish someone would ask you?

[landmineblogging]

i really hope all the kindness you've given in soft moments is returned to you when you need it most