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Every time something I say gets a negative reaction I remove it from the mental container of "things I can say". Which means eventually I will reach zero sayable words. And then I win, roll credits

robotslenderman

I’m sorry my lovelies but the reason you hate yourself is because you treat you like shit. If you came up to me and then told me I was a fuck up who could never do anything right I'd fucking hate you too.

robotslenderman

if you didn't let me go to bed until after midnight because you'd rather watch Netflix than let me rest, and then got mad at me for not being productive the next day I'd be PISSED

robotslenderman

You keep calling me a fatass but you tell other overweight people they’re beautiful? Why do you keep shitting on MY weight, then?

Oh? It’s different if it’s me? Wow fuck you too

robotslenderman

Love is a verb! Self love isn’t a warm fuzzy feeling, it is compassion and action in support of yourself!

And yes, this includes having compassion for the bully in your head. Unfortunately that part is also you and deserves as much of your understanding as the rest of you.

#affirmations #mmng

tsarina-anadyomene

i kind of hate it when they cast the same 10 superstars who are in literally everything in a movie. celebrity-sickness

tsarina-anadyomene

not every movie needs to be an ensemble cast of timothee chalamet, zendaya, tom holland, robert pattinson, and anya taylor-joy

psychresources

Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD) resources masterlist

(Please check the original post for updates before reblogging!) Last update: May 25, 2026

General

Optimal, adequate, and disordered functioning for personality disorders

Personality disorder information masterpost

hammersys's AvPD resources masterlist

Education

What is AvPD?

AvPD comic

AvPD checklist*

A different AvPD resources masterlist

AvPD info carrd*

General personality disorder information masterpost

Symptoms of AvPD

AvPD symptoms and characteristics

AvPD, NPD, and SzPD

AvPD vs NPD

AvPD vs SzPD

Extroversion in AvPD

Recovery

Overcoming AvPD 101: the basics

What is AvPD and how do I manage it? YouTube video (12 minutes)

How to cope with AvPD, with exercises (focused on working with your partner / safe person)

5 ways to cope with and recover from AvPD

Self-help, treatment, and supporting a loved one with AvPD

Tips from someone with AvPD who recovered (Reddit post)

Relationship tips for people who have AvPD loved ones

How to care for a friend with AvPD

Overcoming avoidance workbook

AvPD and social anxiety self-help masterpost

Community

r/AvPD subreddit

r/AvPD discord**

A forum for AvPD

@avpdculture

@avpd--culture-is

@npd-avpd-culture-is

@avpdvoidspace

@avpdcommunity (old + inactive now but lots of good information)

*Disclaimer: the DSM is flawed; take its criteria with a grain of salt.

**I am not in this discord and don't know what it's like.

#resources

ingestiblechaos

hey so im glad that you take care of your body even when your brain tells you not to <3

wizardshark

Listen I get it but you CANNOT use "sensory nightmare" as an excuse to avoid essential things. You HAVE to find a way to make it work, such as finding effective alternatives. But you can't just avoid it.

You need to eat some vegetables in your diet or you will become a lich.

You have to wear a life jacket or you will literally drown and die.

You need to be able to exist in public spaces with children.

You have to find a way.

wizardshark

good LORD the piss is flying all over the place in that comment section! If you're poor do NOT leave your house you're definitely gonna get caught in the crossfire.

molabuddy

i accidentally clicked onto and off of the "explore" page very quickly, and in the second or so that the explore page was onscreen i saw a beautiful photoshopped image that may infact be nothing like how i saw it due to the speed at which it appeared and disappeared.... but still. what i saw was beautiful

it looked like this

saltedsour

dw i got u i am obsessed.with this image

molabuddy

OGH MY GOD. YES THANK YOU THATS HIM

halondrus

Grabbing an elf by the ears like handlebars and riding them but not like in a sexual way i just crash into a wall killing us both

boobachu

fooliofailure

bro thay put transgender in me

fooliofailure

you’re good queen. i mispelt “they”. Some kind of yrbasgender i am. i deserve to have it suques out of me likr a ksoquito

odumb-deactivated20220303

till deactivation do us part

flightyfinch

im so sad this is from a deactivated blog i feel like i just found a heartfelt message in an old locket at a garage sale

rubysapphrald

i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people

rubysapphrald

people with ARFID and people with very few autism safe foods and people with contamination OCD and people in ED recovery and everyone else with a complicated relationship with food that no one takes seriously GET BEHIND ME!!!!!!!

swiftlark

hot take possibly? but i actually think it’s okay for things to be marketed for adults. it’s literally okay if things aren’t suitable for children. i feel like we are losing the plot

zoestorm

Correct. Furthermore: children bending or breaking the rules to get a peek at something that's not intended for them is a part of growing up.

podcastwizard

you don’t realize how important lunch is until you’re wandering around thinking about how unloveable and untalented and uniquely cursed you are and then it’s 4pm and you finally eat lunch and you go Oh. oh right.

podcastwizard

lot of people commenting on this post like "who eats lunch at 4pm that's a terrible time to eat lunch" yes. that is the point. 4pm lunch is inadvisable. 4pm lunch is not the ideal. 4pm lunch makes the mind demons real.